I clicked the wrong thing. Is there any way to get my events back? Can I view them somewhere else?

If you're going through dance invites, you can use this link: https://subeta.net/explore/masquerade.php?act=invited

Thank you both and yes I was going through the dance invites. This is very helpful.

the rather severe bluestockinged and silver-haired old ladies of the Atebus Revolution Historical Society and Masquerade Ball never forget, and they never let anyone do cutsies on your dance card. You don't need that link that gave you, since clicking repeatedly on the same "you've been invited" link will take you through all your dances in order one by one. This will happen even from one year to the next, so if someone invites you to dance last minute this year, that invitation will appear next year.

Thank you, Solsticesprite. :)

you are welcome!