I had one MM who was down right nasty the other day, actually insulting.I had sent them an item or two and waited almost 8 yrs, didn't get a response, so finally decided to give up.Sent one last item stating I was getting off.They finally sent an item that was rude, and then started using items to call me names, and kept on bombing me with insulting names and comments.And even blocking gifts from non-friends couldn't stop it.It was annoying, so in away I do wish there was a way to either leave MM once you join or block your MM on certain events.

It would be good to be able to get re-matched if the partner is totally unresponsive. Banning is a bit much, cause there are so many reasons why someone is not on.

that really sucks, im sorry for such bad experience.

That's what i mean there are people being spiteful on it

I know some ppl are all for just sending gifts and don't care about anything in response, but you could just as easily do that by putting gifts under people's trees without telling them. I thought the idea of MM was that it's a cheerful gift game, maybe that's just me? But it is a bummer more than a treat most of the time. I don't participate anymore because it is almost always radio silence on the other end, and I might as well go put those gifts under someone's tree on the forums. I like the idea of it being a shorter wait time than a full day, and being able to leave it, but I don't think those things will fix the problems. But maybe it's better to just use the gift exchange. I forgot about that thing! goes off to test it

I think it would be handy to either have an "Oops I meant to click on the cottage and clicked this instead" chat option, or the ability to back out.

I've read some instances where people have accidentally entered MM instead of going to the cottage, and honestly, it totally makes sense to me. And sometimes you don't notice that you clicked the wrong. But if you do notice, why not have the chance to get out?

If you're just clicking before work or school, still sleepy or whatever. Like, mistakes happen. And if it goes by without being noticed all day, well, bummer. But if you notice it right away, you can either back out (If no gifts have been sent) or resend anything that was sent (If you notice it later in the day maybe) with the chat option, so at least you can say "Hey sorry I didn't mean to ignore you" or whatever

Does any of that make sense? Was it already suggested?

My vote is for 's ideas.

I've mentioned around site before that I mostly play when its slow at work, so having the option to sign up for only a limited window of time would be awesome. I could send off a few gifts and not have to worry about leaving my MM partner hanging. Time is indeed a major factor in why I don't participate in MM.

I'd also use the sP amount thing. It could be set up like a little deposit account. Deposit some sP for the day, set a limit per gift, and a timer for when each gift goes out. Of course these gifts would be picked by the our little code squirrels so there'd be a little margin for value error (ie. setting 100k as the limit per and it sending something 80k or 120k instead). And there's already a feature that uses most of this idea - tell us when to spend and where to send it - so it would just need to spruced up to fit the MM scenario with a timer and the handling of the anonymous receiver aspect. Though I have no idea how hard that would be to add into the code... o.O'

The gift queue would be useful for people that pick out their day's gifts ahead of time. Its pretty clear reading through here, and from other posts I've seen through the years, that a good deal of MM participants do this.

[Edit] I knew there was something I was forgetting - The Gift Exchange feature! It would also be nice if this was highlighted somehow. I use to do this all the time but stopped when I started getting my own items back due to lack participants. :c

The only thing that bothers me with MM is once your partnered with someone and send out gifts they don't do the same,it does not what the limit is to me,I feel if you want to participate send something,don't just play to get gifts.