It really is this morning up at 6 am, yesterday 4 am. I get so aggravated with myself.

Sorry to hear Sydney... :(

, I'll be in bed "early" one night and up still 6-7am the next. And it's hard to regulate

Doesnt help when I wake up like that, I feel I cant relax until I let my dogs out to use the bathroom. Such is the life of a pet owner.

My problem get to bed at a decent hour, and then hope i can shut down mentally and relax. Reading lately has helped to relax.

Reading is good, at the very least it soothes my mind (If it's not a thriller haha) I also like quiet music thru headphones.

And OMG >:( I am like 10 votes away from my goal in this contest and I'm finding out how FEW people actually have Instagram accounts!! :o

Thats a battle for me, too.How do you choose a book that relaxes you, but doesnt pull you in and you dont want to put it down?

I am one of those that dont have an instagram acct.

I have found it's like an older hipster thing? I got one as soon as Instagram came out but I was also working at Apple at the time, so that kind of makes sense.

I think some good books to soothe would be like Anne of Green Gables or Little Women.

Maybe read the redwall series, I love it so much!! BRB need to run to the store with my son. I love books!!

speaking of, I wonder if most of subeta or this grp is older than me...XD

I am going on 35 this year! I am actually comforted by the fact that a LOT of Subeta is older users that are in my age range and older!

I am older than dirt and my moms in the group. She may have seen the Big Bang

I am 56 in years young in April. Subeta is a mix of all ages, cultures, races, sexual orientation.

I am back waves

Last time I saw anyone asked around about demographics of users of Subeta was about six years ago when the meetups were happening. We are about 84% female, and about half are between fifteen to twenty five. The meetups skewed older because younger girls needed to have their parents agree or have a cousin or boyfriend escort them to the public space to meet internet strangers. You would not believe the reaction of Disneyland staff seeing a fat old bastard in a kilt and sparkly glitter toenail polish by himself asking them about where a group of young ladies might be. And I was put in a position to ask, because they all every last one of them Offered To Help [sup]tm[/sup]

Many of the most active of the LairBears are likely as old or older than though. I am more than twice your age: I see all the FPS and 3d games youngsters play that require fast-twitch and my joints all ache not just my fingers.

Tempest has descended from above in order to play! You receive a storm item so she can get close enough to give you a MIGHTY BEAR HUG.

I am 38 this year :o Time sure freaking flies huh?

For sure, but my rule of thumb as long isnt illegal, embarrassing or I am not afraid of doing it, and it sounds reasonable i might give it a try. I like to go with my mental age instead of my physical age. Why do many people get hung up on physical age, and age mentally over it and I find that silly. My hubby does that, and it annoys me so much.

I would pay good money to have a picture of that guy, and the expressions of the Disneyland staff.

: Glitter my dear, I thought you were more my age...I'm going to be 7 this year.

hello i rang the cancer council hotline today to seek some counselling from when i had cancer in 2010 they will be ringing me back tomorrow or monday with a time to come in and chat. i hate hurting the people i love and been irritable and snappy ,this is long overdue

i'm 60 in april

Good on you for reaching out for help :) Sorry you aren't having a great time right now, but it's great you took the initiative to find someone to talk to, I hope their advise/listening helps you!

thank you i do to