I hope you do! None of us are perfect and sometimes I lose sight of that but most of the time I keep my choice space in mind. It gives me the power and not someone else.

tyvm... No its not easy, life is neither easy or fair, sad to say... However, there is a glimmer of hope within our choices. Irl i recently... Chose... To cut off my parents. I love them but they are very toxic and im growing weary of mental hospital visits over them. I have a spiritual... Non blood family that loves me. I feel its time to move on. That choice alone has given me a bit of relief already. hugs my pet scarz whenever i feel scared i will go to my tribute pet as a sober reminder. To be a survivor not a victim.

My apologies, I should never post without at least 2 cups of coffee in my system, that's actually what I meant to say...what a difference a few words mean

Purrs hoarselyThank you so much, Cousin Freddie! Its nice to know I won't have to resort to eating out of garbage cans-not that I can't forage or hunt for my food you understand-but its nice to know I have a place to go...exile is bearable when surrounded by creatures you love

grooms base of tailFormer Mistress did you not conspire to deliver me into 's clutches, the woman I fear more than being abandoned...look! I've got a facial tic just by writing those words! I'll need years of therapy, a 24/7 lap and bbq'd oysters!. Being a good cat, however, I am reluctant to part on less than amiable terms. What concessions are you prepared to offer for your Kitty to remain?

Just wanted to let everyone know that my gift giving is probably going to be late this year. I've spent the last 3 weeks away from home in Seattle going back and forth to the University of Washington Medical Center. We are still trying to figure out what is going on with my hubby. We've been told he has a very rare disease but no firm diagnosis has been made yet. We are waiting on test results from the last Biopsy he had a few days ago. So, we just got home last night. I want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and I will get gifts out as soon as I can.

no worries, I barely managed to stuff quite a few trees over the past few days, lol. I know you're good for the goodies. :P Also, I hope your husband and you find out what is going on so he can get treatment asap. <3

Oh my God, Carawick, I'm so sorry to hear this about your husband. Will be thinking of him and you this holiday season. Take your time, your care is needed elsewhere and we will still be here.

pl friend me so i can make sure i can gift you.

are you friends with everyone is asp? If so your list must be massive.

not everyone but around 45 or so. lol asked to friend you lol = one more

lol i understand. Coffee makes all the difference

I accepted lol. My friends list is very minimal. I have one of my close friends then all but one other person is ASP lol including you I now have 13.

: Dear friend...what is all this talk about exile about anyway. I mean to say that if you need our protection, the Watchers in my realm are notorious for providing the highest security and safety for all political exiles, no questions asked. But as your friend, as well as your ally, I feel justified in asking. Is chasing you around with her shears out again? (shudder)

I just remodeled the pool. You should take a look :)

The sheers are reserved for you :*

Seriously I have posted more the last 2 days then normal and STILL no special boxes :( Very sad face.

I certainly did not and as far as concessions your continued free meals and a roof over your head should be pretty tempting ! LOL

OMG Keep us posted please!

goodness! Just read your message. Sending thoughts!prayers your way.

huggies how r u?

Im doing better not at 100% but close enough. Not looking forward to today. I have basically been out of commission for a week that means I have done 0 housework.. My husband is sick so now I'm looking at a sink full of dishes and piles of laundry I kinda want to cry a bit lol.

How are you doing? :)

aww hugs no fun no fun!

Hey it will be okay. Later this afternoon I'm gonna have a beverage :) Then I won't care so much about doing it lol. I don't know why but that helps with loosening my muscles and keeping them loose better than any painkiller or muscle relaxer I have. However I limit it a lot. I grew up in a house that was very heavy with alcoholism and I refuse to let my children see it. A good friend already gave me my gift this year can you guess what it is... Yup beverage lol.

I am sorry about your Husband :/

wooo a lucky number lol