Hey. ❤

Are you willing to offer both or only one? I actually think that offering one is more than far, but both are buyable items and I got another offer of an unbuyable hair that I like a lot () so I'm kinda inclined to accept that. ):

The offer was for both ^^ But of course if you've received a better offer, I understand.

I'll accept your offer then. The wig is on my trades. Thank you! ^^

I'll take both of the Floras and the Black Frilled Fabric. :>

Yay, thanks. They're on trades. ^^

I have for 700 and 400 csc :) or 1K together~

Could you go a bit lower like 950? I'm pretty much broke and the wig isn't a priority for me right now. xD

If you don't want to, I can get the Bell for 400. Thanks!

You're really only supposed to ping buysellcw every 3 days even if you add new items. You're more likely to just irritate people by pinging too often.

why not, Lot is ready! Thank you :)

How much for the kitty or bird fabric?

here ya go :D

i've had multiple people complain to me that you're overpinging buysellcw (despite, i see, having been told the rule about pinging a thread only once every three days.)

if this thread gets pinged again before three days are up i will remove you from the group.

Hello. I actually wasn't aware that there were a fixed interval between the pings stated on the rules (I thought the usage of the ping was pretty much common sense, reping after a few days or when you add something in your buy/sell list) -- until I read post yesterday, after my last ping. After her post, I also received two other friendly advices from people I know thru sMail and comments.

Even though I know both Zabrie's and your reaction were caused by my mistake (I should have paid more attention to the rules), this doesn't turn a public call out/scolding less embarassing. Or rude, in some kind of way.

And I also wonder... If the multiple people who contacted you decided to contact ME instead, wouldn't the problem be solved earlier? Because I was only ever contacted about that yesterday.

If something is annoying you, the correct course of action (in my opinion) is to speak with the person upfront (but privately) and solve the matter. Not to contact others to solve the problem for you, like it seemed to be the case this time. Simple things can -- and should -- be solved in a friendly conversation basis.

Anyway, I'm sorry again.

I'm sorry you didn't like that I posted on your thread about the rules and I did try to be as polite as possible. I would have just commented or sMailed you, but I've had an instance in the past where me (and multiple others) privately corrected someone for over pinging a group and nothing changed until multiple people were publicly calling her out.

Still, I should have at least given you a change privately first so sorry about that.

Haha sorry my bad! Thought I nabbed the right ping icon there :p gotta love browsing on a phone

in my experience, publicly actually works. too many people have claimed they "didn't see" something and keep doing it, and if it's right on your thread? pretty hard to just ignore.

the singular rule this ping group has is listed right on it, as it has been since i think december 2013 or 2014. do you not actually check to make sure a ping group with almost five hundred people in it has rules about usage before you use it? that'd make some sense as to not disturb a large group of people.

if its such common sense though to ping every few days, that doesn't explain why this group was apparently pinged at least twice on the 25th.

also,

i own the ping group. i think it's fair for someone to contact me if someone's breaking the only rule this group has. it's not other peoples' job to enforce those rules.

Thanks for understanding. Every player is a different player and most of the discussions can be solved privately in a friendly basis.

Does it cost too much to give people a chance (friendly warning) before exposing them like this? Seriously? It might cost you an extra ping or two (in the worst case scenario), but then you just ban the person from the ping group and "the end".

As I said before, yes, it was my mistake. I'm sorry and I won't do it again. No need to reinforce the rudeness, right?

That probably was the day when I changed the topic from "buying only" to "massive cleaning mode" and added like... 23-25 items for sale. Or maybe it was a double ping for mistake due to the 404 errors of the site. Who knows? What I know for sure is that I didn't intended to annoy or make others angry.

But that statement just reinforce my point: if people got annoyed by the multiple pings on the 25th, why no one came to talk to me?

If someone did, believe me, we wouldn't be having this unpleasant conversation now.

This is my opinion. If they treat everyone the same - ie calling them all out in public- then it is not rudeness it is being fair with everyone. I myself have been called out publicly because of the rule. I didn't take offence. You, Lyonesse, are continuing the issue. I don't believe they have been rude just matter of fact which is how it should be. They are correcting a mistake they never said anything bad about you they just said you were misusing a ping and if it was not corrected you'd be removed. Continuing this on your thread will allow others to put in their own two cents as I have. This is not to be rude it's to tell you an outsider point of view.

gzeez... why?

It seems pretty much to me that you are continuing the subject, sadly.

I disagree with you, as I said before. I think that call outs like that happening before a private warning are a lack of delicacy.

I just questioned why no one came talk to me first. And it seems like understood my point of view.

Being Rude =/= (is different than, if you are not used to the symbol) Talking bad/Behind others; I never said no one spoke badly about me or something like that.

For now... Let's just lock the topic (I'll do another when I came back from vacay and have some spare CSC) and move on with this subject, please?

Lovely HA, by the way. But I think I already said that.

commenting on this instead of commenting to me continues it as well. I never said you didn't have a valid point I just told you they did it to me too. Replying continues the topic, you could move to private messages yourself if you'd like for this to gave become private. You keep deciding to reply publicly.

And thank you very much ^-^