will slot you

don't even worry about it, apparently i offended the indian culture with my preview (as a staff member said to me) - when i'm part indian myself, and i made my tattoo for a woman who had been dead for a year this mothers day.

- Are you serious?? I hope they don't say anything to me about my comments about it. Me myself being part Indian. How is that offensive?? You know what...Nvm. We can talk about it in sMail if you want to talk more about it in private. Thank you so much for chatting with my girl. I enjoyed talking to you very much. hehehe ^-^ Good luck on slotting!! Do you think they will approve the CW??

smailing yes pls read my smails

Lmao, that's totally okay!! I was just so confused haha!! So you don't like the bottoms on that outfit? I don't mind it! but if you two aren't a fan maybe try some of these?

There are quite a few options....hopefully one of them catches your eye :) Don't feel obligated to like any of them though, everyone has their own taste! :) <3

See I give you one, and she gives you a TON!! LOL You're the best bestie!! Too bad she can't make it anymore... :( :( Okay love, I am going to go check my sMail now. ;) Sorry I had to step away for a min to grab a bite to eat.

Oh, boo....just saw your comments....that's crappy....sorry missy :(

but people make different cultural HA's all the time....why is this one suddenly a big deal(?) I liked it personally....

shes a babe, i see why you rely on her for help <3

Aw you guys are awesome <3

This calls for more owls!

-I know right!! I loved her idea for that HA! I personally thought it was far from offensive, I've seen WAY WORSE on this site and no one complained about it. Ugh, I swear, a lot of people on here get away with so much crap, but the min, I try to do something, or I've heard friends trying to do stuff, they can't because it's too much/too offensive. Like really?! Ugh, Let me stop ranting now, because I won't be able to stop here soon. Blood boiling -Isn't she awesome!?? I swear I'd have no idea what I'd do without her sometimes. Doesn't even have to do with subeta either. She's a wonderful friend with person life too. I am so lucky to call her my friend. <3 ;)

Yeah, a crappy situation for sure, sorry missy :(

I have to head to bed, gotta work early tomorrow! Hope you two have a good night!!

<3 Sorry everyone. I'm so done.

- I'm leaving so it's not like my 2 cents is worth anything but that's crap. I'm native. I didn't find this offensive. I see TONS of asian appropriation around here but does anyone bitch about that?! Nooooope. The HA was pretty and I'm sorry you're having to deal with this :(

i appreciate that. <3<3<3 this is not the first time i've been confronted in this manor. ps thank you for your donation items <3 :o I hope you are not leaving us :O!

- actually I am :D I'm just not here enough for me to justify the money that I spend. So, I had to do it like a bandaid and just rip it off so I put up all my cw hoard for sale and sent all my ward to the DC. lol

awwwwwww :'c you're a doll, but thats sad </3 I understand though -best wishes to you!

- plus there's this boy and he gets all of my free time <3 thank you for the well wishes :D

<3 awwh well i wish you all the happiness for you and that boy of yours :*

hopefully b3 for the top fills! id love a slot please^^

gotchu down ty <3 if it doesnt i can shop/send invites and lock the rest its even good enough for staff -_-

Fyi there has been a long and old but still ongoing debate about cultural appropriation and their place in the Subetan world, especially around this CW headdress you used and a few other items, which you DID NOT KNOW ABOUT! So it's a really shitty thing to deny your CW item, a Dreamcatcher when we have dreamcatcher and dreamcather tattoos already onsite, just because of your preview. I get that people find it offensive, that is their right, but staff shouldn't police our HA making when they were the ones f*cking up by having this item onsite in the first place.

So really, don't feel bad. I saw your avatar, thought this might be borderline offensive but saw that it was a tribute to someone clearly dear to you and didn't want to say anything, like any normal decent human would.

It might have been a problem that the skin of your avatar is so pale, but I guess you just wanted to throw together a quick outfit as I've never seen you with a darker skin, so that just might be your own preference. Just in this context people are tip-toeing around when, 1. We don't know the background of the people we call out that offend us, 2. Most cultures are typically okay with using some parts of their attire or their tradition in a respectful manner (headdresses are just one of those you have to be extra careful with bc history), and 3. IT'S A FUCKING DOLL ON THE INTERNET!! Can we start thinking about the people we might hurt before ourselves?

I hope you don't let this experience on Subeta and the CW community get to you too much and you still create CWs ^^ It's a really old debate you unfortunately came upon without realizing. Just be careful next time, and I hope your tattoo gets onsite before mother's day!

PS: Any mistakes are due to me not being a native speaker.