.... heyyy Laurie... welcome back... 🙋 get up from death...? 👻... is so nice to see a knowing name... RL is always more important than a game... hope to see u often again here.. halloween is near and not long we celebrate our melody matches... 💞.... I loooove lumi... if u miss some from last events feel free to ask and i will check if i can help... nice that ure' back...

Thank you! :-)

That makes 16... :D

Thank you. One of my daughter-in-laws guessed his name, but I didn't have a clue.

Thank you! Congratulations on house owning! That is so magnificent!

So nice to see you! RL got the better of me too. I miss being here regularly.

Good to see you here. Feels like home in fluffy housecoat and comfortable slippers when you are here.

Your Welcome! Sometimes there is so much to do here, its better to lurk and check in on what friends are up to. For me, sometimes its a matter of wanting solitude and not chatty.

yikes what do you know about a ping count/limit? Is it for all site sombined or bears or what and what number is it?? What happens if you go over????? :O

is still MIA and i am afraid for her health. again Please y'all buddy up woth someone that can contact you outside of here in some fashion..so they may know whats up if you need to poof. It is awful to miss someone and have no way on earth to know if they just chose to leave for a bit or forever. Though most say if they are taking a hiatus.

The limit is ten users per forum comment, I am not sure what happens. Maybe verbal warning I cant remember.

FV said

Can't agree more. Please let someone be able to contact you someway or an other. Even if it is an email address.

Her account shows this: This account will be eligible for clearing on 12/07/21 at 3:00 pm.

HAS IT TRULY BEEN A YEAR ALREADY YOU GUYS???? slides ever so sadly down against the wall we were just buying potion lottery tickets for each other it seems like several months agi..shakes my head slowly..the time has eluded me thouroughly! Thanks for the info very much..i comment from friends ist and hadn't yet seen her profile.

Also Sydney . I thought you meant like an onsite ping limit..like per day/week etc. hahah i would be SO screwed!

I hope everyone is having fun getting some HAs ready for morostide..it will be fun to have a festivity going on and Tp n eggs..well..how could you possibly go wrong :):)

Oh i would be in trouble, too . LOL I chat way to much sometimes.

your chat is always welcoming warm and inviting anyone to talk with you..i love to jump in on sme of you guys' talks :) I wonder how Duane is doing too. Shitty to be sure. Will text him though in a day or two if he isnt back yet..yet to poke his head in just once.

i am ready for the festivities to begin(and again..hinest now...has it truly been since December of 2020 that i havent heard from pearl?????)

We do have some great conversations in the lair, like a family around a campfire roasting marshmallows and making smores. Dang made myself hungry.

I have been wondering about Duane and wish he would come in for a bit.

Its been that long, I wish someone had an idea of her RL name, so we could check facebook.

truly i worry that so much time has passed and i simly TRULY dont realize it..that is scary in itself..like where does the time go...now i know what they mean by that once again.

I am more conscience of that phenomenon since this whole Pandemic started, everything seems like a mental blur.

you know what...i think you hit the nail on the head my friend..it has been most distracting and mashed up since it started to be in the publics eye..and YES that time HAS actually gone by. SIGH..can't change the fact i will never find her so i will carry her sweet and kind memory with me and smile when i think of her playing here!!:):)

It does not seem like nearly a year since we last saw her and bought each other lottery tickets. She obviously is/was a private person who enjoyed being here. Where ever she is and what ever she is doing I know she is doing it well. We worry about also.

Some days have been mind numbing sameness, hence one day bleeding into the next. You go to bed knowing the next day will be like the day before. BUT then in another way, I prefer this over losing family or friends to this pandemic.

In that she lives on, in our memories and hope that she just got busy in RL and one day pop up like a flower in spring.

: My clan has an old saying, “We’ll keep a candle burning…” Roughly translated to mean, “my heart is always welcoming you in, no matter the circumstances or duration of our parting. There is no need for shame or forgiveness, only love.

If everybody wants me to do a new HAck group photo, make a new Outfit against a white background, sMail me the Outfit Number, and I’ll put a new one together. Shall it have a theme?

Congrats Judy on a new grandchild! A grandchild is such a blessing, like I know, right? I’ve yet to be given such a blessing . May your quiver be full of them! Mazel tov!

Fabulousviolet, my Giant Baseball Men lost to the Dodging Baseball men and had to go home. I’m sad, but now I can pay more attention to the 49 Football Men and their tight pants.

Laurie, you are so loved. I’ll keep the candle burning.

Your clan as the right words with that one. <3

I maybe have a different football man team I'm keeping an eye on, but I have to say. Your 49 men team makes me want Dr. Pepper every time they play. I don't even drink it, but I can't help myself but imagine how good a can would be when they pop up on the screen.

Also, the 12 man group of football people is not winning and my brother-in-law is very annoyed with them. I told them he could always go and tell them how to play better but he looked at me like I had seven heads. Hey, if you can't fix it, don't yell? hehe.

Hey friends! I am not connected to the people who you are missing, but I know that feeling. A year ago I got a sad message that someone and I were close to had passed and we had no way of knowing outside of subeta. Since then, I am a very big promoter of making sure someone has a way to know or contact outside of this site. The people and relationships here are deep and real, and I worry about it too when someone just doesn't come back. <3

For the record, Merlot knows how to get in touch with me if I vanish. And I'm okay with giving my info to an admin if they'd like to have it. <3

Hi Bears...catching up on posts...

- well said...days passing together the way they do. and I feel the same...seems we just did those lottery tickets a few months ago but it's been a year? wow...I think I need to figure out some better structure to my days or something...it's a blur.

hello dear furry critter. I'd love to be part of a new Lair Bear pic like before...I will wait to see if we have a theme before making a HA ❤ I like what you said "keep the candle burning"...wonder how that could be part of a theme? Not as fun as a foil wrapped head :P I'm game for any theme.

Who has the original picture that was done? it would be cool to post it, So bears get an idea of what is talking about. Here is what Frieda needs for HA to appear in outfit with no background with outfit number from wardrobe area. Thank you for commenting on this topic of have a friend here, know how to reach you. I actually have 3 friends KimC, Brenda and Kreedo, they can reach me on facebook or email. Thanks I feel this pandemic has invented an automated blur in my life. Thats why I do projects like shampooing my own carpets, painting house, sorting out closets. Trying to break up sameness in a positive way, and benefit from it at the same time. Crossing off my to-do list, things I have been putting off. Next clean all the ceiling fans' blades in the house and cut down my calla lilies stalks for the winter.