Probably the second one. Idk. Not really sure.

if it where me, I think I'd tell her that i want to be a couple and do some couple things but if she can't/doesn't want to do that than she needs to move out because i'd want to be with someone who wants to be with me not solely digital games. that's messed up. haha or i can shut up and switch topics.

I’ve tried talking to her. At one time she said we’re just growing up and couples don’t always soend time together. Idk. If my friend weren’t married I’d be so tempted to leave her for my friend. At one time last night I had my arm around her. It felt so right but at the same time we really had to watch ourselves.

well I agree that you don't have to spend all the time with a person, and it's healthy to spend time with others, but there's a limit to that. You are naturally wanting to spend time with people you care for weather that's romantically or just friends. It's not normal to just ignore someone liek what you've said she's being doing.

definitely watch, I wish i had something to say there :/ it definitely sucks

The entire situation sucks and I really doubt any of it will turn out well for me but idk

yeah it really does :/ any plans this weekend?

Work tomorrow, off sunday. Probably similar day sunday to today, so I plan on it sucking

maybe you could go buy a puzzle or soemthing? Go see a movie?

Probably just listen to music and text my friend. Unless she distances herself from me so she can focus on her marriage

well I'm hoping you find something fun for you to do

I hope I find something. I’m out driving around aimlessly now

-snuggles-

:/

maybe do something with your mum?

Eh idk. I may just go shopping

shopping is fun :)

Idk about shopping alone

I'm trying to help. hope you can do something

I know, I appreciate it. Sometimes I just want someone to show me they’re making an effort. It’s more important than actually getting advice

I am, really. I wish i could help more