So I waited almost 5 hrs and still no response, finally gave up and sent them an item letting them know what I think.Apparently, that kicked in and they sent me a message back that was rude.

yeah, I'm not gonna bomb someone with gifts until I know the person is gonna participate.So excuse me if you didn't get anything but 1 thing from me trying to get you to participate.

In fact, I wish there was a a way to block gifts from MM for the day.This person keeps sending me insulting messages, all because I sent them two items, one with the pre-made message saying Hello, waited a few hours and sent them a different item with the question "Are you still on?" after 6 hrs they finally come on and send me a rude message, even going as far as using items to call me names.

This. I support this! Maybe this would help with all the negativity a bit. If something like this can't be implemented then I feel like maybe MM shouldn't be a full day thing. Maybe an hour? That way you only sign up when you know you'll be online for a bit. And hey if you're on again later then sign up again later. Or get rid of it all together. I understand it's frustrating to have someone be silent. Maybe have a way to request a new partner? Or a way to sign up with a certain level of activity in way of a question. "How active do you plan to be?" 'Online for 1-2 hours' 'Online all day' 'Just a quick gift bomb' There has to be a way to fix it though, because 70%+ of this thread is talking about how poor of an experience everyone is having.

**For the record. I have not had a bad experience with any MM I ever had. I've had inactive people but I just gift them with 500k items randomly through the day instead of gifting large gifts constantly. I always go in planning on being way more active than the other person because I know I have the time to be right now. I only entered once so far this year and I had an amazing person paired with me. I love MM overall I just wish there was a way to make it better for everyone else.

This. I support this! Maybe this would help with all the negativity a bit. If something like this can't be implemented then I feel like maybe MM shouldn't be a full day thing. Maybe an hour? That way you only sign up when you know you'll be online for a bit. And hey if you're on again later then sign up again later. Or get rid of it all together. I understand it's frustrating to have someone be silent. Maybe have a way to request a new partner? Or a way to sign up with a certain level of activity in way of a question. "How active do you plan to be?" 'Online for 1-2 hours' 'Online all day' 'Just a quick gift bomb' There has to be a way to fix it though, because 70%+ of this thread is talking about how poor of an experience everyone is having.

**For the record. I have not had a bad experience with any MM I ever had. I've had inactive people but I just gift them with 500k items randomly through the day instead of gifting large gifts constantly. I always go in planning on being way more active than the other person because I know I have the time to be right now. I only entered once so far this year and I had an amazing person paired with me. I love MM overall I just wish there was a way to make it better for everyone else.

I like your idea of requesting a new partner, because tonight was horrible, like I had to put up with being called names and insulting items.I refused to stoop to their level and sent them not one item.

I can safely say this was the best MM I've received thus far. But they also disappeared a few hours in and I've been gifting them (smaller) things every few hours in the hope they might log back on and see. But... been almost a full day and nothing. :s Aww. But damn, they were so nice, and reciprocative. Hope they enjoy at least some of the stuff I got them! I hope they're not weirded out by coming back to an inventory full of things (some of them junky things gah). Unghfng. Still, even though they only stayed for an hour or two, I'm so happy I got them!

Is it because my standards are too low or too high roflmao rip.

Only had one round with my MM, but glad to have one that did participate. Looking forward to tomorrow’s MM!

Dear MM,

You're a real doll tonight! Thanks for all the adorable items! Some were actual WL items.:o You must be psychic XD

I just wanted to say that my MM from two days ago was the BOMB DOT COM.

A dud yesterday, and a maybe fun one today? xD

My MM yesterday was just the nicest person I've ever gotten on MM, thanks for bombing back and forth with me! Hopefully today's MM is responsive as well.

Looks like I got a dud today. Oh well no big deal.

Got a fantastic MM today, I feel so bad cause I have to leave but I'll try to be back asap to spoil them cause they're AWESOME ❤

I have to go out and buy more gifts. I just burned through the last of mine because MY MM TODAY IS SO NICE!!!! 😭 I need more fun things to throw at them, omgggg

Ok I am at a loss. I have a standard hello type gift set that I send first thing every day. If they even respond at all it's like two items one with a thanks and the other with "Have a great Luminaire!" to which I send a few things back, and then that's it. Silence. So far I've had one person do back and forth for a bit they logged and it was picked up later that day. That was my best MM yet. I've tried multiple times to see what kind of stuff they like by conversing via sent items; that just seems to confuse them. Pretty much at this point if I do that I expect to hear nothing back for the rest of the day.

Today beats all. Standard hello package. Got a response which was a good sign. I tossed back a few things feeling the waters, they sent me this obscenely expensive yet completely off of the wall item with "Have a great Luminaire!" and that was it. Like.. hi! Have this stupid item I've been trying to sell forever and no one wants it! Good luck! Merry Christmas! Peace out! 😆😆😆

I think I've really only had one dud so far. Steals all the good luck. I guess I just go in having little to no standards and than I'm always pleased with whatever happens. I've had a very good themed items exchange earlier this morning so sending out anon love to all you lovely active people.

I've only had one active MM so far this month, so hoping today's will be fun.

EDIT: Yeah... no. Much disappoints.

Signed up this morning......and nothing from my MM :(

Nothing from my MM other than one item after I sent my hello item. Come on, people. If you ain't gonna be active, don't sign up please.

I'm taking a break from MM today because I have some more gifting to do for others, but yesterday's MM was amazing. Thank you for all the kind gifts and the last gift was especially great : D Good vibes and best wishes to you, MM~

My MM yesterday was so great that I had to keep rushing to keep up with them, we were going back and forth constantly, it was fun. Never knew what I was going to gift, just as I was going to get XD Def not an issue I've had before, but it's a fun issue. Kind of wish there was a way to reveal at the end of the day who it was, but that would be so messy in the negative way, even if cool in the positive. Depleted several currencies, but def worth it. Most fun I've had with an MM for a while. I don't mind anymore if I go days without MM's responding. I like to start out small and build up, but I'll always send something anyway. People get busy and sometimes things just come up. It used to bother me a lot when I first started, when I had days and days without anyone responding at all. It was very discouraging. But now I just shrug it off and send anyway and hope to have fun the next day instead :)

A dud again. They sent one gift, I responded, then nothing all day. Just why even sign up? ?

I know some people only sign up because they want free stuff.. and honestly, do NOT do that.. it's so annoying. Some of us actually want to participate and have fun you know. Hopeful today's MM will be better.