first, please note that I'm super happy to have another person join in and am not wanting you to feel singled out. But I do have to edit you and I'm sorry. Strictly speaking you are not allowed to alter a word so it gets past the filters. This is something I know they not only warn but do also freeze people for. If you wish to use the word that's not something we have a problem with. But using asterisks forces the word to show like that and thus can be considered as altering the word to get around the filters. In most cases, I've seen people using it simply to be less jarring but since the word filters exist those with them turned off are accepting to see more adult words. Gonna submit a ticket to double check for us though.
[edit] My ticket was answered and replied with "It ultimately depends on the substitutions used, but generally speaking, subbing out most of the word with asterisks or gibberish symbols is fine." So actually it seems it'd be okay. I've put it back in.
sorry dear, but I had to edit out the Japanese word since it isn't a title.