My partner is 11 months and 20 days younger than me. :P
My boyfriend is 11 years older than me. We've been together for a lil' over five years, I was 20 when we met. He's the first person I've dated, so it's hard to say whether I prefer older men, but I never felt much connection to guys my age.
I'm 3-1/2 years older than my husband, but since both of us refuse to grow up (We can't help getting older, but we can be immature forever!) it doesn't matter in the slightest.
I prefer if they're around my own age, but if the connection is solid and real I don't mind dating someone where there's an age difference. Since I'm only 24, it has been weird before if the guy has been younger than me. My current bf is only 19 days older than me. However I have had issues with a "friend" of mine, because he consistently goes for girls who are 7 - 9 years younger than him, which I see as a problem when he's my age.
My bf and I are 6 years and 4 months apart (I'm 24, he's 30). It's never felt like that big of an age gap though, and no one around us has ever made a big deal about it, which is nice.
I've dated people who were over a decade older than me or so and it never felt particularly odd unless the other person made a huge deal about it and pressured me to act like I was in a different stage of life than I was (Early twenties compared to their mid-thirties or so.). I have a lot of friends who are much older too and sometimes it gets depressing seeing how much they struggle with the same problems as me cuz' I keep foolishly hoping that things will magically become easy when I'm their age but no they still have trouble with family members and employment that utilizes their skills/degrees.
my current boyfriend and i are seven years apart in age, and hes the oldest i've ever dated!! for me it depends on the person! not so much the age! :)
My hubby and I are four years apart. I was 19 and he was 23 when we got married. My dad is 7 years older than my mom. And my 21 year old brother has a girlfriend who is 39, so there's a pretty big age difference!
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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 30, so 7 years. We've been dating for a little over three years- we met a month before my 20th birthday.
For me, age is more of a 3rd or 4th date discussion- if you've scored the date I'm unlikely to care.
When I was 18ish I dated a man in his early 30s for about 6 months. He could quite easily pass for 22-24 so I didn't know how old he was for the first little while. When I found out, it did bother me a little, mostly because by almost middle age he had had only worked at constantly changing minimum wage jobs and pursued no education beyond high school. Looking back with more perspective, I don't actually think that his accomplishments (or lack thereof) were bad, so much as they didn't align with my personal values. Values, not age, were the real problem.

I love your username! And you are so right, I hope the best for you two! ~ ^^
I love seeing young marriages, if I may ask, what was the story? If you don't mind telling! If not that is absolutely fine! And wow! 21 and 39, awesome for them!
Personal values are a huge part of any relationship! That's why my past relationship ended is because when we grew up, we grew apart and diverted paths (along with a lot of other reasons - lol!)
It's actually a pretty funny story! I was 16 when we met. He was talking to one of my friends, and I went with her to go meet him at the mall. We all hung out for a bit, then later he added me on facebook. We would talk every now and then, but nothing more than just "hey, how's it going?" or something of that nature lol. Three years later he sent me a message and asked if I wanted to go see a movie and hang out, and I said sure! We went on a few dates and then he asked me out. We started dating 8/21/11, were engaged 9/11/11, then got married on 11/11/11! So we were only together for a couple of months before we got married lol. But now we've been married for four years, we have a son who just turned three, and we're about to have another little boy in a couple of weeks! :)
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My long-term boyfriend(40) has 17 years on me(23), and a 12 year old daughter, so I kind of got a pre-packaged family with him. We get along great, and his daughter claimed me as her mama. She turns into a little attack dog if her dad starts taking a tone with me. She's my minion! muahahahaha! At first everyone thought it was a joke, and I got a lot of crap. After time people realized we both did nothing but good for each other, and that's all that really matters in life. Now everyone's rooting for us. :P

That's awesome! I'm so happy you and his daughter get along amazingly! :) <3 And if you're happy and not hurting nobody, why should anyone care, right? :)
8.5 year difference over here, I'm the younger, haha! I honestly always forget we got that age gap though, it's never noticable.
That's awesome! When you truly love someone, it doesn't matter :)
My husband's a year older than me so that's nothing special. But I thought it postworthy that my mom and her two older sisters all have husbands who were born in the same year :) My mom's one year younger than my dad, Aunt 1 is one year older than her husband and Aunt 2 is 4 years older than her husband.
My boyfriend is only 6 months older than me.
BUT one of my best friend's is 21 and she's dating a 32 year told. They've been dating for over two years now though. I definitely used to be a little skeptical of huge age differences, but now that I'm about to graduate college, I know a lot of people who are 20-21 dating people in their late 20's or early 30's.