Haha - don't be! Having to share your birthday with a holiday mildly sucks.

Aww, why does it suck on Halloween? Were you forced to only have candy as a present? :c xD

Just that you can't really celebrate your birthday on your actual birthday! Everyone is busy celebrating another holiday!

When's your birthday?

Oh, very true. That is a good point.

My birthday is May 6. We went to a lot of Mexican restaurants as a kid since it was the day after Cinco. XD

I forgot I was in this group, it was nice seeing this ping. :)

I'm not very active on Subeta these days (most of the time, I only visit the bathhouse). But, I miss chatting, and I'm trying to be more social again. I'm in a constant state of exhaustion though, so it's hard for me to keep up. ;~;

But, uhh, hi! :D

Oh, what a great idea! I was just thinking last night I might like to go to a Mexican restaurant for my birthday. I'm craving Margaritas! ;)

Hi ! I completely understand. I've been on and off for a while. I actually find when I'm chatting with people I'm more present C:

- Yeah, I definitely think talking to people is a big incentive to be here.

For sure! Anythingnew going on in your life?

- Yeah, a lot has happened. Last year, I moved to a different state and it took almost a year to settle in and be stable in terms of my living situation. But, I'm good now. :)

There's been so many changes in my life and it's been a very, very bumpy road, hence all the exhaustion. But, it's been a positive experience and I have no regrets about the decisions I've made.

Anyway, I saw on your first post that you're engaged now. That's really exciting, congratulations! :D

Oh wow! That's huge! Where are you living now? What made you move?

Thank you so much!I'm SO excited! I'm actually going to the jeweler this morning to get my ring sized.

- I'm in upstate New York. I love it here, like, there's actual seasons!

The reason why I moved was to escape some really bad situations I was in. I had no support in Florida and I felt unsafe there. So, I decided to go somewhere where I did have support and was far away from everything.

Oh, I'm very unfamiliar with the whole wedding process, despite being engaged once. :x So, do you choose a ring ahead of time? Or is the sizing just to make sure the ring fits correctly?

Haha you aren't too far from me now! I'm in Ontario C:

I'm glad you've made a positive change!

I didn't choose the ring - I mentioned forever ago what I would have liked and he picked it out himself. He did a great job! The sizing is to make sure it fits. The one he got is just a little too big so I dropped it off and they just make the exact ring smaller!

Hi hiiii! Totally down for being in another chat group ^0^ I need to socialize a bit more on this site :3 <3 <3

Hi everyone! For those who don't know me, I'm Tarra :3 <3

That sounds so great right now. It has been such a long day

Glad you moved then hon. Sometimes a geographical is a good call and I am wishing you all the best in your new(ish) home! Also Hi idk if you remember me but hi :P

Oh hon that's exciting you'll get to wear that symbol from your fiance soon!

Yesss join the chatgroup you person with the gorgeous HA. Nice to meet you Tarra, I'm Dot. Or Robin my real name.... which I actually don't think I've mentioned before on this site 0-0;; DAmn

Long day huh? Wanna talk about it?

Oh man, I remember you telling us before that your birthday is on Halloween! That's pretty cool. Mine is October 15th. Do you have any bday plans yet?

Thank you! I'm really trying to get my anxiety under control so I can be happy like I deserve to be. I'm so so sorry to hear that your relationship is over. You looked so happy on fb. I can definitely understand your decision, though, and I respect it. Working on yourself is the most important thing. Only you can do it. If you need anything, I'm always here. ❤️

Hey! I'm Alana. I'm a Hufflepuff, also!

Hey Tarra!! How are you? ^_^

Today was an even longer day. I worked both my jobs today from 9-8. It was very slow at my second job and was almost unbearable. Haha. Then I went to Walmart to try and cash my check and the machine wouldn't read it, so I didn't get my money. I ended up giving the check to my dad to deposit. I wanted to be ink for Inktober tonight, but I guess that isn't going to happen haha.

How was your day?

Hi, Alana! Yay! A fellow Puff! How are you?

- Oh yeah, that isn't too far away. c:

And okay, I understand the ring thing now. That's neat that he did a great job choosing a ring you liked. :)

- Hi, I remember you! :D And thank you for the wishes.

- Hi! :)

I'm doing okay, thanks! Working on getting over a big spout of anxiety, and trying to enjoy the little bit left of my weekend. How are you?

HEY!!

I am sorry. :c I know firsthand about anxiety and how it can be very difficult to do even the seemingly "simple" things. I am doing great. I am just listening to A Very Potter Musical.