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Reflection, oh the way is portrayed. That should be the way they had been revamped.
Its the only game I can cheat at. 2048 is second, but I play on my 3DS.
What is your favourite subeta game?
Subeta Tiles & Subeku are the games I play the most
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xe/they/she
I love 2048. I find it so addictive, but it does make me a bit frustrated after a while haha. I haven't played many games though so I need to play some of the others that people have said about :)
Oh hi! I'm new to your ping group :) I would have to say Mystic Spindles and Caliph's Tomb are my favorites.
Today's question:
What is something you need to work on?
If anyone has more random question ideas, please feel free to share them with me <3 Don't forget to join the official ping group below :)
[I]My personal answer: [/i] Interpret the question however you want, I'll make it a little more personal but don't feel obligated to do the same :) I definitely need to work on my laziness. I am the laziest person I know. If there are not constantly deadlines kicking me in the butt, I won't do a thing. It's horrible, but procrastination is my favourite hobby. I've actually gotten in quite some trouble thanks to that but it never managed to make me change my ways. It's really horrible because sometimes it actually starts to affect others which is absolutely inexcusable and makes me feel like the worst human being ever but I don't know where people get intrinsic motivation for stuff they are not extremely fond of doing...
for queenspazzy
Hey there 👋 I actually never took the time to properly welcome you! I think you joined when played substitute questioner but I think it's about high time to say hello and welcome! As you see I rarely get to answering the users lately but I just wanted to tell you that I intend on getting back to that and that I really appreciate it how actively you reply to the questions and that you give such nice carefully crafted answers! :)
for poison
Welcome to the thread, I hope you enjoy the random questions c:
Have you actually won that game? Because I feel like it's almost impossible to actually won it 😂
for sillycat81
Welcome!! c: I'm glad you found your way to this little thread! Usually there is more interaction with the others answering to my questions but lately I've been swamped. So in the future, I'll definitely get back to your replies if that's fine by you :) Since I really liked the social vibe here.
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My pets... besides training them. I've been super lazy lately.... ok... I'm always lazy but I just haven't been in a creative mood...
I was just thinking recently about how I REALLY need to work on two parts of my personality. The first one is how I act like I'm the only person in the world who has mental health problems (or even problems in general) and also whenever the slightest thing that I could interpret as stressful happens, I start complaining to my family out of nowhere and don't care if the time is suitable or not. The way I complain is like like a bomb of negativity suddenly exploding at my family. My mom actually threw up and had a bad cough a week ago because of this. I woke up exploding at her with my problems while she was busy with something. I'm just the worst. The second one is how I'm a very bad listener. The only voice I hear is mine. Whenever someone tries to help me or give me advice it feels like I'd go too far to prove to them that I'm right and that they don't know anything. This has always been one of reasons of my issues with my mom. Also I realised this could be why I never find my therapist helpful. I listen to her when she gives me advice about something but the words never make it inside my head and I just consider them completely useless.
I hope people on here still see me the same way (and don't hate me) even after I have revealed those really ugly parts about my personality.
Yeah I need to work on laziness too. I am laaaazy.
I need to work on completing the project in my house, aka, priming and painting. Spent hours today priming but still lots of work to do.
I also need to work on saving more, buying less, and eating more vegetables.
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I need to work on my thesis D: But I know I need a bit of self-care after a tough morning so I'm on here enjoying myself for half an hour ^.^
That is super insightful of you. It can be really hard to notice these things about ourselves and it sounds like you really want to change <3 I hope things start looking up for you soon.
Thanks for the warm welcome ^.^ I've recently made the choice to start talking more to people so figured this was a nice little place to start. I have won 2048 once! It took me a really long time though and I haven't managed it since haha
Ever since we started working remote I've also started procrastinating quite a bit. Honestly though, I think it's in part because I have so many job duties (like, people that don't work with me and know what I'm saying are like WOW thats too much!) that I'm taking advantage of the down time I have right now. Once our volumes pick back up I'll need to work on not allowing myself to get burnt out so much. Outside of work I need to work on my health. I started fixing my eating habits at the beginning of lock down and have kept up with it but the exercising part has been a little bit of a challenge. I did buy an exercise bike and we were given a bowflex so I have no excuses, it's all here in my house and I can literally do it any time I want.
you sound like an over-analyzer/over-thinker and from personal experience I know how hard that is to break your bad habits. I wish you the best of luck.
thank you and no worries! I'm a total introvert and I find it very awkward to insert myself in random conversations (something else for me to work on!) and I found this to be a really easy thread to jump in to so I appreciate it! :)
I think I need to work on my self-love. I'm bad at depression and my "brain weasels" kicking my butt, telling me that I'm worthless. Therapy helps, but I have a lot of work to do. :)
I could make some effort to do away with this self depreciation that automatically plays in my head.
On a more practical side, I want to finish as much of my make up work for my automotive course. Today is the last day to try, and finals are due.
Ah, hello~! Thanks for the welcome! Yes, I joined while was the questioner; by chance I saw posts from a friend in my friend feed in this thread and thought it seemed like a fun way to get in the occasional post and read interesting things about other users, so here I am, haha~ I'm glad to know you like my answers! I always feel like I'm writing novels when far fewer words would suffice, but I can't help it, I like to provide background and justification, the small wordsmith part of me just doesn't know how to stop. ^^;
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Today's question:
What is an achievement you are proud of?
If anyone has more random question ideas, please feel free to share them with me <3 Don't forget to join the official ping group below :)
[I]My personal answer: [/i] In case yesterday's question sparked some self-doubt, I wanted to have this question to build up your confidence again to remind you guys that are awesome! Everyone in their own uniquely amazing way :) An achievement I am incredibly proud of (btw. I hate that the word pride sometimes has a bad connotation making people think about arrogance... I mean it in the way the LQBTQIA+ community perfectly uses it: loving yourself for who you are) is that I am able to objectively self-reflect. Experience has shown me that this skill is actually not that easy to attain and it actually takes a while to develop it. Objective self-reflection can be quite tough because we tend to lean into two extremes when analysing ourselves: either we don't dig deep enough, overlooking our own flaws because it's just easier to live in denial ("ignorance is bliss") or we tend to dig too deep, digging our own metaphorical grave because we end up on a downward spiral of self-loathing. Therefore, an objective self-reflection is really a difficult task. I am confident enough to say that I think even though I might not have managed to assess myself 100% objectively, I still think it's pretty spot on. That's something I am really proud of.
for queenspazzy
Firstly, I'm glad you found your way here! I agree with you, I really enjoy reading other people's opinions as well since we have a really diverse group of people here without there being reason to argue. It's a very interesting thing and I am glad that this thread is another example for the subeta community being so tolerant and open-minded.
Secondly, I'm super happy about long answers! It shows people really picked their own brains and maybe even learned something new about themselves. It always brings me great joy to read these answers!
About your last question answer: I totally understand what you mean! Accepting things outside of your control can ba a reeeeeeally frustrating thing to deal with... I think what people value most is that you thought of them and wanted to make them happy. Whatever form your affection and effort comes in probably doesn't matter to them because either way, it's from you and that's what counts. That's at least what experience has shown me. :)
Oh my god yes! The water problem is the story of my life. When I told my doctor that I survive on a glass or two of water each day she looked at me like 'how is she still alive?!'. I actually like the taste of water but my aforementioned laziness prevents me of going to the kitchen, getting a glass, filling it with water and then drinking it. Too. Many. Steps. Especially when you gotta head to the loo a short while later as well... 😂
for poison
That's a great resolution! I'm glad you decided on that :) oooooh! Best of luck with your thesis! Mayo ask which topic/subject it is about? If you'd prefer not to talk about it (considering subeta is your time to actually take a break from that very thesis ^^' ) I totally understand :)
for sillycat81
I'm happy to hear that! Yes, conversations start very easily here and it's a very accepting and open-minded atmosphere here so I hope we can make you feel welcome and appreciated :)
May I ask to what extent you fixed your eating habits? And oh yeah I am with you on that excercising issue 😂 Wish, I could get that under control but there is another case of my laziness being like "nope" Make sure to not overwork yourself, mental and physical exhaustion can lead to serious problems and your health should always come first <3
for Lucian
First of all, thank you for your honesty! That really meant a lot to me as I can image it might not have been the easiest to write that.
I have to say, I do feel different about you. In a very positive way :) You've become more human to me and even considering that you gave been so wonderfully active in this thread, it's sometimes easy to forget that there are real people behind these avatars with real lives, real problems and so much character depth which simply shouldn't be forgotten. What you wrote today made me remember that again which I am very thankful for <3
Now to the content of your resolutions: in German we have a saying which goes something like "Realization is the first step towards betterment" . Being aware of the fact that these things might be an issue is already such a massive step that you can already applaud yourself! Seriously! Sooooooo many people face these same issues and don't get to that point in their lifetime. So it yourself some slack, alright? :)
Then, have you considered seeing another therapist? Or actually telling your therapist how you feel about them? You might think they will judge you but trust me, they won't :) Also, considering your family, maybe you could start something like a family therapy session for them to know where you are at and to not be surprised when your maximum is reached and you just have no other way but to let it all out. These would be my ideas to approach your situation :)
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Uh... That I graduated High School? I guess? I dunno nothing I do makes me proud of myself so yeah?
I'm proud of myself for graduating high school as well, but for a different reason: I was so sick at the time it was a real struggle. I managed to pull out graduating cum laude, too, so even though that was mumblety years ago.... I'm still really proud of it.
I'm also proud of myself for finding healthy relationships. I'm polyamorous, but I'm also from an abusive background. I never had a good male role model until my half-brother re-entered my life when I was 10. I learned a lot of what relationships should be from him and his now-wife.
I'm really grateful I've gotten this far. :)