can't see it there, wonder what's wrong?

pumpkin patch is also not working for me yet

Jaxon Skelly is busy harvesting next year's batch of amazing goodies. I bet you're thrilled

I think you have to add the widget with the friend / smail button on it

You don't have the "Options" section added to your profile. Also, the pumpkin patch is closed for everyone. It's intentional.

You need to add the profile section that contains the mail and buddy request buttons, as already stated.

If you don't want to add that, you could always just use the ToT sCode to add the link to your signature.

[tot=sunshine15] would be yours.

If you add the options section into your profile you should be able have it but if it makes it easier just type in [ tot = your username] without the spaces (and of course replace your username with your username) in your forum signature, it should show up there and people can just do it that way

So for you it would be [ tot =sunshine15] (without the space)

thank you, it was the option button for me under profile edit, thank you all :)