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Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Isa
can't hang
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Quote by Futurama
Y&;know, earlier I said I didn&;t mind gifting expensive things, but I think the problem is I don&;t really have a lot and I feel like my MM is always expecting me to send themed items or to be clever and send responses. I kind of just want to be nice and send my own items at my own pace.
Also these past 2 days they&;ve just disappeared on me after a few gifts. What&;s up with that?
I'm not the best at communicating/sticking to a theme either but just showing you at least made the effort of visiting the 'items that send a message' board or spent 10 minutes of your day on SubetaLodge searching for cute stuff to send goes a long way, at least for me. If people don't have the time to prepare a couple things before joining and then searching for more, then MM is not for them :c I think most people would rather receive 5/10 really thoughtful gifts (and those being stuff you can easily find for under 30k each) than 1/2 expensive and mindless ones. Try preparing a cute Hello and Goodbye packages and send whatever you want in between, if they communicate what they collect in the meantime, then it's easier, stick to that!

Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Wasserpest
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Sobek

Oops. Really slow doublepost..

Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Futurama
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Thanks. I'll try something for tomorrow. I think I need to save up sP if I'm gonna do that though. Haha. But my previous problem still stands though, and I know I'm not the only one: People disappearing only after a couple gifts. I hope me not being too great at MM didn't scare them off. ._.

Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
gucci
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rumflavoredpea

Good to know that we get a different one each day... Today was my first day and not much is going on. |: Hopefully they get around to sending more later today.


Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Isa
can't hang
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Nah, you'll spend way less than you think you will! You'll see ;-; And yeah... I always start with cute hello items and then a medium(?) gift, so than if they don't respond I don't feel like I've wasted too much on someone inactive ;-;

Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Mallior
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Got another nice and active MM. :) (Knowing my luck in MM, it won't be permanent...)

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Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Gift
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I wish there was a way to "report/flag" an inactive MM, since Subeta knows who's matched up with who! I feel like if they were flagged for just taking items, it would make MM so much more fun for the people who actually like receiving AND giving!

Two days so far with the MM, first one didn't bother sending anything - and the second one sent one 3k item after I sent them a few nice things, sent them a few more, and they completely disappeared! :(

Dec 2, 2014 11 years ago
Don't toy with
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AiWo

First one was nice, gifts were modest but not "cheap." Didn't understand the messages I was trying to convey, so that was a bit of a waste of time, but oh well.

Now this second one is kinda freaking me out! I got a really nice item from them- the kind I would need to save up for for weeks, so now I'm scrambling around trying to find items that I can send back- I'm digging through my vault, pulling out my nicest things and sending them over, but it's still not adding up, and As I'm Typing this, they're sending me more things! I should be grateful, but it stinks that I can't repay them properly! Gaah!

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Marla
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Nothing today :( I just want to giftbomb someone!

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
CassieFenix
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Gai of the Righteous Flame

Got my first active MM, but I'm getting some odd items, besides a book. Hopefully, with what I sent next, they know I want something nicer. :)

[edit] And did Melody get a Redraw? She looks... different.

[edit]FINALLY getting some good items! :) Making sure I make my MM happy in this! :D

Caterkillers Unite!|| Formally known as NoelKreiss || She/Her

I bite for the following Ant Agony, Butterfly Bruise, Carchari, Caterkiller, Crack Head, Cryomorph, Crystalitis, Death Roe, Death Slug, Doom Bloom, Eau de Ceased, Fevermore, Grosseries, Ilunopox, Gummy Squirm, Love Bug, Metalmorphosis, Muerte Fuerte, Naughty Nip, Pinkie Patch, Queasea, Jolly Rotter, Sickura, Snack o-lantern, The Vapors, Befowled, Wrapture, Yggdrakill, and Transmewtation.

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
This rift empty
condescension
YEET
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Lauliette

welp i sent them some p nice stuff again today, but nothing from them past the first hello not bitching about it, just kind of upset that it seems like they didnt notice it

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
EmilyMae
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Talon Karrde

I may try one more time, but my first time this year was rather disappointing. They sent me 3 things last night, and I have not heard from them since. I tried to have fun coming up with different themes to send throughout the day, but not getting a response just takes the fun out of it. Just getting a cookie or even a snowball in return would have let me know that I am not just tossing presents into an abyss. If I try again, is it better to sign up right away or wait until morning?

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Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Gandalf
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Jesus, got the worst MM today. I sent a couple of cheap, useful things, and they get back to me with a gift saying how sad they were that I didn't get them anything nicer, and then an insult gift. What a douchebag. If you're reading this, screw you MM. Wishing you a VERY UNMERRY CHRISTMAS.

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Kyuubi
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Got a few cheap (which wasn't bad, I actually used what they sent) items from my MM just a bit after midnight this morning. I wasn't able to send any back at that moment, but near the middle of the day I sent a few items in the higher range, but I haven't heard from them at all. Oh well, maybe tomorrow will be better.

My first day, which was yesterday, I got a grateful and active MM, and we exchanged gifts a good portion of the afternoon.~

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Marauder
has a sweet tooth
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This is my first Luminaire, and i'm not really good at this... I mean i'm sending stuff, I usually try to send stuff a little more expensive (Cause it's nice to be on he receiving end of that, right?) but idk how to "communicate" D: I feel like i'm a horrible MM lol

But my partner today didn't send me jack shit... Go to hell

Whoa, what did they send you? o.o

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
janine
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boring

My 'complaint' is that my MM yesterday and today (1st and 2nd) have been way too generous! I feel completely guilty that I can't possibly match what they're sending me. I feel like I'm one of those partners that others complain about not sending enough or not good enough items. I'll probably end up 'paying it forward' a bunch of items I get to future MM buddies just so I don't seem completely useless. :)

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Gandalf
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I don't think I'm allowed to say what it is (because that could be targeting), but it was a clearly meant to be an insult. Apparently my MM today is a spoiled brat, haha. Oh well, better for both of us tomorrow, right? XD

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Marauder
has a sweet tooth
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Yeah, a flagging system would be great for people like that D:

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
353
plays with dead things
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i'm a terrible MM partner and i'm sorry for whoever gets me. i can't afford like anything right now (i pretty much am literally broke whoops) and i do have some good stuff i suppose but the RISK kills me and that makes me sound greedy i know but like i don't want to send something i worked my butt off for to get nothing in return? i have sent some good things though (the extras from my gallery |D)

majoring in procrastination with a minor in disappointing my parents
sell me any of these things and i will love you forever

Dec 3, 2014 11 years ago
Moyoleuhqui
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Pieta

Third day is here. My Mysterious Melody partner is a big butt. Just as usual.. Seems like other one that only joined for the [I]lolz[/I]. Ugh.


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But you don't freaking care

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