why are you so down? my heart becomes heavy when I read that you are stuck in your grief ... don't get me wrong, grief is important, you have to deal with the new situation, come to terms with it and deal with it ... but do you mean your sad one is living in the interests of your family? They are all together now and have so much to do, experience new things and see so many people again who love them and have met in their lives .. they are fine, but not you and that will make them unhappy ... me I can not imagine that you want that ... get yourself up, start a new phase of life and make your loved ones proud of you, because one day you will see each other again and when they ask you what you have done after they have left you don't want to say; I just mourned ... do something that you know what they wanted for you, because when the day comes and you walk your long walk, people with shining eyes and a smile will be waiting for you behind the bridge ... Wouldn't that be something worth regaining your strength and starting something new? I am with you even if we don't know each other, because we all know the feeling of pain of having lost something or someone ... it can break us, but it can also make us incredibly strong and let us create things that we don't to consider something possible... 🌹

so eloquently put! both capper09 and Dimdim are from a Germany. You can use google translator to talk with them here or in smail. But remember use German only in smail. Subeta rule no using other languages in the forums or comment area, but English.
My night so far...SPOILER (click to toggle)
...so...I've had a migraine the last couple days and am just now feeling better.
That's why I haven't commented on all these big things happening. Because of migraine and sleeping much of the day, I'm up at crazy hour. As I probably have mentioned before, my neighborhood is...not the greatest? But it's better than many, and not the worst, so.. Anywho. I heard a helicopter flying the rounds over our neighborhood a few hours ago. Not entirely unusual (sad to say). And just now (12:31 am) I heard 16 * bams * (presumably shots fired). It sounded pretty close. For a second I thought it was fireworks (my neighbors have been known to shoot those at random times of year, just one or two at a time). But I believe it was too regular. I'm actually kinda writing this because writing is a form of calming/therapy, and also because I actually tend to forget things. Yes, even things like this. And wanted to make note to remember.
This was my grandmother's neighborhood, where my mother was a teenager. I have many good memories here, and a not so good one. This neighborhood has history for me. But, different family factors being as they are, we need to move on. And I need to get an apartment. (starting to wonder if that's going to be much better...)
c'est la vie -_-'
Ah! Good. I here another helicopter. ^_^" yay.
Sorry refresh my mind are your migraines allergy related? Seems to me, you said they arent. I feel for you so much, about 10 years ago my allergies were so bad i was having migraine level headaches 4-5 a week. Not sure how allergies and migraines mix, but my sure did.
well if you get an apartment, no ground floors apartments they are easy targets for crime. Also being up higher any stray bullets will be less likely aimed up high. But mainly make sure, that the walls are sound proof or you get to listen to every single thing your neighbors do.
is celebrating a birthday today! Happy Birthday have a wonderful day full of fun, gifts, sweets and friends and family.
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I don't think they're allergy related, but my sister has allergies and we both get headaches. She said the ragweed count was very high right now. I don't think I have allergies because I have never been diagnosed with them, and never had any major issues. When I was younger (like, elementary age), I would get migraines so bad my mom would just keep me home. We never knew what they were coming from, and we couldn't really afford a doctor for that (I mean, it's 'just a headache, right?'). Now, I kinda guess at 'what's causing my headache this time'. Female issue related, stress, allergies (pollen can affect anyone if it's high enough, I think), not eating enough/the right things, etc. I really should keep better track of things. Once it's gone, I'm just relieved it's over and go about my life. ^_^'
As for apartments... I have a wild imagination sometimes and with a military dad who likes to be prepared for Anything at Any time, I tend to just start thinking sometimes... 'if a random 'this' occurred, how would I react?' And then try and be prepared for the most likely ones. Down to, if I need to get off a second floor without stairs, landing in that bush is better than the ground. (well, theoretically...)
Sound proof is like, one of the top things I'm looking for. That's partly why I'm trying to get a job that pays well enough that I can afford one with that. It's bad enough that the walls of this house are old and I can hear my neighbors playing their music In their house (loudly, but still), let alone conversations outside (again, loud ones). I Really don't think I could stand all that literally on the other side of a wall I could probably punch through.
Anywho..
=_= *Sleepy eyes.... * zzzzz..
I really should get to sleep now. :) I need to try and get back on a regular sleep schedule. Good night! <3
Happy Birthday
. . . Someone told me I have two faults. I don't listen and . . . some other stuff they were rattling on about.
Hope you have a very good Birthday .
In Memory Of Marreshaann
🌹 , Happy Birthday toooo youuu sing 🌹
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: Happy Birthday Sweetie! I hope you have a great day with lots of goodies!
: OOooo... you sound like you live in a neighborhood like the one where my friend Dannygyrrl lives in Fresno. Helicopters and searchlights, shootings, fireworks going off ALL THE TIME. Even in the middle of the day. They are looking for a house in a quiet neighborhood, but with the economy, this pandemic and the sudden demand for housing in the area, it's been difficult. But she is hanging in there and I hope you can too. I'm sorry about your migraines, they are terrible. I hope you can get relief from them soon!
Happy birthday hope you had a great day :D
Munchie (1981-2011)
Always in our thoughts an <3
Happy birthday hope you had a great day :D
Munchie (1981-2011)
Always in our thoughts an <3
Happy Birthday

all my other fellow Lairbears..... Y'all got me all choked up. I really didn't think y'all would have missed me so much. I'll check out that link asap msbehavin. I was totally overwhelmed by all the events I had after being gone more than a year. Well over 3000. Crazy!! I spent most of my time on here the other day just going through them and deleting. Then I realized all my poor pets were starving! Yikes! I boarded them really quick before I left the computer. So many changes and news articles I've missed! SO many new items to add to my wl. Why doesn't the wardrobe work??? Another revision? No way I can even begin to catch up with all of y'all's lives. I just don't have time to read them all. Anyways.. I'm really glad to be back even though I can't get on here as much as I would like. I promise I won't disappear again without y'all knowing it.
Life is short... Count your Blessings, Love your family and friends and lend a helping hand whenever you can!
R.I.P. Karen Garvin, beloved sister. Tom Garvin, beloved father. Jo Garvin, beloved mother., Donna Honeycutt, baby sister
Well now you know we miss you greatly, and that you are important to us and the bears. Take one day at a time, events arent going any where any time soon. Need help its a comment away here or my profile. If I dont know I will try to figure it out.
happy belated birthday hope you had a fun one!!
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-- hello bears, i need your help because i don't understand the wardrobe faq. I just want to know how I get my things out of the wardrobe. under - organize - I can click -inventory-, but how do I move it there? I don't have a button for it.
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removing through organize does not work right now. Glitched. The only way to remove from wardrobe is to use account search and the remove link there.
Hope it will be fixed soon!
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