Yes i know how calming cemeteries can be. I spent much of my youth visiting my little sister in one. The one she was buried in was just so gorgous and well maintained. I hope to move to the coast someday. Any coast, I don't even care what country. I just want to live by the ocean.

- Wow way to brush someone off so flippantly.... People can disagree, you know.

On a lighter note, my perfect partner would be someone older than me by some, have long hair, be very very intelligent, love nature, believe in the same forces that I do, like cats, want to live as naturally as possible, like some of the music I do, have an income or enough to support themselves, does not have and does not want a television and is happy. Someone kind with a soft and generous heart, who respects the bond i have w/ kidlet, and who would not want me to be a replacement mom to their kids, if they have them, and have their own mom. They should like to talk to me, and like to be touched and touch in return. Someone who understands what a life with me will cost them. Someone who won't mind that I will be disabled for the rest of my life.... and since that doesn't exist, someone who will be glad to be with me while I can see, and after that, they may go on their merry way. Oh and like to go camping and isn't afraid of rednecks.

They really are lovely places, I find them more peaceful than sad (though I can't really say if that would change if I lost someone). I mean, I see them more as a place to commemorate people's lives than to remind you of their deaths. It must be nice to know that her resting place is still looked after and taken care of, at least c: Any particular reason? I think the only thing that I'm really sure of is that I want a place where I can have an actual house, yard, and garden. I don't think I could live anywhere that didn't actually have the normal seasonal changes, either. I'm way too used to snow and such now cx

I have never seen the sea! been I have wanted to since I was just a little boy. and it always rains on the coast so I won't have to deal with snow anymore! I hate snow so much. I would prefer to live in an apartment or a small house. I don't need or desire a lot of space. of course that would change if I got married and had kids. so then a nice house with a yard and a vegetable garden sounds good but for now just a small place for me and my cat and my fish should be good. My easel folds up into a briefcase so i don't even need a lot of room for my art stuff.

i want to marry mitchell davis haha jk maybe

ummmmmmm i want a funny guy, adorable face, nice, easy to get along with and talk to, either really dark hair or blond hair, kinda chubby (idk i like chubby bunnies lol) and ummmmm.... idk that's about it haha

My perfect partner. Can deal with my social awkwardness, makes me feel good about my chubby bits. Won't mind going outside and doing new things. Won't tell me my ideas, my mind, my speech, my imagination is lame. Will hug me when I'm sad, will kiss me when I'm happy. Will worry when I maltreat myself. I don't care if he likes what I like, as long as he respects what I like. Won't be an elitist gamer guy. Looks aren't important, but I like smooth dark brown hair and blue eyes. Preferably not overly obese. Chubby is nice. I had many things I didn't care much for about my ex, but the way he read me .. I remember once we had to talk to his brother and he told me that "You shouldn't worry so much, even though you're pissed I'm going to deal with this." I hadn't said anything, he had merely read my facial expression. My current boyfriend is a wonderful guy, but he's only the most important of these. I hope he'll grow out of the gamer attittude.

Oh wow, really? I've only been a few times, but the feeling of the sea breeze is so nice! It's a close second to rain on a warm day, in my opinion. Obviously, it's all really beautiful, too ❤️ I totally get not being fond of snow, I just want to be somewhere that I can have snow for the holidays. and a reason to drink hot chocolate whenever I want to The snow doesn't even phase me at this point, really. If there was somewhere that had constant spring weather, I'd be there in a minute! I'd be perfectly happy living out of one room by myself, but I was just thinking (fantasizing?) about when I have kids - since I plan to at some point, with or without a partner. That does sound like it'd be a nice arrangement, though! What kind of art do you make? Have you ever been to an art museum? They're so amazing to explore c:

It snows constantly up here in Canadfa. just constantly. I hate it. if i never saw snjow again I would be a happy person. I have only been to science museams before but I have been to several art galleries as there are a number of free ones in the city. I also worked at a cafe that featured art from a different artists every month and people who came to eat there could also buy the pieces of art on display. I pain, not very well at all but I do it for fun. But my art is writing. I'm a writer. I've written 4 novels and a bunch of short stories. a lot of my short stories are online on my deviantart but i have not been published yet for any of my novels. I would link you to my short stories but they're old and I'm embarrased of them. Haha XD

Oh god, I'd probably really hate the snow if I had to deal with it constantly, too! We get enough of it in New York, but it's pretty manageable. Science museums are pretty interesting, too. I just really loved the art museum because it was so creative and interactive ❤️ It's nice that you've been able to get so much exposure to art, and that cafe sounds like an amazing place to work! I really enjoy art (and anything creative) even though I don't study up on it or anything. Oh, I do the same thing with cooking! I don't really understand the finer points of it yet, but I have fun trying new recipes when I can. I even started taking lessons recently c: Oh wow, that's really great! What genre are they? or are they different genres? Well, you still have plenty of time to get published as long as you keep your passion for writing going! I'd definitely like to read something you've written, even if it's old and outdated cx

Mmm I guess my perfect partner is a guy who is mature, enjoys at least a few of the things I like to do (childish things), and is confident in his abilities to make decisions and understands the consequences. A person who would listen to my bullshit/bitching and not judge me or treat me completely different from before. I guess in short someone who has had his own shares of experiences, understands the risks of each decision he makes, and knows what he's doing. Not sure if that's too much to ask for if that's just not realistic xD;

Edit: I think all I want in a person of course is realistic + financial stability, as well as the big one - emotional stability since we can't have two emotional wrecks in a relationship xD GAH.

OhI love cooking! I've been doing it for years.Favorite thing ever. I also weigh 184 pounds. haha. I'm a romance riter. generally male to male an no not everything I write is erotic but I do have some of that as well. Sorry for short reply. atschooland keyboard is sticking.

You get to have fun and end up with yummy food - what's not to like, right? I actually prefer making real meals when I can now c: Now that you mention it, I don't even know how much I weigh right now! Anyways, I figure that you're fine as long as you're happy and it isn't affecting your health negatively, right? Oh god, I have such a soft spot for any type of romance novel ❤️ Like to the point that I still love it if it's insanely cliche/corny, it's pretty sad. They must be fun to write! No worries, sorry mine always end up being so long! x: I honestly can't seem to control it.

My husband is pretty perfect to me. He's a hard worker, great dad, total nerd...he has nice hair, a great smile, nice ass, and kind eyes. We have nearly everything in common. Today is the sixth anniversary of our first date actually :)

I prefer the longer replies actually. seems more like a real conversation. Yeah I'm fine with my weight, I just wish my mom wasn't such a drag about it. Most of my health problems were there before I started gaining weight like my heart murmur and they haven't increased or anything with the weight so I'd say i'm fine. Romance is fun to write, it makes me feel a little less lonely because my characters are less lonely. You know? I know it sounds pretty rediculous. Haha. But writers will always be writers, sometimes characters mean ever more than most the people you meet in real life. books were such a comfort to me as a child. I was a strange kid without many friends. Without any exaduration at all, I have read a good many books over 200 in the last 17 years.

I just feel the need to reply to each sentence/idea, and by the time I'm done typing it somehow ends up twice as long as the message I'm replying to. Maybe I'm just an online rambler cx I don't see why it should bother her so much if you're happy with it. I mean, I'd understand her being concerned if it did affect your health, but it'd be pretty unreasonable if it were for superficial reasons. I hope none of your issues are too serious! I feel sick more often than I don't, but I don't have any official conditions to deal with. Actually, I read this section by an author at the end of one of her books, and she was talking about how she literally cried after the series was over because she missed the characters so much, so you're not alone! I guess it makes sense to prefer characters you come up with, since they're literally whatever you want them to be c; Most people you meet definitely won't be amazing in comparison (or really amazing, period). Oh god, you have no clue, I was really selective about who I'd talk to as a kid and always befriended the wrong people - I was pretty hopeless! It's great that you get so much enjoyment out of reading though, I wish I had enough time to read that much!

I sure don't anymore! My life is so busy I hardly have time for a thing. I'm just on now because I finished a booklet of chem homework. Life's gotten really busy. I don't think it'll ever slow down. 3 more months of school then it's straight to work. no breaks for the poor. I guess I can only hope I win the lottery. If I did I'd travel everywhere.

IMPOSSIBLE! Join me,marry yourself ;u;

okok jk I'll throw flowers during your wedding

HAH~! Brilliant. XDDD That or I stalk the crap out of Robert Downey Jr and marry him ;D MUWHAHA ❤️

Can't promise that I'll not try to steal your husband then. ;u;

Oh bby, don't worry we'll share him, yes we will ;D /evil laugh ❤️