Happy Birthday! I hope you have a great day!
Hello to everyone! Thank you to Anonymous for sending me the Wrapped Jawbreaker Gumball! It's so beautiful! :) That was so sweet of you to think about me ❤
Hugs for you Christina!! I bet your enjoying your month of hugs... I hope your getting spoiled. Happy Birthday Lanara!! I hoping your day was awesome. I hope you feel better soon Leonie food poisoning is an awful thing to get!
Have a wonderful evening / day! Byeeeee!
Thanks everyone!
looks like you are well prepared for what pets to leash! :) I was thinking about using one of my nostalgic pets for Luminaire, too. And then my glacier pet maybe for January. I'll have to figure out something for Survival and Masquerade, but I have a couple of glade pets I can use for Vesnali. lol
So, I just found out the other day that if you beat Item Hunt, then that's it! You don't get to restart and keep playing. You're just done. I had no idea! I guess I should be glad that I keep getting so close and failing. I wouldn't want to not be able to play it again. It's a nice way to get some sP.

it was.
ding much better.
hahaha lol. Shame there is no pet for Masquerade. Oh i did not know that either...
, I didn't know that about Hunt. Nice idea about leashing pets for every event.
Cute HA !
thanks! Been playing around for fireside. The the little cat is hard to see... shame i don't have something like you
, I love the little cat. she's purrfect!
Hi all. Hope everyone is doing well. The school semester is almost finished, thank goodness. I feel like once December hits I can finally get a break (at least until January!).
My husband and I are getting a divorce, though. :( I'm not really sure what to do. We've been together since 2012 and have been through a lot, but he's got some personal issues stemming from some childhood trauma and so chances are we are going to divorce. He's kind of leaving me in the dust. He has the sole income from his VA disability checks and I've been going to school, and I don't know what I'm going to do about paying rent, etc. Let alone care for our 4 dogs and 8 cats. So I've been trying to find a job and I still don't know what I'm going to do about rent, car payment, etc. Even though it is a (fairly) amicable split, I think I am going to have to get a lawyer involved because I don't feel that it's fair to me for him to just go along his merry way while I'm left with nothing, at least until I graduate and can get a full time job. I dunno. I just can't seem to wrap my head around it all quite yet and I've got no support here since we are still fairly new to the area and my mom's not moving down here until next year. :(
Anyways, I hope everyone has a good rest of the week and I'm looking forward to Fireside. :)
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, I'm so sorry to hear about the divorce. You do need to get a lawyer for sure, first thing. It's too big of a change and traumatic for you to handle all by yourself. I know you can't possible see a good thing in this now but God has the bigger picture and it will probably be better for you in the end. I pray for God to help you through this Sarah. I don't know if you know Him but I do know that He knows you and loves you and wants the best for you. ❤
Thank you. I am trying to do as much research as I can so that I am prepared. I know I won't be able to get a LOT of his disability and whatnot, but apparently I can get alimony and it can be taken from VA disability. We don't have children (unless you count all the animals!) so no child support, but I'm hoping maybe he and I can work something out so that he will help with bills, car payment, pets, etc. I'm really hoping I can talk to our landlord and see if maybe he'll drop the rent a bit and maybe allow me to get a roommate to help with expenses and I think if I can do that and get a decent part time job then I may be able to stay in our current house. Otherwise I'll have to see if my mom will let me move in with her when she gets down here next year, but she only has a 2 bedroom and the other bedroom is occupied by my younger brother. So I don't know what I'm going to do about that yet.
He really wants me to remain friends with him and go through everything together, but I just don't know if I can do that right now, or in the future. I told him I want to go to couple's counseling so that I can figure out how I feel about the situation and what road I want to take because it's hard for me to put my thoughts into words and I don't want to offend him or ruin the relationship/friendship we do have. We're also going to hopefully wait until we've finished all of our current obligations like landscaping project, housesitting, etc. And then he said he's going to move to a bigger city where he can get more help. So I have a tiny bit of time to try and hopefully get things figured out at least, but it's tough. :(
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, sounds like your on the right track honey and a smart cookie!!! Counseling would be excellent for both of you. There is a book I ordered that my daughter wants for Christmas. I could read part of it before I ordered it. Just reading the part I did was really intelligent and made perfect sense. The title is Unoffendable (not sure that's how to spell it as I don't even know if that's a proper word). It's by Brant Hanson. You might want to read some of it on Amazon and see if it is something that can help you with your feelings. (((((((((((((HUGs))))))))))))))))
Hi everyone Hugsss :D Tempest has descended from above in order to play! You receive a storm item so she can get close enough to give you a MIGHTY BEAR HUG. I'm so sorry to hear this =( Hopefully everything will work out for you.I agree with post/Suggestions,Your right you need someone to help you out,the lawyer sounds like the perfect person.Hugsss

happy belated birthday
i am sorry to hear about you and your hubby. Counceling sounds good. But if it does not work ask a lawyer for help. To much to handle by yourself.
Busybee here. Loads of work, school work, open days at work, etc... Can't wait for the weekend.
, congratulations on getting Raining Ruffies from Tempest!
, take time to relax and enjoy getting rest on the weekend.
i agree with the others. Counceling and otherwise a lawyer.
Could you guys keep our (wendy and mine) uncle in your prayers. He is very sick, has a brain tumor, and he has surgery tomorrow morning. Hope they can take it away andgive him a few months more with us.