Welcome to Subeta! Really nothing wrong with still living with parents, I can't imagine being in college/work and feeding that zoo by yourself! I'm intrigued by the kinda fourth dog? :P

Quests are all over the Subeta map, but an easy way is to add the Quest widget to your sidebar (You can do this via Personal > User Dashboard > Widgets > Add Widgets: Quests

Some of the links below might help you too :) And there is a suggestions & ideas forums towards the top of the page, though if you ask around people might be able to help you as there are also lots of existing items that might be close to what you are after :)

Useful Links: > What to do on Subeta? > Useful general information for newbies > Finding friends (Chit Chat) > SubetaLodge (Offsite item database, pet colours etc.)