In user shops, you can click on WL search and it shows any WL items that are in the shop :)

hmm there's only shop and gallery search... perhaps I"m looking at the wrong page xDD

sorry, wasn't clear enough xD you have to click on the user store first c:

I'm just swimming in pings today, so I'm sorry if I missed anybody, I think I got everything from this thread. Shout at me again if I missed you.

Yeah a screencap would work (you'd really have to go out of your way to cheat on that) and Yes I'm generally really impressed by the people here too.

You can always ask me questions. And yes let focus on fun. ;) whispers speaking of which, in a different thread, the boxEVENT, I won a CW wig today :D whispers

And it's always so hard to tell intent behind text; emotion can be taken completely wrong. I'm so glad to have found such lovely bunch of people in this group. - Oh man pings! I've had more personal pings in the past couple of days then in the past six months. lol

I have the hardest time getting the face items to fit together right on the HA's faces. That's why I wind up using the closed eye items and Muse wigs so often lol

I think I only managed to get in maybe one of the find the cw events; but no I had no trouble with you. You were and are fine sweetie, don't worry about. I hope I didn't offend you in any way with the feedback. I started talking about the event after 's ping, I wanted to respond to it so Raine would know s/he wasn't alone and then I was asked to explain so I did and it kinda spiraled from there.

I know I'm last to party but, welcome to the group :D

I love the idea of moving items on the HA!

I agree, so I just assume the best. If an HA is real sad, if I see it I PM someone about it. Mine for example, is not meant to be sad, I just love the Forgotten Bride blue skin and the matching Forgotten Bride eyes, so of course the mouth has to be blue... Maybe my HA is worried about the thunder potential ... ;) LoL

And so few of the lips look like smiles and the ones that do are hard to fit to the eyes/face. That Bride skin is so useful for covering zombie stages too ;) I'm using the those eyes right now too. I think they work with this wig, but she looks worried - there must be zombies in them there woods lol

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♥♥♥ to you too :) Did I miss a ping from you?

oh no you're good! Just wanted to say that c:

Oh lol thank you. Hi to you too! I have so many pings today, I was sure I missed something. I'm still not done with even lol How are you doing?

I completely understand xD I had a lot pings today too (personal, event, and group) I've been good! currently avoiding doing school stuff xD How about you? c:

I'm okay, a bit stressed lately. Busy moving and it seems like every day there's a new complications. I were trying to get out by the end of last month, then the end of this month but I'll honestly I'll be surprised if we make it by the middle of next month. It's one darn thing after another.

Thank you so much! ^^

Huge bummer about people buying your items just to resell them. :( That's not fair of them, and I always hate it when people don't play fair! Is it loads of people, or the same people over and over? Because if it was only a few people, it would be easy enough to just refuse to sell them items, but if it's lots of people, then that's super lame. :(

As for the event: it was a challenging event on a challenging scale, and thank you for responding in a positive way.

I am a little concerned though... Did you happen to mention our comments to the leader of the event? I received a private message from them, and I have to admit, the message I received has me wanting to crawl in a hole and hide from the world. They are clearly extremely upset about the conversation, and it is making me regret speaking freely in the only forum group where I've ever felt willing to speak freely...

Thanks about the eyes! My current set up is SoFierce Luscious Lashes Green Mascara over Marez Jahira Eye Crystal (so pretty simple actually). I liked the makeup part of the marez, but felt like I needed the green to pop a bit more, and be a darker, clearer green, which the mascara does. :)

AT Pengy and And oh dear, bummer about the new glasses... New lenses can be SUPER stressful. I've had a horrible time with getting glasses and contacts since being in Switzerland. Had to go back in a bunch of times... The first glasses they got, they'd picked a prescription, then discovered it wasn't quite right, so they calculated how much they'd need to change it. But then, they forgot to calculate the distance away from my eyes, so the lenses were only right if I smashed them into my nose as hard as I could... And then, when I got contacts, they ordered the lenses wrong, so the first pair I tried, I could literally see next to nothing out of my left eye... But now I have mostly right glasses and mostly right contacts, so that's exciting... But even when they're perfectly calculated, jumping a prescription takes a bit of getting used to!

Also, watch out about the size of your window... Or if you've zoomed in or out! That can make everything rearrange. :O I've gotten super confused about that a time or two, thinking everything in a shop has moved around, when really I just made my window a bit narrower or wider... (I almost always split my screen, so...)

I've thought the same things about the mouths! I think so many of them are meant as "sexy pouts" and such, but that means that my HA often looks snotty, haughty, angry, or unhappy, and I don't mean for that! But most of the happier ones are either cheesy or too far off to one side or the other, so... :) I really am happy more often then not! My best solutions to that problem often mean multiple lips, too, just like I do with the eyes. :P I'm currently wearing two different sets of lips :O But that's tricky if you need an unusual color. Those aren't so easy to layer or match up!

Yikes, sounds like you've had some problems with lenses :(

Well my new glasses have something in them so I can view distinct shapes better, such as the difference between O and Q, but they make me dizzy and I almost fell from the stairs twice because my brains miscalculated the distance. So I am probably gonna go back to have it removed. I know I might need it but I don't like being dizzy and having a headache! And I wear contacts most of the time anyway so it's not like they have to be perfect.

Sorry, I was genuinely concerned as well when it has came to my attention that one of the hosts, specifically, the group leader, gave hostile answers to some people. I've known her for a while now, and she has been nothing but nice to me and others participating in the event. I am curious, what exactly did she say to you that made you feel that way? Would you like to link me to what she said to you via smail?

I'm kind of hurt about your comment that the event was a "PR stunt." We were genuinely trying to help people understand the CW submitting process and spread positivity after that whole pawn shop mess. But, hey it's your opinion, and it's okay if you did not enjoy the event.

Also, this is technically a public forum, since anyone is allowed to join without an invitation. Since it is a public forum, anyone is allowed to enter in a way and read what is written in here (and take action). I understand you use this group to chat freely, but the comments I have read just made me uncomfortable and I have to admit I was really upset after reading. I was really shocked and upset that you have gotten hostile answers and I wanted to know if that is true.

Yeah, lenses that make you dizzy are the worst! I have astigmatism in one eye, and not in the other, so when my prescription is wrong, it can really mess with me... And because it's so unbalanced, it's really hard to get right! Even the best eye doctor I know had to give me about five lenses to try before we got the right one! And when you're dizzy, and can't tell distance, and things like that... It's really awful! So I definitely feel for you...

I didn't mean to offend with the phrase PR stunt... Trying to educate people and spread positivity IS about public relations, but the stunt part is probably not the best word. That probably came from some of the negative feelings I was having... And I DID really enjoy some of the activities. Even though the puzzles were very hard, I enjoyed the challenge, and did complete that event... And I enjoyed looking up the designers for the items...

But like I said before, I'm also probably more sensitive to hostility than others would be, and when I asked questions or gave any commentary on how things were going, I did find things snowballing very quickly into what I would consider a fight. I know that I'm sensitive about that...

And yes, I know that this is technically a public forum, but it is also a very small group, and contains the closest thing to friends that I have on subeta... If I can't vent here, with these people, then I can't vent or express opinions with anyone on subeta... That seems a bit harsh. But I guess I should have known better to share anything emotional. The internet is the internet, and it contains no promise of a safe space. I know that. I guess everyone is so friendly here that I forgot that I shouldn't share too much of myself or my opinions. The world hates opinions right now in every shape and form anyway...

The message I received felt like one of those backward apologies, where everything is somewhere along the lines of "I'm sorry you're whiny and not happy, but I did everything amazing, so you're wrong, but whatever..." Not in those words, of course, but that was how it made me feel. Exactly like my mother when she wants to emotionally blackmail me into doing whatever she wants. I'll send you the email if you like, but honestly, I would most prefer to let this issue drop... It's blown up into a way bigger thing than I ever intended. I really meant it as I said it when I introduced the topic... I just wanted a chance to vent a little bit about something I was frustrated with. I never intended for it to turn into this...

Ooh yeah that's what I meant, I have it in my left eye!

Hah, it's in my left eye, too! :O At one point one of my sets of glasses got too far behind in my prescription, and I got motion sickness everytime I got in a car. :O It was so blechy! And it's tricky, because if your lens turns a bit or doesn't sit just right on your face, you CAN have more problems with dizziness and spatial problems. But if they get it right, its great. Unfortunately, my astigmatism is REALLY strong, and getting worse every year, so I can't get away with ignoring it :( I have to have toric contact lenses for that side and all of that. Lol, honestly, without my glasses/lenses, I'm practically blind in both eyes anyway, so... :P

Mine is still pretty small so for now I can deal with it I suppose o:

But we seem very alike! I'm also very sensitive to negative emotions.