if a man finds u attractive, u cannot be friends
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I agree aswell..
In fact just recently, I had a guy friend, who was really close, but he got a new girlfriend and she had a problem with him being friends with me. He said he wouldn't want to because if he did he'd probably fall for me again. And honestly.. that's just.. stupid in my opinion o.o
I've been close with a few guys that didn't hide the fact that they would love to get into bed with me. It doesn't bother me in the least. I act the same around them as I would otherwise.
The only dealbreaker for me is when they actively try to come between my husband and I. That's just not okay with me. :/
I'm friends with a guy who finds me attractive, is not gay, and doesn't have a girlfriend. I'm not entirely sure if, presented with the situation in the original post, he would comply or not... he'd want to, but I'm not sure if he'd be willing to go through with it due to shyness and insecurity... but it's not like that would happen anyway. I'm not attracted to him in any way other than as a friend, and he can survive just by being my friend... he might not like it, but he accepts it. Does that count?
Also, to add... just because a guy is attracted to me (or vice versa, although that's not the case because I'm only attracted to my boyfriend) doesn't mean we can't have a stable friendship. I've got plenty of good friendships with guys... they may not meet all of the criteria in the first post, but we're still just friends, so...
Jirachi ❤ Dragonite
Judging by my experiences that's true. I had this friend, we'd been friends since grade 3 ,he was one of my best friends. In grade 8 he decided he liked me, this was a big suprise because I though he was gay. Long story short I haven't talked to him in over a year. If even a butterface like me can't have a male friend that doesn't end up crushing on them ,I can't imagine that attractive girls can either.
Sure. I'm mostly friends w/ a couple of guys that the only reason we're NOT doin' it is because they live a continent away.... but we're still friends with the "if we ever meet we're shaggin like bunnies" clause thrown in. Not a big deal for me 'shrugs'
Plus, free sex ?
One of them showed me ladder theory ages ago, too. Gave us a good bit to talk about.
collecting 
4. Guys who are older than you (not old enough to be your dad, but too old to date). Therefore you aren&;t attracted to them.
5. You find guy unattractive, and he&;s dating your friend
There&;s more than just three.</p>
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<li>You don&;t think he&;s cute</li>
<li>One or both of you don&;t find each other attractive enough to risk it.</li>
<li>One or both of you actually have a brain and don&;t feel the need to act on every single attraction you have.</li>
<li>You two just shouldn&;t be together.</li>
<li>You really are friends and don&;t want to go down that road.
No. You guys don't get it.
The ladder theory says you cannot be friends if the guy wants to fuck you. If this is true (and this topic is me asking you if the above is true.)
then it only leaves this, no other "you have brains" or "you -really- are friends" bs.
2. The guy does not find you attractive
3. The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder
does it count with girls and guys?
or girls with girls?
or guys with guys?
or just guys with girls?
:O
Well this certainly made me think. I do have guy friends of who I am sure that they would immediately agree to 'more' if they had the opportunity xD
But I don't think that it ruins the friendship or something.
It can be slightly uncomfortable maybe, but I don't consider it as 'fatal to the friendship'
My dad's a manslut. That doesn't count ;)
collecting 
Not. True. All of my friends are male. All of my male friends find me attractive. DNW DATES WITH MALE FRIENDS.
PAH. Do you know ANY guy that would turn down sex, bottom line?!
If I walked out of a bathroom naked, most of them would be like: O-O..... (being they've never seen a naked girl, in real life at least |D) Or be like: >83
Idk, I agree with Mythi. It doesn't bother me if my male friends would comply so long as that situation isn't likely to arise anyway; doesn't mean we can't be friends. That they'd comply just means that they're normal guys. I can respect that.
