Welcome to the forums! Don't fret, we have a pretty friendly community c: I personally love collecting achivements (you can earn forumtitles that appear under your username, or items/wardrobe skins/site themes), some people like training for battling, collecting galleries, or working on pet spotlights etc. there's lots to do c:

There's a couple of guides below that might help you out, but if you have any specific questions, feel free to just ask c:

Useful Links:

What to do on Subeta? FAQ Useful general information for newbies Finding friends (Chit Chat) SubetaLodge (Offsite item database, pet colours etc.)