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A gourd witch? Maybe a modern one.

I finally got my first chest binder today and wore it for a while earlier to try it out. I can't explain how happy and, like, right I felt while I was wearing it. I literally could not stop staring at myself in every mirror I passed. I wore it out shopping for new work clothes and to get my hair cut. It really gave me this huge surge of confidence.

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Better late than never?

Updated for: 5/20/18 Dear friends and followers of DI, (TLDR: Life sucks; DI is dead.) I know quite a few folks have tailed off since the official DI days. For those of you who have stuck with me on this unofficial thread just for fun, I give you my thanks. I've run into a number of people who don't understand why I've been doing this for--what is it--over two years now? I don't get paid for it, so why bother? Why do something for other people that doesn't benefit you? I will never be able to make those people understand that doing this makes my life better. For most of you, Subeta is more than just a site you go on to check messages and mess with you aftermarket Neopet. It's a place where you play games, entertain hobbies, share your art, learn to code, meet other people, discuss things that are important to you, and find your online families. I have loved being a part of making that happen in my own small way, and appreciate you being part of it too. It makes it all the more difficult to tell you that I will no longer be able to run DI. Last year, the person I was dating sexually assaulted me. I was working two part-time jobs and taking classes at the time. My work didn't pay enough for me to really support myself. My job options were limited due to my joint problems. Moving out wasn't an advantageous move, but I did it anyways for my own safety. I found people I could stay with for a little while while I looked for other work and tried to get back on my feet. I took on two more jobs. These were supposed to help me save a little money to help me on my way, but the people I was renting from weren't entirely honest about rental terms, and my expenses ended up being high enough that I couldn't save anything. My rental term ends this month. I haven't been able to find a job that pays enough for me to make rent. I do not qualify for disability. I do not qualify for unemployment. As of 5/31/, I will be homeless. I am hopeful that I will be able to find various couches to stay on to keep me off the street, but the only thing that will get me back on my feet is getting a decent job. I have no idea if that will happen. If it does happen, I have no idea when it will happen. For obvious reasons, during that period of uncertainty, I will be unable to update DI. Should one of you wish to take over, I welcome you to do so. I hope it brings you as much joy as it brought me. My many thanks to all of you. You have made doing this a pleasure. Live long and prosper,

Dreadful

Im really sorry to hear this, i really wish you the best of luck. I wish there were something we could all do. DI was the only thing keeping me on this sight if im honest. its been really nice to have something to do everyday. BUt i understand you have things to do. Please be safe out there. YOu have friends here if you should ever need something we can offer.

it was fun doing this for a long time. my condolences for all of the awful things you've been through and are going through. may you have protection and luck in all your endeavors.

I'm so sorry to hear about your circumstances. Thank you for running this for us all of this time despite what you've gone through and been going through, and I wish you the best of luck in finding the kind of job that you need to get your life on track.

I'm so sorry to hear all you've been going through. I wish I could offer more than words on a screen.

DI has been a huge part of the site for me and I've really appreciated the effort you've put in to keep it going. You've brightened my life daily.

If I had time, I'd take this up in a minute to keep it going, but with my work at SubetaLodge, my posting group and a huge project I'm also involved with, there just aren't enough hours in a day. I've already had to scale back the stuff I'm doing with my posting group. I will, however, ask around to see if anyone is interested.

I don't really know how to properly respond to that <_<"" Do you live in the US? I'm sure I can find some ONGs to help you back on your feet, giving your circumstances ><

I am so sorry about everything you're going through. Have you thought about starting a gofundme? You've done so much for us I'm sure we'd all like the opportunity to help you out, even if it's just enough to keep you on your feet for a little longer. Also depending on where you are there may be a shelter in your area that could help.

i'm so sorry to hear you've had such a shit run at life lately :( i really do wish you all the best, and hope you can get back on your feet asap! ❤ i know i haven't had a lot of spare time to complete the daily challenge lately, but i check in every day to see what dastardly items you've come up with, and see all the inspiration you've sparked, it truly is wonderful what you've accomplished. thank you for so diligently challenging us! it will be really sad to see you go, i hope you come back to us! take care of yourself, be safe, and i hope happier fortunes finds you really soon ❤ ❤ ❤

If you are anywhere near the Reno/Tahoe area, most places at the lake are hiring summer help right now. Especially if you are over 21 and willing to work the graveyard shift in a casino environment. Housing here is rough but there are some folks advertising for roommates if you can deal with the shared house situation.

Good luck! I hope you can get back on your feet quickly.

I am truly sorry for your awful situation, as someone who's been there herself. I am sure that things will get better, or I think so, anyhow, because usually the Universe gives us what we need. I also really appreciate you taking on un-official DI, because I love these daily items, great for my HA muse. So.. What does running DI entail? If you don't get any takers you'd prefer, I would be happy to give it a whirl, at least til you return. Comment or sMail please if that is the case. <3 ... So.. I will be thinking of you surrounded by the light, and I hope you remember not to lose hope! So, I will just say, "Seeya later." :¬)

Thanks for the well-wishes, all. I did try a GFM at one point when I needed help for school and housing funding a few years ago. Noooo one gave a crap and it was depressing, so I haven't bothered with it since. Unfortunately I an in Colorado currently, a bit of a long commute. I don't mind the roommate situation as long as it's better than what I'm coming from, but I really need work that's more than just for the summer. I've been working temp stuff for too long and it's biting me in the ass.

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you come back on your feet soon. I live in Germany and could not thing of such senario. We have something like Obama care and but even with this, the life is low. Are there non shelters to help you? I hope, HOPE with all my might, that your life will turn again to the better side!!!!