I want a girl covered in freckles, who's skinnier than me but appreciates my body even if I'm a chubby guy. She'll keep house, but will let me cook dinner whenever I want to. We'll have late nights in with each other, and watch Disney while drinking vodka coolers. We'll both listen to awesome music, liking the same bands but different ones as well but not hating any of each other's music. I want a girl to play old school Nintendo with and to read Tattoo magazine. We'll shower and bathe together occasionally and spend weekend mornings cuddling in bed with coffee and a kitty.

Ah the romantic fantasies of a teenage boy....

I don't understand, is this meant to be a topic for people to post their 'perfect partner' lists, or...? x: Anyways, I'm sure you'd be able to find a girl like that, so I wouldn't give up hope! I mean, half or so of those could apply to me, and I know a couple of girls who fit some of them, too. Personally, I think the ones we really love won't have everything on our lists but will make us wonder why their other traits were never on our lists to begin with. Fantasies and lists are fun, but I think the real fun in love is discovering new things to love in a person c: (though being a hopeless romantic, I know they're nice fillers until then)

sure you can post your lists! I was just rambling on the internet haha

I'm lonely because my fiance left me over a month ago and I just find myself hoping for a partner with traits so different than his were. Which is odd because I just loved him so much, everythign about him...

I want to marry myself.

people problems

I'm not narcissist tho.

;)

I don't think I'd even be able to make a list, my tastes are so varied! I was just wondering, I definitely understand the need to ramble online c: more than I'd like to admit

Oh god, I'm so sorry to hear that! Having relationships end is painful enough even when you don't really love the person, so it must be really difficult to cope with losing someone that you were planning a future with :c It's fine to be attracted to opposites/different things, but I think it's important that you make sure that you're not only interested in people like that because you want to avoid people that remind you of him. It makes sense to not be able to handle being around people who remind you of him (especially so soon), but you can't try to change your preferences as a method of avoidance. In any case, I don't know how you'd be able to start a new relationship so soon, so maybe you could just focus on friends and such to help ease the loneliness? Even if it's just meeting new people online to chat with, they can help as much as any friend in real life can if you let them c:

i have my perfect partner! he's protective, immature, dominant, sexy, smart, strange, everything I always dreamed of :3 he's critical of society, super smart when it comes to cars and computers, and everything. he likes video games and smoking things and has the most amazing booty in existence. he's hairy and has the sexiest smell. he knows what I like, how to treat me, knows when I'm bullshit ting, knows how to get me to do what he wants, knows how to make me laugh, always wants me near him, perfect perfect for me I adore everything about him, even his "faults". like he isn't so good with money aha.. he LOVES animals! he's an asshole outwardly but that makes it mean so much more when he isn't an asshole to you.. I know he really cares!

I don't have many friends really. IU miss the feeling of being loved. and no it isn't that. I knew our relationship had flaws and there were things about him I didn't like. He was never even close to my image of a perfect partner but I fell in love with him anyway. I think the biggest change is men to women but I do aspire to be a father someday. it's even better if my future child would have some of my DNa haha

I know how that is. I mainly have acquaintances, and it can suck when I really want someone to comfort me. Sometimes even people you just have a few conversations with can provide some comfort, though! (I'm always free to chat if you ever need it!) The nice thing about love is that there are many different kinds and levels of it, and even if you haven't experienced many of them/some that many others have (family, best friends, etc.)/whatever, there are still more for you to experience - there isn't an end to love in life as long as you keep yourself open to it c: Both of those things are completely normal for a relationship and don't make it any less real or special. It must be an odd adjustment to date a woman after dating a man for so long, but to me, it sounds like you should just go for whoever makes you happy next. The most important part is that you're with who you really want to be with! Even if you ended up with a man, you could still technically have a child that had your DNA by having a woman carry your baby for you and your partner (I can't remember what exactly that arrangement is referred to as) c:

God, sorry for the wall of text, I never seem to be able to keep things short x:

It's called surragacy. and I know but how awesome would it be to have someone I love be pregnant with my baby and I can rub her tummy and take care of her and bring her food she craves and stuff like that. haha oh my god. This happens from raising kids so early! As the oldest boy in the family I became 'mom' when my mother walked out on this. my littlest brothers were one at the time. And yeah I took up all of her responsibilities, I even ended up missign a lot of school at first but they were so little and they started calling me mom snvndfjbvebvu3rhunvjernhfioer that eventually stopped but I still got to raise little boys since I was 14 and I want my own. I have 4 brothers and a sister ;~; italians have big families.

I have my perfect partner and I feel very lucky to have him :) he's unbelievably handsome, active, creative, motivated, caring, calm, level-headed, understanding, and so many other things... I could never list all of the traits I love about him. And I think one thing I love as well is that certain traits become more dominant at times. Personality is obviously a very fluid thing so it's hard to make a list of the "perfect" guy because people well... aren't always perfect. But that's what makes my boyfriend such a great fit for me.

Appearance-wise I may sound shallow, but my boyfriend is the type of guy I've always wanted as well. Taller, dark hair, tanned skin, lean and muscular, knows how to dress himself well and takes care of himself in general. Almost 3 and a half years later, I still find him as attractive as I did the day I first stepped in the same room as him :) which I think is very important! But obviously there's far, far more to him than his looks. I've never met another guy like him.

Sometimes you stumble across someone when you least expect it-- I'm sure you'll be able to find a lovely girl eventually who makes you very happy (: My boyfriend and I love sitting in bed watching movies with a few beers and hanging out and having fun while not doing much, lol. There'll definitely be other girls out there who enjoy the same!

Thanks, that was going to bother me all day! That's true, pregnancy does seem like a really special part of a relationship - well, if both of the parents want it. I've always thought that it was so special that you could make a new person that's half you and half the person you love most in the world c: Aw, that is so sweet! I just love kids, they're so adorable ❤️ (I'm actually going to be majoring in early childhood education - then I get a classroom full of them to myself! cx ) Taking care of five kids while growing up yourself must be pretty difficult, though! o: That demands a lot more selflessness and determination than most people have at that age. I'm sure they all really appreciate you giving them some sort of parental figure, though! I've always wanted a little sister or brother (well, one brother is a year younger, but he's more like a twin to me than anything else), but I have two brothers and ten pets, so I guess I can't complain c:

Well hello I think we should be friends :) I'm Jessicca and love Disney and cats xD

I wish i had so many pets! I used to have a cat, and I had her for 15 years then she dies of old age. but she lived a good long life.

Hello Jessica. My name is Nicholas I live in Canada.

It's a lot of fun, and it's nice to always have something to cuddle with c: I have seven cats, two dogs, and a ferret. Only one of the cats is technically mine/my responsibility (and both of the dogs), but she's really adorable and feisty ❤️ (she purrs so hard that she drools, it's pretty ridiculous) It's really nice that you were able to have her for fifteen years though, I'm sure she was a great cat! It must be weird not having any pets after having a cat around for so long, though.

You're such a friend feed stalker c; which reminds me, I need to reply to your comment

Oh it really is. I'm thinking about getting another quite soon actually. My ex kept ferrets, they were pretty cue. I want just a cat and a big fish tank with a lid. we used to have tons of fish when I was little. it was this huge tank that my father kept in the corner. but it became a hassle to move it whenever we were moving so he got rid of it :(

Pleased to meet you ^_^ I'm from the states, Cali to be exact :) How are you?

Yes I am And I probably won't reply to your comment right now anyways xD

Oh I have a friend in California! She is coming up to see me this summer. I'm fine, just doing laundry and watching a silent film.