Lol I actually thought she was older, but what a piece of work! And your sisters ex .. wow. That he would deny her 20 minutes and a burger, that's downright scary! I'm glad for her that she got out o_o

I think he brings her to most family things, and I don't think anyone in the family has a problem with her as far as I know, seeing as her behavior is mostly directed at "potential mates" they might just see her as a sweet girl. They're just happy he has someone who makes him happy. I'm even friends with his mom on facebook, and she shows no cause to alarm. But I'm sure the questions will come on his birthday as to why I'm not there, I don't know how he's gonna deal with that though. She allows him to go to events by himself from time to time, but I highly doubt he'll be allowed to in the future if she knows I'm going to be there. "They" declined a birthday invitation recently because everyone she hates were going to be there.

I hope he'll snap before she isolates him completely. Several people are already on the verge of cutting ties with him, and the list will just get longer the longer he keeps her around. But it is hard to break ties with someone you love, even if they act like she does. It'll take time to muster the courage, but hopefully it will be done. Deep inside he must know something is wrong. Or at least I hope so.

I used to know a lot of girls like that back in high school. She's just being an insecure brat. My friend was dating this loser who was seeing her and a 17 year old girl at the same time. At this time my friend was 20 and he was 21. She found out about the other girl and the other girl found out about her and at first she thought the girl was on her side, saying how much of a jerk he was and that she was never going to speak to him again and wanted to become friends on facebook with my friend. I told my friend not to trust her and that she only wanted to be friends to pry on her life and see who she's talking to. Sure enough my friend saw that he was still seeing that other girl. Some girls are just insecure and immature when they're young. 23 and 18 is a big age difference at that point in life so I'm surprised he's even with a girl like that and not with someone closer to his own age. How have things been going now?

A guy friend of mine had a psycho girlfriend that isolated him from all his other girlfriends because she was paranoid and jealous. It was his birthday and she literally flipped out because he wasn't paying enough attention to her and stormed out. He had to leave his own party just to go find the selfish bitch. He's even behind in school now because he went away to another college that was far from home that was supposed to be a good school and she freaked out and was constantly accusing him of cheating on her with other girls. He had to move back and not all his credits could transfer =/ I've known this guy all through high school and he's the sweetest guy who would never cheat on anyone and would treat his girlfriend like a princess. He finally dumped her crazy ass for good.

Things are going okayish compared to the situation. Another friend (the guy the girlfriend also really hates) has talked to him about the things that happened, and as far as I've heard, he's trying to deal with the situation, but it's been difficult since they both just had to deliver big assignments and probably haven't had a chance to talk it through. The current plan is to lay low over Christmas to calm the waters, and then arrange a game night in a couple of weeks at the other friend's place and see if he'll want to go, as he has expressed that he would definitely be up for that.

Wow, you've really had some unfortunate friends. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. The girl I'm dealing with here has done quite a few of the things you've mentioned, and I'm so worried for my friend. He shouldn't have to apologize to his friends when his girlfriend freaks out on them.

It sounds like you all have brought it to his attention quite a few times. He just needs to see it for himself =/ Yeah my friends have found some real jerks for significant others but they're doing well now.

sheeee sounds....amazingly horrid and I REALLY hope she grows out of this whole jealousy kick before she turns into one of those people you read about in the paper who like...hit their boyfriend with their car for waving to a friend.

Update! I've actually managed to talk to him in person. I've expressed my worry for him, and he told me that we just have to wait it out, because she is really scared/jealous of everyone female to the point where she actually started sulking because of the girls sending him happy birthday wishes, and he said that she just needs to learn to be okay with there being women in his life. I don't necessarily believe that waiting will change anything, but he obviously loves her very much and wants it to work out, and he assured me that he feels he can just walk out if it becomes too much, but I honestly doubt that. I've invited him to both newyears and a future boardgame night, so I feel I've done what I can right now. It was really touching though, his family missed me for his birthday so his younger sister had a fairy doll stand in for me at the dining table.

I'm glad to hear your friends are better off. It's not that he doesn't see it, he just thinks it'll get better.

I don't think she's quite at the car stage yet, but with his internship coming up, I think she might either get there or get over it. For the next six months he's going to be the only male in an all female jewellery company. I'm glad I'm not there for that drama.

I do not blame you even a tiny little bit. I'd be quite happily stepping back from all that myself. Ugh. Sometimes you have to let friends make horrible dating decisions by themselves.

Ah well best of luck. Hopefully if he sees things aren't getting better soon he will learn to just move on. I'm sure he must be under a lot of stress just to see her get upset over nothing

I hope things have gotten better now :) And I've had a situation like this just online heh heh

Thanks, it seems like he's starting to understand that it won't, so that's good I think.

Thank you c: Things are about the same so far, a little better maybe.

You're welcome ^^ Are you two still friends?

Edit: It's obvious that he chose the wrong girl

We are still friends, but we're not currently talking because she forced him to delete my number and block me everywhere online. We talk when we meet at parties and gatherings though.

I seriously don't understand why he is still with her >.< If my significant other forced me to stop talking to my friends anywhere I would leave that person.

^ ...If my significant other threw a tantrum about her hat, I would leave that person. xD