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What is your favourite TV show?
Because I cannot answer just one, here are some shows I can watch constantly and never get bored:
Firefly Supernatural The Untamed Parks & Rec Futurama Sense8 Orphan Black Doctor Who Star Trek (TOS, TNG & Picard) Steven Universe Star vs the Forces of Evil
P.S. This week has been super crazy with work, so I'll play catch-up on the dailies I missed this weekend
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What is your favourite TV show?
Wait... you're making me choose?! YOU MONSTER!! D:
Actually if I had to pick I'd go for either:
The Witcher Rick and Morty The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina
I value honest communication the most.
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Today's question:
Are you or do you want to be a parent?
Today's question was provided by . Thank <3
My personal answer:
I do not want children. I'm still very young and believe in the saying "never say never" but adoption would be the only compromise I'd be willing to go for. I won't go into detail as to why I don't want children. It's not like I have anything to hide, but I have some strong views and if you are interested, I'd be more than happy to share them with you privately (just shoot me a comment or smail) but I wouldn't want to step on anyone's toes here.
for julian
About your gender identity, if you would like to marry and you found someone you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with, would your gender identity even matter? :) I think that shouldn't be holding you back from your wish to marry since your partner will probably love you for who you are including your gender fluidity :)
for Lucian
That big brother wish of yours is beautiful! I really hope you will find this special someone you can look up to, confide in and who takes care of you :)
for katastrophyi
How has your mental state been? I really hope you are ok <3
I really liked your paradoxes, especially the ship one! Truly mindboggling...
for morgen
Wait wait wait. You would like to reverse time in order not to get married?! Which ultimately means you were married? I mean I could see you dressed up in a squid costume throwing the bridal bouquet at some drunken underage rich kids after a fun Vegas wedding but other than that...? 😂
I totally understand that you don't like others to make decisions for you. And the reason why I have really long hair because no one will notice if you don't cut it for half a year or longer (if you don't take too close of a look at my split ends xD )
Well the text about the ENFJ was saying that they were gathering people around themselves knowing of the effect they have on others in order to manipulate them so that they can get virtually whatever they want. That obviously offended me at first but then I thought maybe they are right. I didn't think I'd intentionally manipulate people, at least not intentionally though...
Hahah you are indeed a horrible fun fact teller xD but hey it's for the greater good and if people who read your post maybe not bother the next wild animal they encounter out of fear of leprocy, hepatitis or herpes for all I care, I'd be super happy xD But for real, answers can neither be good or bad, but I suggest that of you want other questions, give me some ;P
for Sensuous
I am so sorry! How are you doing now dear? I completely understand that the current situation must weigh hard on you for various reasons and I really hope it will get better soon!
for February30th
What a beautiful paradox! Wouldn't have thought that you, the semi lone wolf, would post it though. Quite surprising :)
for you
Absolutely! I hope you don't let other people influence your choices
and opinions too much :)
for ice
Your HA is stunning <3 The dress is probably one of my top five CWs ever, I love wearing it! 😍
for movie
Welcome to the thread! :)
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Aw, thanks, I gotta find a better matching shoe. I was hoping to use this dress to trade for another color that matches my wardrobe better, but this one is growing on me, hehehe.
I'm a kitty mama foreva ❤ But, on a more serious note, I'm really coming to terms with not having children. I think I thought I would consider it more in my early forties, but I have realized that, that isn't really realistic. And, you can say you don't want to have kids, but there is a lot of gravity that goes with that, that I don't think you realize without devoting a lot of intentional thought to the subject. So, yes, no babies for me, but I'm still coming to terms with what that really means.
EDIT I didn't see your response to the question before posting. When I say "you" I mean more of a generalized "you" and more of an inflection. It has been on my mind more lately and I try to let myself feel all of the feelings that may be "longing" just to make sure I understand what I am feeling before "it's too late." I have dreams about having babies, but I also have dreams about a lot of weird stuff so I am trying to make sure my heart can handle not having kids. And, I appreciate what you said about having strong opinions and feelings about personally having children--and, I think that is great! I think everyone should be super intentional about having children or not having them.
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Are you or do you want to be a parent?
I definitely don't want children. It's sad that even in this day and age some people just will not accept that answer. At least online I run into more people who feel the same way. Whatever someone's reasons are for not wanting children, they're valid and they don't have to share those reasons if they don't want to!
For Minty
My girlfriend accepts my identity, it's just that because my identity changes a lot I don't know how I'll feel about wearing a dress, a tux, whatever later on and I don't want to feel bad about whatever I choose at the time, haha. Being genderfluid can be hella inconvenient at times because I get really dysphoric and pictures/videos of myself can be upsetting. So that's my main reason about not being sure about having a ceremony, besides money and stuff.
No not an old, obsolete model like me. If it doesn't happen by 40, its not going to happen at all. I'm 38 now.
Husband, father... I may as well be dead.
Someday I'll tell that person, "guys like me don't exist". And walk away in silence.
Tomorrow is my first in-person shop for the fall semester. At least Thursdays I'll be busy with homework and shop assignments. Engine diagnostics and repair is closer to what I've done with my friend all those weekends.
I have 2 boys who I adore but certainly wouldn’t have anymore. My 8 year old has autism and I feel it would be selfish to have more when he could really do with my extra time and attention. (He wasn’t diagnosed before I had my other almost 4 year old).
I didn’t want kids though all the way up to the age of 24 and then bam I really wanted them :p
I don't want children and don't think I will ever change my opinion. I don't think I will ever want to adopt either. Motherhood is just not for me.
Today's question:
What is your favourite idiom?
My personal answer: I like "like a bull in a China shop" since first and foremost, the imagery is hilarious but additionally I can relate to it xD Fun fact: in German we have the same idiom but in our case we actually have an elephant in the China shop. And another idiom which varies in different languages is the "cat got your tongue" one. In French, the cat is actually inside your throat and in German we have a frog in our throat. I find that development incredibly fascinating!
for julian
You are so right! I find it so rude for people to think they have the right to argue that decision for you. Sure, I appreciate well-meaning advice but at the end of the day, everyone needs to tolerate individual decisions.
for Lucian
That big brother wish of yours is beautiful! I really hope you will find this special someone you can look up to, confide in and who takes care of you :)
for morgen
I did seriously not expect that o: I am really sorry that that special day was not the most beautiful one for you. I hope in case you ever decide again to get married that it will be in your style and that you will feel comfortable.
I would love to read those questions, but no pressure, Morgen :)
There will always be questions some people like and others dislike. And that's ok :)
for February30th
For me, the new semester begins on Monday. There will only be online courses so hands-on experience and fun with my friends will sadly be scarce :/
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Are you or do you want to be a parent?
I really would, but for now I have my Furbaby called Molly - a black and white cat whose so insanely fluffy it's just... insane! Although to be honest with you, me and the Boyfriend have already discussed names... though he's adamant their initials need to be JP.... he's a huge Jurassic Park nerd. Yeah... BUT on the plus side I had my say so the names aren't something insane like Rex or Bronta or something. xD
What is your favourite idiom?
I suppose the ones I actually use the most would be classified as my favourite:
Take it easy. Piece of cake. In a nutshell.
For Minty
Right now my mental state is up and down, what with work being like a boulder on my back... but oh well. I'm taking some medication to try and help, and a little bit of therapy never hurt no one! :)
Ignore this... my mouse has a habit of double-clicking at time. This double-post was not intended.
Automotive shop is the only part done in person, today's was little more than introductions with safety protocols reviewed. Actual study begins tomorrow, and I'm fully prepared to start.
I can't think of any at this time, either English or Spanish.
My favorite idiom is "bats in the belfry". It essentially means that someone is crazy. I had never heard that used before, but I had to learn the "tener" phrase in Spanish class so so long ago. I've never gotten the chance to use it in English or Spanish, unfortunately!
- It's so interesting that you describe tattoos like that! I feel like, in the past, people have said "it's personal" and sort of left it at that, but I love the ownership of making it visible to others. It's making your strides in life public! & That boat is .. sailing onwards! I really don't know enough about boats, lol.
- Hahaha, thank you for affirming that I'm not crazy. Or, that we're a little crazy together. That is definitely hard to conceptualize - how can an object sort of have a plane of view larger than.. our eye? But, it's like.. our perspective + another perspective (@ the mirror). I remember back in physics how rough it was with "real images" versus not! I think it's just hard to see what's in the mirror as an extension of light, rather than objects.
- thank you for that! I think it's hard to get into the mindset of "this is my body, and I can do what I want", especially given certain careers and what may follow from any body mods. & Love your idioms of choice! That is super interesting, and I've never really thought about that. It's curious how different animals were chosen for related meanings, too.
- That's a hard spot to be in, about really internalizing where you're at, and the decision whether or not to be a parent. <3 Do you see yourself changing where you're at on this front?
Today's question:
What would make you lose interest in subeta?
Today's question was inspired by . Thank you! :)
My personal answer: I think if the page removed CWs or the wardrobe altogether I'd quit in a heartbeat. That would be a no-brainer for me. Things which would make me lose interest after a while would probably be the removal of the forums or holidays and plots.
for morgen
If you ever feel like getting married again I'll make sure to show you that last post of yours ;D Quite the pity though because I'm a sucker for weddings and the ideal one for you would definitely be (nuclear) bomb. Presumably at night with a telescope. You'd wear something you feel comfortable in (most definitely black). Neil deGrasse Tyson would be the officiant and a time traveler (who is obviously Steven Hawking duh) would appear as special guest telling you that the world will not be destroyed by humans and all the countries finally got their shit together. And as wedding gift someone names a newly discovered instabile element after you
for you
Sadly, that's true. I think when it comes to body mods, a lot of companies still have this ancient mindset. I feel like in 2020 where sooooooo many people want to get or already have done sort of body mods, it should not weigh in so much on employment decisions...
for katastrophy
I love "in a nutshell" it's such a cute thing to say!
And I hope your work will get less stressful soon for you, love!
Stay strong!
Hahaha i would love to know a kid name Pterodactyl or Triceratops but yeah maybe it's wiser to just go with James or Jessica xD my initials are JK from my first and second name and it wasn't until I was like 16 or so that I learned their meaning and how cool it would have been to just go by my initials. Calling someone by their initials is really not much of a thing here, sadly
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My own renouncing, I don't know. I do know one of my friends here would also leave if I were to do so. One reason could be expulsion from the group we both play in.
What would make you lose interest in subeta?
Definitely if they removed the wardrobe, battling, forums, collections or holidays. I've sunk a lot of time into these things and enjoyed them. There are other pet sites I play (mostly Flight Rising) but there are some things that are unique to Subeta. The wardrobe is an especially big part of Subeta for me - other sites have dressup avatars but I don't like the art style of any of them. Subeta's art is some of the best of any pet site, imo.
My husband is older than I am by 10 years. And, right now we are not in a position to have kids, but with his age if we were going to have kids it would have to be like now. Unless I pressed the reset button, got a divorce and remarried someone to have babies....which really isn't something that even remotely sounds like a good idea on so many levels. I mean there are other options, but they are all kind of difficult.
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