Welcome to Subeta! Make sure you've filed a ticket (Subeta > Tickets on the top nav bar) to make sure you and your wife are not mistaken for a multiple account player in case that is not done already.

Subeautique also has a couple of male lines that have interesting items too, as a new player they may seem expensive but you'll find that sP is very easy to make :)

Welcome back :)

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What to do on Subeta? FAQ Useful general information for newbies Customise your dashboard Finding friends (Chit Chat) SubetaLodge (Offsite item database, pet colours etc.)