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Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
Faeflower
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I do sort of judge HA but I know those people behind them probably are nothing like what the project. I usually do cute type avatars, but I'll do ones with lots of color and some mean/bloody ones. I do see how people can get a 'general' personality from one though. The bloody type ones I do goes with me liking horror movies. Or me doing different colored hair (like now), I just really love colored hair and wish I had the guts to do my own hair. XD But I would never think someone is 'stupid' because of how their HA is; however, you can get an impression of sorts.

I seen a couple comments of CHIC members. Not all the members make great HA's. I've seen some that I really don't like, so whatever on that. And the comment about well coordinated with color, artists have a great eye for color but in real life I have seen many who look not very well put together. But who cares. :P

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Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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I&;m pretty sure this is the defense of people who consistently make terrible avs.</p>
<p>If you don&;t want to be judged based on your av, don&;t have one. It&;s going to happen, whether you like it or not, nothing can be done about it. It&;s not always going to be a judgment on your personality or intelligence, but usually it tells me a lot about that person&;s sense of aesthetics or their tastes.</p>
<p>When I see avs that are cluttery and ugly, I assume the person is not very exacting in their tastes. There&;s nothing wrong with that. Wear what you like, make yourself happy, but understand that no one&;s going to think you&;re fashionable.</p>
<p>For example, when I see your av, I assume it&;s something you found amusing. I sometimes make silly gimmick avs as well, but we all have different tastes and I don&;t find blatantly shemale avs funny or acceptable to my own standards of what I will put on my HA. It doesn&;t mean I&;m assuming there&;s some kind of deficiency with you based on your HA, but I am going to make a judgment based on your av in some manner.</p>
<p>I really wouldn&;t worry about what people think of you based on your avatar.

It's not. My rant is based on an issue I've seen in the forums - people thinking that they can assume what someone’s personality is like based on some pixels. If you make a Japanese style avatar you're a weeaboo. If your HA isn't fashionable YOU'RE not fashionable. If you're wearing cheap items you're a n00b. It's quite sad because some people are judging others because of this when they could just as easily find out what they're like by exchanging a few Smails or something.

Like I said before, this rant isn't based on something that has happened to me. So far nobody has been judging me based on my avatars. Yes, people have been saying they don't like them but that isn't the same. People have that right to say that my avatar is sucky. I like them, that's all that matters. But if someone I didn't know came up to me and started assuming things about my life and personality, without actually knowing me, that would be different. I probably wouldn't be so bothered about it. But other people would. I realise that a lot of people should just suck it up and get a thicker skin but it's not that easy and I do feel sorry for them. It's not nice to be pre-judged.

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You seemed to have not even bothered to respond to what I replied, so I might as well repeat myself on this same topic. When I didn&;t recognize her, her post count was low, her username, and all of the other factors I mentioned before were there, her avatar did not help. It was just another factor in deciding that she is most likely a troll.

See, that’s what I find so bizarre. How can you decide that a person is a troll by their avatar? I know that there are other factors but I don’t think an avatar should count. When I was new I had a low post count. I also had a really crappy avatar. Does that mean people took a look at my avatar and assumed that I was a troll? I just don’t get how a few pixels can make a person decide something like that.

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Ikr? 99% of the time, you DEFINITELY can&;t judge someone by their HA. -.- My HA looks like Michael Jackson. If you say Michael Jackson and I are alike in anyway, I&;ll kill you. I also think it&;s silly when people think if your HA is a boy, you&;re a boy, and vice versa. My friend Otar is VERY much a girl and she always makes boys, and some of my guy friends enjoy making girl HAs.
I&;d also like to say, that I make very different HAs. I&;ll make something bouncy and fun one day, then the next I&;m bloody and grotesque, and maybe the next day I got lazy and just threw on a whole lot of items from the same MCT. Idk, the bottom line is judging someone&;s PERSONALITY by their HA is dumb.</p>
<p>Oh, and one more thing:
OMG OMG OMG!
Does this mean my personality is Michael Jackson? :( I dun wanna be MJ, cuz then I&;d be dead. Waah.

Exactly. While someone assuming you’re a boy just because your HA is a boy isn’t quite as hurtful as being labelled a troll or a n00b or a weeaboo it still fits the same mould and it furthers my point that sometimes people place way too much emphasis on a person’s avatar and uses it to judge.

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Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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Ummm,...Actually yes you can.

I think you can tell a lot from the persons HA

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Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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Al HA's are the same. They're all slim, are sort of genderless, have the same shoe size and they've got all the same height. I don't think you really can tell a lot from the HA, you only decide what it wears and not the rest. [skin quality, height, weight, boobies, shoe size for example] Though I must say we can do a lot with our HA's now, I don't think you can judge a person's personality by how it's dressed.

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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I agree. It's not like that everybody are in HA making. And the gender thing is so wrong too. x_x;

Though you do can say something from 's HA - he loves Ruffies. xD

And to add: My HAs are so much different from my personality. My HAs are more my Subeta style, but not in anyway personality.

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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Whenever I see someone with a messed up HA I can't help but think 'Awwwww they're new (to the HA system)'. Or I just figure they are more into battling/art/coding or whatever :)

[edit] I forgot to add that I agree with Selphie. I don't think HAs have anything to do with someone's personality, nor should they be a reason to think low of someone...

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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Quote by karateetee
I&;m pretty sure this is the defense of people who consistently make terrible avs.</p>
<p>If you don&;t want to be judged based on your av, don&;t have one. It&;s going to happen, whether you like it or not, nothing can be done about it. It&;s not always going to be a judgment on your personality or intelligence, but usually it tells me a lot about that person&;s sense of aesthetics or their tastes.</p>
<p>When I see avs that are cluttery and ugly, I assume the person is not very exacting in their tastes. There&;s nothing wrong with that. Wear what you like, make yourself happy, but understand that no one&;s going to think you&;re fashionable.</p>
<p>For example, when I see your av, I assume it&;s something you found amusing. I sometimes make silly gimmick avs as well, but we all have different tastes and I don&;t find blatantly shemale avs funny or acceptable to my own standards of what I will put on my HA. It doesn&;t mean I&;m assuming there&;s some kind of deficiency with you based on your HA, but I am going to make a judgment based on your av in some manner.</p>
<p>I really wouldn&;t worry about what people think of you based on your avatar.

People judging you on what you wear and how you choose to present yourself in real life is one thing.

The only thing human avatars say about people, is that users who judge others personality by them are the ones who take this too seriously. You can't derive nothing more from human avatars, except obviously their "fashion sense", but only this if someone is actually trying to be presentable.

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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if people judged me by my human avatar, i'd hate to see what they think a pot smoking zombie? fuck yeah !!

but i think for some people, you can tell. even if it's not their real life personality, their internet personality could shine through.

...it's totally different.

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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People judge people by the way they look. It's a fact of life. People are usually attracted to talking to people that dress the way they do. I think a lot of people on Subeta are like that. People who spend a lot of time on their HAs seem to talk mostly to people who also have really nice looking HAs.

I agree I'm somewhat guilty of this. Having a mismatched, terribly layered HA just reads 'newbie' to me.

Hopefully though people don't try and judge actual personality/appearance off of the appearance of a HA because... that's just moronic. Everytime I see a cliche zombie-vampire-dragon-princess HA it would be stupid for me to assume that person is in RL a dragon princess or whatever. Just like how I use a male HA when I am in fact female.

Jun 29, 2009 16 years ago
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o-o. According to my avatar, I'm evil c: That's obvs. not true. I'm full of sunshine and happy rainbows p:

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Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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ahahahahaha when i see a bad avatar i generally dont want to talk to the person. if it is really cute i think they are funny and nice. if it is just super amazing and complex i am ultra jealous and want to be like them. and if it is just plain, not bad not good, i have pretty much no opinion. but i am like this in real life too. am i bad?

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Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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I don't usually judge people by their avatars, with the exception of people that care to wear only two or three pieces of clothing, usually lacking shoes. I think that they or are new on the site, or don't like shoes at all, or prefer to dedicate their SP to pets than to the human avatar thingies.

I usually go by the shoe-hater assumption, though. I'm a meanie. :(

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Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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I judge people by their HA.

As you can see from mine, I am obviously a sexy beast.

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Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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Honestly, I try not to judge other users based upon their avatars, since I realize they don't represent a good for judgment. A person's avatar is just something that makes their post interesting to look at. Many times my avatar isn't a reflection of my personality at all, but rather just whatever I felt like wearing at the moment. Sometimes I'll do rather scary looking avatars, like the ones from my zombie days, other times I'll just go out on a whim.

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Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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Dude I fucking wish I could be as cool as some of my HAs, or at least have some of the clothes. grabby hands at the geargles/pirote jacket

But yeah, it's like on neo when people wouldn't take you seriously unless you had pets with expensive paint jobs. Immaturity runs rampant in every aspect of life. Ya just gotta deal with it.

Jun 30, 2009 16 years ago
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Wow, I didn&;t even know that people were doing that rofl. It&;s like highschool all over again /sob
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