I am in no hurry

, that's awful! If you've been paying on the house for four years, she shouldn't have a leg to stand on! Did she try to claim that the payments were just rent or something?

pretty much this was a very close friend of my wife she claimed that her and my wife are sisters we have been there for her when she was down and out my wife even lived with her when she was super depressed when her husband left her and she was alone its sad up until we were evicted my wife thought she was her friend

I sorry to hear your news, I would sue for the 4 years of payments you made. Plz keep in touch I need to know you and your family will be okay.

I will try no promises though I won't be able to take much with no place to go or no way to move anything so its going to be whatever I can take when we leave .... plus we are having big time family issues ... so I am really in a big time mind scramble

my dearest friend Duane just KNOW no matter what no matter how long if your mind races and your heart beats its lil soul: ❤ so hard you feel it knocking. think of all of us here that love and care for you so damn much.

think of one friend and all you know of them..then think on aqnother and some fun times you have had...then think of your wardrobevand think of outfits you can make on your HA..

just keep us in mine=d and heart and know for sure we are all with you in your HEART N SOUL.

I'm sorry you were betrayed by a friend. That's never easy.

I'm super sorry to hear about your situation. Its really hard finding out people you thought where your friends really are not. I had a friend of 17 years and when I met my hubby suddenly she just poofed out of my life completely. she kept in touch a few times here and there but finally I stopped responding to her because I told my hubs it hurts too much to have this half weird/awkward friendship over what we had. So I'm really sorry for your wife and you and I hope you guys get things situated so you have a place to live.

- I like the lemonade idea...make lemonade. Shame on this "friend" for the betrayal...the older I get the less I trust people. I am sorry to hear you are going through this and hope you can get situated somewhere and that it is better than where you were before. Don't forget to come back to your friends here who care...Hugs ❤

I wish there was a way you could get some of your money back. Personally I would spread the word around to everyone you know just how rotten this "friend" turned out to be and try to shame her for what she did.

I wouldn't do that it will just make me look bad and we have moved on from being friends with her

You're a bigger person than I am. I would want to make her pay for what she did.

Uhaul has movers that will move the big items for a fee. Plus there are storage areas just call to find a decent fee.

You have such a big family, I pray for you all. Thank you for including us.

so glad you are having a wonderful vacation and were able to get that burden off of you.

Sometimes it feels as if the world is against you but it isn't. You have us and God will see you through... always remember that after the rain comes a rainbow! We love you! ❤

Ditto what said, your important to us (the lair and me)! Soldiers never say quit they pick up their ruck sack and move on toward the challenge/mission. Most important remember your health and reach out to the VA they may have resources that can help.

FabulousViolet the burdened I carry is the same burden others carry in hubby’s family. So I have someone to talk and share with, sometime a conversation can be the most priceless gift you can receive or gift another person with.

... i find myself nervous about when you duane have to disappear n poof for i dont know how long..when i wont know what you are doing?..are you comfortable enough? is your situation going to be better for you? so i guess we all can stick together HERE? ! i guess i am trying to fill the void before it happens.

best and hope to see you on the other side of what your having to go throiugh! we all care so damn much for you sir!

I hope everything works out well for you and your family!

I'm not around chatting much, but I skim posts and this group has been so great! Everyone shows so much support to those in need and it's truly amazing!

I missed the part about the burden. I hope you have gotten out from under the weight of whatever it was.

Thanks Love.

Praying for you. You are in my thoughts.

sending so much love your way <3<3<3 horrible that a "friend" did this! I really hope that you are able to sort things out and find a home quickly!