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Are you trying to use salon hair?
In the hair salon, hit the "Back to normal, please" option. Give it a few moments, do a hard refresh, and then try changing it.
If you're talking about the old wardrobe, then it won't have a checkbox. In the new one, however, it does - so make sure that one is checked.
If you bought a wig, it will be in your wardrobe under the head layer. :)