I swear people want to start fights so ignore warnings. On A03 I properly tag my fics so if people don't like something, they can avoid it. So I had marked a fic as not having Jon/Dany being a pairing and instead Jorah/Dany. Had to get admins involved to stop this crazed Jon/Dany shipper from harassing me. Though whenever I get some hate on fics, I swear they're just not signing in and still attempting to get to me. Hence I only allow members to comment on my fics nowadays.

Mother-in-Law's cooking was to die for as always.

Need to start preparing my HA =D

=D

I got it during the CW pawn shop!

- My youngest cooks for us so I understsand the freedomj from cooking. although, before I lost my sight I was the cook of the house so I also understand having charge of everything and just having somjeone throw mjoney at me to help defray expenses. :) It sounds like you had a good timje, even though your Mom was missing. I miss my step-dad during these times. We always pour out some libation to himj at the start of the dinner so he's not forgotten. Holidays without loved family mjemjbers is difficult sometimes. :)

: ;)

We had a flourless chocolate torte that just melted in your mouth and it didn't survive long at all! Lol. I am still full but would totally find room for more of that if there was any left!

Thank you! Going on the WL for sure!

I mostly work on my pets and chat, so when I'm not feeling creative it's hard to feel as invested in the site. But I've also been here over 18 years and am very attached to Subeta so even if it's just to do the bathhouse and peek around for updates I tend to log on daily. I'm grateful for the lovely people I've met who keep the site feeling so welcoming and enjoyable even when there's not much going on.

ahh well i can understand that. But family time is always nice

it was, nice to be home on time before my vacation and not so late. I am ignoring them, delete them and posted a message it is my page and if they don't like it go away.

sometimes i just don't understand people... Why make a fuss now and be mean.

i do for a coiple of years and i like to do it and people like to see it on the gram (instagram). Until some decided to be mean this week.. I told the haters don't look, scroll along or unfriend me, not my problem but theirs.

The calenders are for december and i posted a message i can't wait to open them and then the haters came.

3 more nights of sleep until Mickey, 1 until opening the calenders. Will miss a few as i am meeting Mickey but will open them when i get home. I even got one for the cats lol

i thought i would be nice and tell in advance i am opening them... sheeshh.. A03? I am posting in my story just for friends, if i want to remove the haters i have to set my account to private but then they win...

Hi hi Thanks for the well wishes for me and mom. We are both doing better and have check ups again in the middle of December.

Just a reminder that Melody will start giving gifts out daily tomorrow, December 1st. There are always achievements tied to visiting so many days. There is a widget you can add to your sidebar as a reminder.

You can get there from the top right menu Personal > Customize Sidebar then add Melody's Cottage and save. Then you can grab it from the bottom of your sidebar and move it to the top so you see it as soon as you sign in.

- Good for you, don't back down from them! They don't have to watch simple as that.

- I've been here on and off for many years as well. I've only worked on one pet so far with a page and art I need to start working on the others. I just bought an angelic potion and did a remembrance pet of an in real life pet I had that was one of the best pets i've ever had. Maybe i'll start with her, This group has been great for chatting. Very friendly people and very responsive. As well as the fun little games we get to do.

- I wish my kids would cook! My 14 year old won't even make himself toast. He rather just not eat. Which isn't good for him since he's Type 1 diabetic.

I'm so sorry for your loss hugs I think creating a tribute pet is a beautiful idea. I have a few of my own. Booped is a tribute to my pups and kitties, and Remiel and Beacara (whose story I may change to bookend Remiel's) are in honor of my beloved Juneau who passed from this world in 2021. I also have one (Steadfast) for my husband and one (Bonis) for my mother in law who passed earlier this year.

This group is very responsive! It can be hard to keep up at times, but it's also so nice to have people to chat with and people who genuinely seem to care about each other.

I adore flourless chocolate tort.

I get too emotional to do tribute pets. I just make up stories. There are many good tribute pets. I bet yours will be, too.

sometimes I think people just complain online as a pressure release not thinking how it effects others. They know they can just scroll on. It isn’t your responsibility to protect them past telling them spoiler ahead.

A03 is Archive of Our Own which is a popular site to post fanfics to. I used to use other sites too but switched fully to A03 as I love their tagging system so much!

I wouldn't set my account to private or else, yeah, those haters get what they want. What I do is limit their ability to communicate with me which I believe will also piss them off. But at least I don't have to hear them.

I don't cook but I can make very simple meals when hubby isn't in the mood to do dinner. Making toast is the bare minimum of effort.

Thanks for the reminder!

I tried A03 but its so hard to navigate, I had no idea what I was looking at. Right now I post my fanfic on RoyalRoad.

You have so many pets! :O

There are probably guides out there to help you. It's an archive which means the good news you don't deal with an algorithm but the bad news is you have to look up things on your own.

I mainly just post my own things on there and don't really read much fanfic. So if it is too hard for you to navigate, I suggest just posting to the site as it's popular and will give your writing a good chance at being noticed.

hi hun! -hugs- Well it's december 1st in the afternoon here and no Lumianire... maybe becasue fireside is still busy?

thanks! I posted the reel, said multiple times if you don't wanna see, scroll along or unfollow me.

And i get it make a pet here for remembering a lost pet I did it to with Meddy & Puk, pets i lost and remembering here.

oh i learned something new. I also did not set my account private, i just deleted people who where mean and posted stuff for friends wich they can't see

@ Emory It will be on Subeta time.

Edit: Oh, it seems it was late getting going anyway, according to a group I'm in in discord. Hopefully it will be up soon. Checked the forums and Keith is working on it. Programming issues with the legacy site.

Edit again: Apparently Keith has said midday on the subeta discord. Hopefully everyone has a chance to get it.

I've been on the site for over 18 years, so I've had lots of time to work on pet slots. The pets are my favorite part of the site (them and the community that is!) so that's where I focus most of my effort. :)

hmm midday subby time will be late evening here.. We will see.

Hey All....

Sorry i havent been on in awhile. Ive been kinda down in the dumps thru the Thanksgiving holiday. Its the 1st holiday season without my mom and its taking its toll on me emotionally. So I didnt really come on here.

Sooo.... No Lumi yet? It is Dec 1st. I hope Keith gets it going before the day is over. Cause the other time zones r gonna be a bit upset. Crosses fingers

I hope ur all doing well, I'll stop in when I can. Its just my mood. I dont feel like talkking cause holiday talk brings up memories then I get into a crying jag. So I tend to just do my household chores and crochet or read to keep my mind off things. Its always hard the 1st year. sighs Anyways..... TTYL

: So many people act like they are intitled to do what ever they please on the road, either because they have an expensive car / truck or they are a better driver then all then rest or they think they own the road. what ever it is most people have no clue how to drive in the best of time never mind in sheet ice or heavy snow on the highways and roads. I wish winter would come to every part of the world so every person can understand that driving in the mess is not easy and can be extremely scary and fully of anxiety. It is not like driving on a dry ,hot road in summer. Some people are just nut bars and could really careless about any one but them selves. It is really so sad......Really Sad.

oh nice!

doing fine, you?! Been working and it's going well. 3 more weeks for winter break.

So still no luminaire?! It's amost 7pm here

Anyone has an extra buddy account they are willing to part with?

Sent you a BGA :)

I"m so sorry for your loss and that you have such immense grief to carry now. This is our first holiday without my mother-in-law and we are holding each other close and expecting it to be incredibly hard on everyone, but especially my father-in-law. Sending you prayers of comfort and support as you navigate this. If you want to chat about random things I'm sure we can come up with topics! No pressure though, just here if needed.