no kids here, but i would not leave them alone of course for some time. let them get to know each other in small doses.

I’ve never had a cat as a pet but, I think I would introduce the baby on ground level when you first introduce them that way the cat won’t be threatened. I also heard if they are a bit hostile you can have them sleep with a piece of clothing so, they grow accustom to their scent.

Several people mentioned when I had my son cats accidently smoother children. That said we put a mosquito net up over the crib so the cats couldn't jump in. That said my cat loves him and will sit on the window ceil and watch him XD

Before bringing your baby into your home for the first time, introduce her scent to your pet. When you come home, let someone else carry the baby, and greet your pet in a calm manner. You could let your pet approach the baby on the couch. If things get too excited, rather than banishing the dog or cat, take the baby away so the pet can calm down. You should always be present when your baby and pet are in the same room.

https://www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-advice/how-introduce-your-cat-your-baby How to introduce your cat to your baby

Lots of useful tips ;) You can also try spray calming pheromone for cats.

Pets can tell the difference between babies and adults. Your baby will also have you scent on her so the cat will know it's your baby. The best thing I heard to do was to play baby crying and cooing noises to get them used to baby sounds. I would also let your cat smell all of the baby powders to get used to the smell of the baby.

Just make sure you also give your cat time and attention. While introducing her to the baby is good and important, she'll also just want you to pay attention to her and make sure you haven't forgotten about her. She wants to know you still love her and that the baby hasn't completely taken over your life. Just set aside some time for her :)

Sorry, I have no real knowledge of introducing a babe to a furry babe. I do know that despite what many believe, cats are trainable. I just takes repetition. I would say for now train your kitty what areas are allowed and which are not, like inside the crib.

I have never done this, but I watch a lot of "My Cat From Hell" and Jackson Galaxy has done a lot of work with families preparing to introduce babies to households with cats that are WAY more difficult than yours. I'd check out his website and see what he's got to say on the topic.

I’ve never heard of this I will definitely check it out! Thanks!!

I had the same concern when I was pregnant with our daughter. As soon as the baby is born, let someone take a blanket that the baby was wrapped in and take it home for the cat to smell before you and baby come home. That way the smell will not be a surprise for the cat. Also, make sure that you continue to make time for the cat <3 🐱

:) The show runs on Animal Planet but they have a website and there is www.jacksongalaxy.com as well. He is an amazeballs cat behaviourist. He's written some books, too.

Some decent advice has been given. Cats don't accept newcomers as easily as dogs do. I do have concerns that she is territorial with you. The last thing you want is for her to bite your daughter! My suggestion is to make sure you know where kitty is at all times! This will help you to avoid any conflict. It may be beneficial to talk to your veterinarian because they know your cat and her needs. There are calming products that could help. Feliway has a plugin that produces pheromones to calm her. Using that with another product is recommended. If she will tolerate a collar, then you can try the Nurture Calm collar. If that's not an option, then you can try an oral treat such as Solliquin, Zylkene- a capsule that can be sprinkled on food that is a derivative of mother's milk, or a prescription diet that has a calming agent built into it. I would do this NOW before the baby comes. I'm sure she's already sensing a change is coming, especially with all the baby items, room decorating, and, of course, your own body changes. Last resort can be to use Prozac, but that's if she becomes extremely territorial. I would be very careful that she's not allowed in the crib.

I've never had a cat as some of my family is allergic, but I have been around some and watched many, many animal shows. It seems like the main thing cats want is to feel like they have their own territory that they feel they and watch and feel safe in. And some things that can help kitty feel more confident (as per watching My Cat from Hell lol): are high places (so she can observe) windows (they like to watch the outdoors), and places where they know they can go and not be bothered.

Also with any pet, its a good idea to start introducing the kinds of scents, sounds, and objects that will be around when baby comes. A lot of people have suggested bringing the first blanket baby was wrapped home and that's probably one of the BEST ideas. Also introducing her to things like baby toys would be good since those can make some noise. Maybe you could watch some videos with babies in them with her so she gets used to the sound? I know it wont be the real thing, but my dogs still think the dogs on tv are really there lol

Mainly, just don't forget to give Moxie love when you do finally bring the baby home. Let her know she is still loved and will still be a part of the family and that's she's not getting replaced ❤

My only advice would be to introduce them gently and to continue to provide as much love and care to your kitty as you always have. Make sure she knows she's still much loved. c:

No kids and baby of the family so I don't know... I just hope you manage to work it out because having kitties in my childhood was a highlight of my youth.

When I moved in with my ex we were concerned about having cats and dogs together. We went with his idea and it worked really really well. He and his dogs and me with the kitties, made sure they were at an even eye-level and took turns petting them all and talking to them like they understood us - saying they were all brothers and sisters and we love them all and no eating each other... they got along great. I hope you get it worked out hon. <3

Tons of great suggestions so far. My favorite is definitely brining home a blanket first. I could have someone bring home a blanket from the hospital the night before I come home. She's very curious and I know will be all over it. (Anytime someone new comes over and leaves jacket, she is all over the jacket while they are here because it smells different) so no doubt in my mind that would be a great way to start!

Thank you all :)

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I agree with others about talking with your vet for tips and introducing the cat to a blanket with baby's scent first and use sound clips of babies crying to get her used to the noise. Do not introduce the baby to Moxxie in a room that she heavily associates with like your bedroom or office.

You also need to set boundaries. Never allow your cat to sleep in anything the baby sleeps in and make sure she knows those places are off limits. Never leave the baby unattended with Moxxie. Never ever allow the cat to sleep with baby. Cats love warmth and can accidentally suffocate the baby by smothering baby's face or sitting on baby's chest. If baby is going to be sleeping in your room for the first few months or so you could end up with a problem seeing as Moxxie sleeps with you and is territorial. This is definitely an issue to bring up with your vet. Baby will have a strong reflex grip and could accidentally grab Moxxie's fur or appendage in a death grip so be careful. Make sure Moxxie's nails are trimmed.

You're not going to want to hear this next part but you need to have someone that can take Moxxie if things don't work out with her and baby. Obviously this would be an extremely rare circumstance and personally I think Moxxie will warm up to baby with time, but part of being a responsible pet owner is making sure your pet is well taken care of even if you are no longer the one to do it. If Moxxie is violent towards baby or is constantly stressed by baby or if baby develops a cat allergy Moxxie will need a different home for her own happiness and the baby's well-being. Again, this would be a last resort worst case scenario. You should ask your vet for the number of a good pet trainer/counselor that could help with any problems that pop up so it doesn't get to that point and even consider contacting one before baby gets here so that they can help Moxxie with the transition.

I think you need to slowly introduce them. Show the cat something that smells like the baby first and see how she reacts. Although I've heard that a lot of the times they learn to love them right away because the baby is a part of you. I hope the introduction does well <3

Smell is very important, so I would definitely go with the blanket suggestions. I had two cats when I had my children. When I arrived home from the hospital with my daughter, I calmly sat down holding her and allowed the cats to come and investigate, gently stroking them and giving them attention and reassurance at the same time. I had no trouble with them at all. Obviously don't let Moxxie in her bedroom unattended.
I too have recently discovered Jackson Galaxy, it's well worth checking out, especially if you do find you are having problems.