LairBear Corner Booth v.4
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blinks There's no argument at all. He presumes-the-sale (that is to say, he's viewing you like a mark) like the shitty little fucker that he is only he's not close enough to slap for his creepy temerity because electronic communication. You don't owe him anything not even the "it won't work out" because there never was the sale in the first place. You didn't even walk into that car dealership. Say "no sale,".
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Thanks! I think you nailed it, at least that's how I feel. I feel like we're (or rather he is) behaving like we're already in a relationship, while I didn't agree to any such thing. I'll tell him I'm not interested anymore. And then ignore any arguments that will follow from his side.
[font=monotype corsiva]Lost in the Darkness[/font]
feelings are a valuable cue to help you think, as long as you don't let them completely control who you are.
What he is doing is using coercion techniques. Saying you are not interested any more implies that you were once interested by his behavior and therefore since you don't mind coercive behavior, well then his other coercion techniques could possibly still work. Like I said before, he's not viewing you as a human being at all, but as a mark. He will not give up with your proposed response, which is presumably what you really want.
Me, I would take a few selfie "fuck you" face shots in the mirror and thee email them to my friends and asking which one is the worst. Then I would send a very shortmessage with that pic saying something along the lines of "no sale' or "drop dead creepster", or 'I'm telling your mommy" But that's me.
Well, that would definitely work :D I'm not really the kind of person to do something like that. I'm trying not to go down to his level and dropping into a childish argument or swearing. I want to behave like an adult and tell him to fuck off politely xD But if nothing else works, then I might have to resort to that.
Edit: I took too long thinking of how to reply. He saw a chance to write "I'm sorry". But I know that if I let it continue, it'll just be endless drama.
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Hey everyone! Hope you're all doing well!
Trying to pull myself into this site more, especially with more holidays approaching soon. Can't remember the last time I changed my HA, so time to roam through my wardrobe, lol!
You notice a Bloodred Ruffie Elixir on the ground, but right when you bend down to pick it up, lizard minions come out of nowhere and scurry off with it!
Your trap springs and you spray like mad as the lizard minions escape. They will not get away this time! You place Bloodred Ruffie Elixir into your inventory.
if you weren't really with this person and it is stressing you out just tell them not to contact you anymore and don't respond to him after that at all
You were right about everything.
things proceed as follows
The "I'm sorry" is fake, since it's immediately followed by more arguments and accusations.
I reply saying I'm not interested to spar with arguments and accusations. It's not going to work. It's over, I'm done.
Which he follows up with 4 messages of arguments and accusations. Followed by saying he doesn't want to be my boyfriend, but doesn't mind to have sex. And he asks whether I want to have further contact.
I reply that I do not wish any further contact. (I don't react to any of the accusations since that will only fuel this further)
He replies asking why, and saying he's not such a bad guy.
You got to be kidding me, right? Even if I was ok with a sex-only relationship (which I'm not), then you don't go and have arguments with me, accuse me of whatever, blame me for everything which is going wrong in our "relationship" (which is non-existent) and then think I still want to have anything to do with you? And then act surprised when I'm pissed off and don't want to have any contact anymore? What woman would want this?
Anyway, since I said I didn't want further contact, I plan to stick to it and ignore him to death. If that doesn't work, I might have to start making those selfies.
Edit: Thanks! Yes, that's what I'm trying to do now. Told him that I do not wish any further contact. Now I'm in the process of ignoring whatever he replies.
[font=monotype corsiva]Lost in the Darkness[/font]
it might take a little while for him to get the hint but if he keeps it up maybe their is a way to block him from contacting you
Good evening!! Restocking at Freyalise Trading Co. is soooo annoying!
Is Carl the only one giving out Keel items? He was stingy today, grrrr
Anyway, hope everyone is well!
Sorry commented to a bear that just got frozen, not sure why. So deleted my comment
I'm not frozen. The other guy has o's while I have zeros.
I know, confusing, but I was here first! (and apparently longer too)
Maybe I can ask the staff to rename the other account, because people keep pinging it instead of me.
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Well that is definitely great news!!!
Ahh I have many duplicate pirate items from the mystery box looool Wonder if I should put them in my shop and price them when this event is over.. :o will they inflate? oh lol I remember a friend keeps pinging an inactive user (Did) instead of me facepalm 😆
~ yes, thank you!!! filling up my inventory... then I have to spend time organizing and emptying lol mb is awesome today!
yea ikr I fragged many of the duplicate items and got many crystals which I need to buy some items from that shop... though idk...fragging the duplicate items or trade them for the items I need which is a better deal lol xD
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