I really like it! :D

Thank you! :)

ahh, sorry to be confusing. On my phone it looked like te last comment made was the one of you getting the fierce wig from the free shop. Then I posted and saw it was a few pages back. Oops! :)

I mentioned mine earlier but Ill be buying only cruelty free bath/body/beauty/cleaning products for my new year. With that I hope to clean up my life style a bit. Go to the gym at least twice a week.. and cutting down on refined sugars.

Good goals! I also use cruelty free products. (Have you heard of Cowgirl Dirt?) Good luck with yours! I am sure you'll do great!!

Ive heard of them, I think their an equivalent to theBalm products I use :)

It's fine, no worries c: What were we talking about? XD

Excellent goals! Good luck! :D

I'm glad you've set realistic and loving goals for yourself. I try to use company own brands which advertise being animal cruelty free.

Help please :( My heart is hurting and I need to know what to do... it's a bit of a long story but I'll shorten it the best I can.

Remember way back when - when I first started subeta? The boyfriend I had ... we had a lot of issues, eventually we broke up and I was devastated. He wanted me back and for months ... I told him no. Even though I loved him, I didn't want to give him the chance to hurt me again. I've had 3 boyfriends since then, none have been as close to me as he was. He has a new gf now ... they've been going out I'd say about 7 months

I stayed with him the other night. He invited me over, asked me to stay... I slept with him. He felt horrible having a gf and cheating on her ... but he told me how much he missed me... how much he missed having me around and how right it felt with me.

I've felt empty since then. I feel like a piece of me is missing. The piece he took over 2 years ago when he broke my heart the first time. We both leave and go our separate ways in a few days and I feel like we have so much to talk about ..

part of me wants us to try again. Am I being crazy? Should I do it? What if he says no? Am I going to hurt all over again? If I do nothing will this empty feeling go away?

I am not judging you, you clearly still care deeply about him. My main question is:- are the main issues which split you up, still there? If they are then you'll just end up getting hurt again by being with him, and that pain will last longer than breaking off things now.

we broke up because he cheated on me. we were each others first and there was wonder about what else was there.

Now ... we have both done a lot of exploring. He did cheat on his gf again... but with me... so its cheating yes, but I'm the only one i think he would have done it with (if that makes any sense at all)

I have been the cheater in the past and it's because I felt like I wasn't worth anything and any male attention was needed. I have the belief that once you have cheated on someone once, they don't mean that much to you, and so you'll do it again. I am worried he will do it to you again. I cannot tell you what to decide, I haven't met him so I don't know what he's like as a person. If you truly believe you two can be together and have respect, trust and love, then go for it.

i think i need to talk to him. But i don't even know what to say...

hey do you still love me? if yes, dump your gf and lets do this for real this time? I am just so scared.

Yeah pretty much, saying it directly means there are no mixed signals at least.

I am just praying you don't get your heart broken

At the risk of sounding harsh LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER, of which, today, that would me ME. DO NOT DO THIS or go there again. Been there. Done that. should be your motto. Do not confuse your love of a memory with the cruel, hard facts.

You know, doing the same thing repeatedly with expectation of differing results would be the definition of stupidity, not insanity. --Kazvorpal (talk) 19:25, 4 June 2012

that quote is my new favorite... and I wanna thank you for your words... harsh as they might be. I'm so dumb... I never should have gone over... we are supposed to talk tomorrow. And I don't know what I am supposed to say or do or ask or anything ...

There is nothing wrong with talking. JUST TALKING. say it after me... T A L K I N G LOL and when I say "don't go there" I am not really talking about a place. I am talking about your actions (or reactions).

i knew what you meant :)

T A L K I N G .. I said it with you lol

Oh man. I shouldn't have gone over there to begin with... that would have saved me a lot of trouble

I woke up to no lips this morning.....they are ON in my wardrobe. Looks like a repeat site problem. will tell you it is true when I say "I never go without lipstick!"

I think you need to have a really good reason for going back to this guy. You said he cheated on you once and he's cheated on his gf with you. Shouldn't he work out what it is he wants? From the sound of it he doesn't know himself and until he does there is a chance he'll end up hurting you again. Like BeauitfulChaos said, are the issues that caused your break up still there? If they are then I think you should step away. If they haven't been fixed by now, do you think they ever can be? You're moving on with your life. You have the chance of a job and you're planning to move after school. How would he fit into this picture? Can he? If you care for him then yes I can see you making room for him. But from what you've said, all of this will be amazingly positive for you. Do you really want to risk that for this guy? Has he given you any reason to think he won't put all that in danger? Love doesn't always make you think straight but if you can't see him fitting in with the future you're now facing, stop now. Honestly, I'm with WhiterWinter on this. Talk with him but I think finishing with him would be best at this point. I see what you mean about the feeling you are the only one he'd cheat with but he has done it before and is still doing it. Is his gf aware? If not, isn't it going to put her through the same pain? If nothing else, sort out school, job and your new home first. These are big changes and ones which will give you the strength you need for your future. You're going to be able to see your family again. Get that part of your life sorted and if you still feel, maybe pick up the phone and talk to him. But letting this guy back into your life when you have so much to gain could cause way too much chaos. He seems to have a gift for it. I think you'll be able to handle it better if you have a good place to be in before you poke that wasps nest again. Whatever you decide, best of luck. Sorry if This isn't too cohearent but I'm recovering from a beast of a cold right now.

Hey guys. What's new? I've been sick the last few days so I'm still catching up. This has been an absolute nightmare of a cold. But I'm recovering, I think.