That is always nice. space in the house is space in the head they say. We also are getting stuff away. Went to the dump last saturday and someone comes this saturday to pick up our old dryer. So that gives some more space.
: Yeah true. I am probably going through some more stuff tomorrow. And yeah, it is nice to clear out some space.
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we've planned that for the weekend, after the dryer is gone we can moce some stuff to that place and have more room in the room to sort things out :)
Good evening everyone,
Can't wait for Survival to start.
sneeks back in
Good morning everyone! It has been a while... But I do plan to be online more for the coming events.
Hey sweety, how are you?
Can't wait to see all the new stuff and what the new virussen would look like
: Yeah, can't wait to find out what they look like. And what the sort of theme will be ^_^
: Welcome back!
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Still not that great. Mom is still fighting cancer, so that takes up a lot of my time and energy, but we keep hoping for the best!
Thanks! You look ready for Survival. :)
Welcome back and sad to hear about your mom. Keep my fingers crossed for you she will feel better soon
Yeah, she has been battling for 2.5 years now. It is tiresome, but you cannot give up. We hope the chemo wil work now, as it is the second time they will give her a full treatment. fingers crossed
Honey I know the feeling you going through. My dad first time had cancer in 2010, was clean after and had it again in 2012. So I know the stressfull rollercoaster :(
It is just so life-controlling. Almost all of my free time goes to my parents. It is not that I mind doing that, but I notice some of my “friends” do not call anymore, or they get together without me. One if my best friends hasnt reached out in a year. This means I probably need to rethink who my friends are, lol!
It is "time consuming" you do it with love but you lose yourself a bit. And indeed in these times you know who your real friends are. It's no problem that they do stuff without you, but they must have asked if you want to come and then it's up to you if you want an can, not their descision. But how sad it is, that's not something for you to put your time in now. Now you must put your time in your family and the things you realy want and can do, and most important... the people who also put time in you now
that is indeed taking a lot of time when one of your parents is ill. And just what you said about friends. Now you see who the real ones are.
: Glad to see you here. I really hope they can help your mom. I know how much your time gets sucked up when one of your parents is sick. Hope you can also find some time for you, even though you spend that time with love. still sending you and your family positive vibes
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So true! It can feel like losing yourself a bit because all of your time is going to someone else, in this case my mol. But I would not do or want it any other way.
Exactly! People I hadnt heard in a while really came through and are supportive, so it works in both ways. :)
Thank you! Finding some me-time is the hardest, and sometimes when I do something for myself I tend to feel guilty. But at the same time, I really feel more relaxed and better afterwards, so it is definitely something I need as well.