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A sex berry will change your pet's gender for you if you like.

Can you clarify what you mean your hair isn't showing in your wardrobe? Are you wearing a wig item, or using the salon hair? Is it not showing up whilst you are in the wardrobe, or do you see it in the wardrobe and it is not visible yet in your HA sitewide?

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