True, I go back and forth on being greedy for $ and wanting my time back haha.

I think it's awesome, and it'll look good on your resume, if you decide to look for another management role after this one's up. I know you'll do great though, you're a natural leader. It's interesting that downtown is less busy, usually it's the other way around!

Hey guys! I need some advice from whoever's online and willing to help, please.

Long story short, I used to have a good friend who I hung out with a lot. When I came out to her, she completely cut me off. I don't really miss her, but it mores so hurt because she judged me. Well she just sent me a friend request on fb, and Idk what to do. Idc about fb, but Idk what to do if she tries talking to me.

Well part of it I think is that downtown is like a 9-5 place. It CLEARS OUT after about 6PM and on weekends. It's kind of eerie! Whereas the other is in a really popular suburb so it's busier evenings and weekends. Plus real estate downtown is EXPENSIVE so the location has to be smaller, heh! Looking forward to it!

Personally I doubt I'd add her.. but if you decide to and she does message you my suggestion would be to be real with her.. no fake pleasantries. If she's anything like the majority of ladies I know she's only adding you so she can creep on you.

That's very true and a good point, thank you. I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend and she just happens to add me now. Part of me wonders if it's because I'm currently dating a guy and not a girl. But I don't exactly want to ask her that. Bleh

Yeah my guess is she just wants to stick her nose in your business!

I say accept the facebook request and see what she has to say. At least it's online and there will be no confrontation. Maybe she's really sorry and just wants to apologize. If not, you can always block her. That said - that's only if you're open to repairing the friendship. If you don't think you can overcome the hurt, no point it opening old wounds. That's my two cents, for what it's worth!

Huh, I would have thought there'd be lots of weekend-y stuff downtown too. Downtown is crazy all the time here.

It's what you've been working for! I'm sure it'll be a bit of learning curve, and then you'll love it! Will managing me more setting schedules and that sort of thing? What changes?

In a different part of downtown.. yes! Just where the spa is, is more of the business district than the touristy areas.

Yep! I'll work Tues-Sat. Right now I do Wed-Sun. I get more pay, a parking spot and I'm first on the booking order.. so I'll never really ever have my shifts cut!

Thank you both! I think I'm leaning more towards just ignoring it altogether. If she has something to say, she has my number. I don't miss her so it's not anything I'm missing. ^_^

That makes sense, some people are better off not in your life :) If you're just as happy without her, it's her loss, not yours!

Those sound like some pretty awesome perks! You'll get a weekend day off finally, huh? And do you drive now? I seem to remember you were taking the bus and hating it? Or was that the previous spa?

I do drive. That was the last job for the bus! I could bus to this one too.. but it's the same amount of time as driving and I get a free parking spot so I'd prefer to drive than be on a bus with stinky people for an hour, haha!

Good thinking! Let us know if anything changes!

I'm off to bed now.. hopefully see you two around tomorrow!

Ugh, I hear you, some days I hate the subway. There are some really weird, weird people out there. Thank god for my phone and commuter papers. Plus less getting sick! Though in a spa, you come into contact with a lot of people still!

Good night! :)

If it were me I think I would accept it just to be able to tell her how I felt about her actions, but I say that as someone who has recently been spending a good bit of my own time seeking closure by clearing the air with some of my old "friends". That being said, it depends entirely on how you feel about it. I can understand being hurt by that, so I ask you - do you think that hurt will fade with time and understanding that you can find better friends, or is it a wound you need to make a point to close?

Honestly, I don't miss her and I don't feel like I'm missing out on having her in my life. I mostly just want to know why. She didn't give me any warning or explanation, she just stopped talking to me altogether. So mostly I just want to know her motives.

Well, why not ask her? It's possible that if you don't take this opportunity to do so now that question will bother you for the rest of your life. You don't have to keep her in your friends list after that, and to avoid drama coming out of it you can be straightforward about it only being temporary.

Oh that's good that you can complete your collection though! c: I love that they have the achievement to feed your pet carved pumpkins because otherwise I wouldn't know what to do with all of my extras xD Oh nice! I need to vote myself still. Did you have to wait in a long line?

Oh idk you could get referral points! That's cool I hope I can grab some as well. Yeah we will see! The programs are just so competitive ;-;

It is! I managed to complete my Pastry collection... I want to say somewhere under a year ago? Now I'm missing only eight pumpkins for my pumpkin collection which are all supposedly available this year. I'm hoping I can grab those without having to buy them. I started working some more on my other collections earlier today too, and finally got the Plushie Collector title. ^^

Hahaha. I actually forgot about that one! I'm still working toward Gourmand too so I've been feeding my active pet some of the pumpkins, but I've been saving the rest of them to make Fireside pies.

I think I was standing in line for about half an hour, if I remember correctly? So yeah, it was kinda long, at least for where I live. It didn't feel like half an hour to me at all though. Oddly enough it actually felt a lot shorter, but that probably had a lot to do with my being really tired and having the opportunity to talk to someone cool in line.

I haven't even touched my other collections xD I only focus on plushies and beanbags mostly. But wow congrats. You have a complete plushie collection? Oh I forgot about that. I should save some of mine for that as well.

hi everyone c:

Not complete, no. Sadly nowhere near it haha. You get the Plushie Collector title at 1,600 plushies, and there are 3,911 plushies total on Subeta. It's going to be a long time before I have all of them.

Oh! I was about to be so jealous xD I just recently hit over 2k plushies and I dream of the day I'll be at 3k

Hey! How's your day going?