Darn waiter probably chased people off with his history of behavior, too. Nice to go to a place you know just about everyone, so you can relax. Make you wondered why management tolerates the guy.

Exactly! My boyfriend has played at that bar often enough where the manager/owner knows him, so there was no major issues for us. We don't go there a lot though to know the regulars, but a few friends here and there pop in sometimes if we're there when Kev has a show. They certainly can't find suitable staff to keep for long periods of time. I think only the bartender has been there for a while. I won't be surprised to see this place close down if it keeps going the way it does with the constant change in servers.

Oh I didnt know there were health requirements. I always manage to get wait staff that are great people. I think this guy is talking about was a bit much or he had to appear busy at all time doing his duties. Manager should have informed the guy, and if he had question about friends and family at a table for a band member. Waiter should have talked to his manager, that way he would have been covered in talking with manager and not felt so inclined to clear your table. Sounds like the guy maybe have been relatively new. Usually wait staff listen to clientele unless they have become problem children being rowdy and need to be persuaded to leave.

OTOH, 90% of all waiters are gay, and yet Holly felt the need to tell us. We're all adults here, we don't need to be told this. Gay has fuck all to do with it. At all. You think the manager was unaware of what their staff was doing, and I think it is naive to think she was unaware.

I've been in a restaurant and clubs with folks who did not know I was gay and have seen how they react to waitstaff that is more 'obvious'. Being chatty and stopping by often is self-defense against unfair complaint and being stiffed.

Holly is the girlfriend of talent, so clientele she is not and one salad all night clientele she is not, sorry.

Meh....just my nonsense rants, whatever......

Anyone play Disney Emoji Blitz or the Tsum Tsum game? So addicting, I love these games, haha! Although I've been experiencing issues with emoji blitz closing on me in the middle of playing. kicks

Pumpkin Patch is OPEN ~ Yippee!!! 🙀 🎃

Morostide is officially today's saving grace for me. I can trick-or-treat and carve pumpkins and real life doesn't exist for the rest of the evening.

Woot! :D

Is there anyone who would like to help with our official LairBear TOT/Pumpkin Patch thread in case doesn't make it? It would involve posting along with me and keeping your posts updated with the correct item locations. Please ping me if you're available and interested in helping!

Help please...I already got hexed. Does the Protective Sage keep you from getting hexed or? I forgot seems like there is something to remove it also

Protective Sage and Hypno-Monocle reduce your chances (I wear them both and got hexed twice last year--your mileage may vary.) Hex Remover would remove the current hex.

thanks so much I appreciate it :)

You're very welcome. ^^

I can't really promise to be available to help for long periods at a time, but I can definitely help report where I find new things. Earlier I got and from section 1 of the pumpkin patch.

Ok... I'm old and tired and have forgotten what is the item my HA wears to avoid getting hexed. Help!!! I know I have it in my wardrobe just can't remember it. Oh... I got a black corn husk doll my first trip to the pumpkin patch. Lower right hand corner. So many dolls this year. I need two of every one of them. One for my Dolly Gallery and one for my wardrobe. Loving the spooky frame thingies!!!!

Hypno-Monocle and Bag of Minion Nip, for preventing hexes and attracting the minions in the pumpkin patch.

Protective Sage and Hypno-Monocle

Thanks . It sucks getting old! And Thanks

MINION NIP! I knew I was forgetting something this year. See...just another reason why ILU.

ILU glad I could help! Tell Sistah if his extra nice he can have a big bag of candy corn for Morostide/Halloween. My favorite halloween candy.

thanks for the Saggitarius Scratchcard! Tell me about it! Always writing notes, and setting alarms to remind myself.