OD? Wassatwassatwassat? :D Was browsing through some sites and found this: Clicky here! Did you join it too? It looks so cool, like how the artists have evolved!

Ooh where is that place where there is a HarryPotter-land? I've been dying to get my hands on one of the Gryffindor scarves! Any photos of the Doctor Who stuff plus castles? :D Men = pffft, more likely and not hey, imho haha. It's so hard to get my partner to even respond to my texts nowadays :c I guess love really does fade after time :'c

Nope. I didn't participate there. Ocean Depth. c:

There's the Harry Potter studio in Watford, just outside London? :) I've not heard of any in Cardiff. I really want a Slytherin scarf, omg. I hand made my own Slytherin robes a few years ago. I do have like one picture of the castle and a few Doctor Who ones but my phone isn't letting me upload them to the computer, grrrr. I will get them up eventually.

Awww I think it's just that you get to the stage where you don't feel the need to talk non-stop rather than love fading. My boyfriend used to text me non-stop throughout his tea breaks and lunchbreak when when we first got together and I'd get loads of texts in between while he was supposed to be working too and now although I do get texts throughout the day, it's nowhere near as many. Like he didn't text me at all during his morning teabreak or during his lunchbreak today, he texted me on his way to work and then texted me again at nearly 4pm.

Although he's silly because if I don't reply straight away, he'll send me like 3 texts in a row until I do when it takes him hours to reply :P

I had been falling out of love with him for a really long time and eventually it got to the point that even thinking about him made me sick to my stomach. I guess I just got sick of feeling unhappy and trapped. Yeah, I don't enjoy talking to him at all. The only reason I ever do is to play Animal Crossing because for a long time he was the only one who had it!

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i hate ldr. i have had a few, and it's always just been so... isolating. i felt really lonely a lot of the time :( wasn't my thing. luckily i have a boyfriend irl and it's really sweet. if we do have to split up for college tho, the ldr is going to kill me. he wants to follow me, but... i don't want him to ruin his dreams just to pursue a girl, y'know? no guarantee we'll stay together. but that's not for awhile, so i'm just gonna enjoy it!

I have been in a mostly long distance relationship for over 3 years. We met when we were in high school and started dating right before we graduated. A month after we started dating, I went to Basic training and was gone for five months. After which she was in college in another state and I soon started college, fortunately my unit was close to her college, so I was able to see her once a month. Over the summers we would live together but in the middle of it all I would go to training for a few weeks, and by the time I would come back it would be time for us both to go back to college, and return to seeing each other once a month. Until this last semester where she went to study abroad in Germany. Which sucked because we missed our anniversary, a date that we had managed to be together every year before, and recently I learned that I was going to training right before she gets home, adding another three months before we can be together again. So it kind of sucks, and the only thing you can do is just stay in contact and show that you care for each other from a distance. Phone calls and skype can be good alternatives.

I recently moved to Illinois with my family while my boyfriend stayed behind to get himself together before moving out here as well. We've been together since we met during a music class in early February and we've been apart since late May. We were worried because of the distance that it wouldn't work out but he visited last week and it told us all we needed to know. He should move here by the end of the year and when I get myself together we'll probably live together.

In the meantime we call/skype every night and just talk about our day and our plans. It's not too bad most days, but some days hurt more than others.

my relationship will be officially long distance as of september 21st ;-; I'm moving 5 hours away for University, but we knew I was going before we even got together. (We started dating around October/November last year).

I know that my boyfriend is a lot more anxious about the distance than I am, but he's a really good boyfriend so I'm not worried or anything. It's just going to be hard to see him once I've gone because I have quite serious anxiety issues, and one of my biggest anxiety triggers is travelling, so I won't be able to come home very often. He's trying to get a car so he can visit me, but that depends on his job too, and whether he will be able to stay with me. (I've opted for girls only accommodation so I'm not sure they'd let him stay with me).

We're trying to spend a lot of time together at the moment but we've both had a whole bunch of work hours dumped on us lately, and I work evenings whereas he works mornings, so it's just not happening. Sigh.

I'm dating a fantastic asexual panromantic guy one day younger than me across the country. Since mid Januaryish but we were close like four months before that. I've never even had any friendships close by so I'm not too hung up about it. Plus I'm a nervous wreck all the time so it's actually relaxing to not have to be around someone but still having someone I love to talk to.

Just checking in, how are your LDRs? c: Mine's kind of been drifty, because he's having band commitments, which sucks.

Thank you for asking! :-) We're doing great. Actually, I found out today that he is coming to visit again in two weeks. He seems to think he'll be able to move out here before the end of the year (three months ahead of schedule) but I'm not so sure! I'm still hopeful, of course, but not overly so.

So is your boyfriend touring in a band, or?

I understand how you'd be scared. In fact, it's totally understandable. I was sooo terrified to go away to college because I wouldn't be close to my boyfriend (and the college I'm attending is only 2 and a half hours away from my home town).

Prior to me leaving, my bf and I had been together for over 2 years. When I left for college, things got super complicated. He got jealous, I didn't make as much time for him as I should have. It was all bad. We ended up breaking up, BUT we're still friends and we hang out. Hell, we still have sex. But, we've agreed to keep it as just friends (with benefits) for now seeing as being boyfriend/girlfriend is just too complicated. And things work out this way. One day we want to get back together with each other, but for now, it'll have to wait. I hope you and your boyfriend stick through it and work things out :)

I just wanted to say that after reading a lot of you guys' posts, I feel more confident in starting my LDR with my boyfriend of 8 months on the 23rd of this month. It's not that long a distance, it's 3.5 hours away in the same state. I'm moving to the college of my choice with my sister, we will both be freshmen. The distance feels like almost nothing when it's over, like getting a shot/vaccination. But I will see him maybe once or twice in the next 5 months, and then for my winter break I will be home for a few weeks to have my way with him. :'D Our age difference is 3 years, and yes people call me a cougar. I don't care though, my boyfriend acts my age! He's 15, and I'm 18. I have never seen him as any younger than 18, and I never will. He turns 16 on September 3rd, and I hate to not be home to celebrate it with him. But I'm planning on giving him a gift for his birthday and our 9 month anniversary the day before I leave. I just hope it will be ready in time! :o I plan on getting a picture of us blown up to a 16inx20in poster size and getting one for him and one for me. I can hang it up in my dorm room and see his handsome face every morning I wake up, and every night I go to sleep. <3

Aww LDR so cute ^-^ I've been in couple LDRs But the most serious one is the one I'm in now. I lived in Massachusetts and he lives in Florida. It only lasted about 4 months but it still really was hard for us for that short period of time. We met online first (On IMVU). We knew each other over a year before confessing our feelings. 2 weeks after dating we got to meet in person. Cause I was going down to Florida to go on a cruise. After the cruise we decided to meet up. We went to the mall. And I just knew he was the one tho I was really shy. We hugged bye 4 hours later (he spoiled me too much that day >.< ). It was better then nothing but I'm glad we met up. This was in September of last year btw. It was so hard not seeing each other after that. I went home. We would text so much and talk endlessly on the phone. We decided that I would go down there for 2 weeks in November since I was working in October for Halloween :3. And those were the best 2 weeks ever. And it was heart breaking that I had to go on a plane and leave him :( I just wanted to stay. 2 months later he was worried about his dad and wanted me there for him. Which was at the end of January. It's frustrating actually. Especially if you live 24 hours away from each other or more. We had arguments at times cause of how much we missed each other and we couldn't stand being apart. I decided to move in with him at the end of January and I really don't regret moving in with him. It's almost our year and we're still stronger as ever. I love him very much and I know he does too. He actually got me into Subeta actually. lol he introduce me to it after I moved here :3

I believe LDRs make you stronger as a couple really. Especially if you start out that way. Or even if you didn't :3. I love reading people stories tho it's so cute to me :) That online relationships work out at the end ^-^ And by the looks of it there's 3 pages of stories so seriously you're not alone :3

If you believe in each other, make it work!

Wow you guys are so strong! Honestly, I don't think I would fare too well being in an LDR. I love my boyfriend and already think we don't get to spend a lot of time together because of work and trying to figure out our lives. I really love him though and would do anything to be with him. In the next year or so I will probably transfer colleges but it's only an hour away. I will have to move there though and dedicate a lot of my time to my program (radiology) but hopefully I will get to come home every couple weekends. I really look up to people who are able to be in happy, loving relationships even when they don't see each other much.

My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. It has it's ups and downs but we try and skype as often as we can and I'm planning on flying to Toronto to spend some time with her.

I've just started an LDR with my boyfriend because he enlisted in the Navy. He's going to bootcamp for 2 months and then he'll be in Texas (I'm in California) for almost 5 months, and THEN he'll get his first assignment, which could be anywhere from one hour away to the other side of the world. I love him a lot, and he's made me feel happier than anyone else, and he's only been gone for 3 days at bootcamp, but it is so hard right now. They take away your phones when you go into bootcamp so he can only write me once a week. It's really, really hard not talking to him. I know he will come and visit for a week after it's over, and then he'll leave again, but at least then I can talk to him at least once a day, or text him or SOMETHING. It's so hard not knowing how he's feeling or what he's doing. I miss him so much.

I've been in a ldr before the one I'm currently in, we dated for a year before we realized that it wasn't working out as well as we wanted to.

The current one I'm in with started in August and is one we'll both fight tooth and nail to keep. And despite her living states away from me, we do plan to meet and god it will be the best day of my life when we finally do ♥ It has it's ups and downs, of course. Not being able to be in physical contact is a downer, and sometimes texts and skype just aren't enough, but knowing that we'll finally be able to see each other eventually is something that keeps me going a lot of the time. We make each other happy and, honestly, making her happy means the world to me and is quite enough to get me through the distance ♥♥♥