~ Sounds like they need a cat door :) Amazing how old their cats are!! I have not had one live past 16. And such cute names too!!

yep, ozzy is a couple of months older then our willow and smudge, they had one cat who was wizzy's mum ( they took her on late in her life but she went on to be 20+ :)

omg . don't tell me that. (cat lives to 20) hahahaaa the kids already say that our willow will NEVER die.

:) is ok! (and it was colorful even though we've all discovered that there really aren't that many rainbow wigs! hahahaaa) (and omg. the hair salon is wonderful but trying to color the hair in there is not so easy) heh. :D

, LOL i think we can offically call you cat lady? oh wait. 's cat has had kittens. i know some of them didn't make it, but I think maybe she has more than 6 by now. heh.

grin. obviously, we need to keep you away from any adoption centers.

I've always said, that I was I lived on a farm with a barn. because i would adopt A Lot of cats. but they wouldn't all be "in the house" cats. hahahaaaa

I'm on Subeta quite frequently, I just am prone to broody introvert moods lol OTL

hey, long time no talk. How are things? :D

lol.. its okay .. I just didnt think my wig was as shinny as the others... so many pretty colors.

I understand .. a couple of my subeta friends quit like Squirtle , babycakes and Vespertine ( at least I think they did :'( )

yep cats are living longer now :), which is nice, though always sad when we do lose some earlier though

Oh my gosh you look so beautiful! hugs I know, it's been a while! I am doing pretty ok -- actually today has been a great day so far for me! The past two months have been incredibly difficult for me in RL due to health struggles, but I am hopeful that things are going to start looking up. I don't know why or have any reason to have that hope, but I just do. lol crazy, right?!

How are you doing? I also can sometimes go into anti-social-introvert moods and remain very quiet on the boards here; so I can understand what you mean.

Thank you so much! I love your color scheme, so vibrant. -

I TOTALLY understand your struggle... I have an appt on the 7th and I'm essentially going to ask them to do every test in the book, because I legitimately am nauseated and other awful stuff all day every day. D: I'm tired of feeling sick.

Finger's crossed we both get the help that we need ;;

~ Wow, 20+!!! I can't even imagine

~ yes I am a cat lady :) I torture myself when I go into PetSmart and walk by the cat area (where they have cats up for adoption)... I want to take them all home!!! lol! But I don't of course. I agree, if I lived on a farm I would have tons of barn cats :)

oh girl you SO belong here! lol instead of "wig addicts" i think it's a "group depression" hahahaaaa

we all go through shit and don't want to talk to peeps. JUST REMEMBER THAT WE ARE HERE IF YOU WANT TO CRY/WHINE/BITCH/BELLOW. and we all do it. heh lately, often.

(HUGS )

really Quo, lurk here all you want. i know i'm constantly faking it to be "up" just because i'm trying to get away from the real world. so if you like to live in fantasy land. this is the place. heh.

that's the thing, . the longer I have a pet, the harder it is when they go.

, what i can't stand (and hurt from) are the people that I know (acquaintances) that are ill, and they pass. I've had 2 internet peeps that have passed., and I think that Daisy has also. heh. I finally took one of them off my FB. it was hard. her son had posted months ago, that she had passed.

sad thing is. i have never even meant these people in real life. but i still get involved in their lives. heh.

group depression, totally my speed hahaha.

Yeah, real life and false front "I'm okay, everything's okay" attitudes leave me totally drained by the end of the day. Subeta is my little respite away from the demands on my mental health. Glad y'all get it!

yep it will be hard indeed,

boy i have many days where i dont feel like chatting as life is hard. i thought this yr would be the yr where things would look up but alas that dosent seem to be the case.

though i do have the supernatural tv show convention coming up in may, my 40th in july and my zookeeper for a day in august.

I have lost a few friends that i made online and never met but they meant alot to me

For what it's worth I haven't really shown up on ANY threads in months ;u; I kinda just pop on to see what's new, collect my dailies and act like a hermit lately! I'm sorry! ❤️

oh yeah. I grew up with my mother telling me to "Fake It" (really reminds me of the Miranda Lambert song "not your mothers")

heh. as my daughter grew up, and went through the "teen years" I have to admit, I wish i had told her the same thing. lol

FAKE IT! OH YES, EVERY THING IS GREAT! WONDERFUL (meanwhile, your life sucks, you are in pain and every thing around you is falling apart) BUT YOU FAKE IT GOOD.

heh.

oh god, , hahahahahaha I'm thankful that i would have to go out of my way to go to petsmart. heh. i'm easy for temptation.

lol

grin. it's ok. for in truth, I don't come on as often any more either. I think this has been the longest I've been online in months. and that's only because it's masquerade. you all probably wont' see me again, for months and months. heh.

just checking and making sure you're still in this world. :)

HUG

HAHAHAA . I thought this was going to be a great year also. then we got a bully and a liar in the presidential office, and i knew the next 4 years were going to be hell. and sure enough. so far. it has been. i would love to have been wrong. i'm always wrong. why did i have to be right this time? heh

^ ^

Hahaha yes! You'll see me again at Vesnali too ;) I've been stealing flowers out of everyone's gardens hoarding flowers all year for it!

hugs sweet, i am hoping things will great better, I grew up with a mum who suffered mental illness ( still does ) i had to help bring my brothers up, it was a tough childhood, of course hubby works evenings till early hr of the morning so i get pretty lonely in the evenings so find hanging out on the comp does help,

Hi, do you have any pain when you feel sickly? is it after you eat? backache stuff like that?
-so pleased to meet you, I know what you mean about internet friends, my first friend on here was friends with Hope, who passed and she never really got over it eventually she left after a year or so, and I still miss her, luckily shes on Steam but we dont talk like we used to on here. in fact I talk to people here more than my sisters lol. I always say to myself "everythings ok" "its all as it should be" and stuff like that, I used to have depression and anxiety with panic attacks for a long time, but I sorted myself out thank goodness, now its just aches and pains, so lets keep dancing and ignore the crap.

I am fairly certain I have PCOS and really, really severe acid reflux that causes me to vomit daily, and I am never not in pain as a result. I also do happen to have anxiety, depression and PTSD, so it'd be very easy for them to put me under that umbrella but I'm not having it. I'm pretty assertive when it comes to advocacy for myself and loved ones.

I would consider migraines as the source but I very rarely have headaches, honestly. (Thankfully, that sounds really rough)

I went a long time without getting any help because I'm not fond of doctors but I've decided it's really time I stopped neglecting my health as I have a little one to take care of.

Hey!

I have nausea, vomiting, full body aches (like how you have when you have the flu or a hangover). I have periods where full body pain and aches will hit my tissue and joints out of nowhere and render me useless and immobile from the pain. And cystic acne on the lower half of my face. It's been really crappy. ;;

I just realized what a laundry list of symptoms that is..

omg! , FLOWERS!!! damn. lol. i've forgotten all about them. goes to see if i have any and better get started getting some!

RAGGY!! HEY BABE!

for you have to do the Underline, to make her name work.

, oh man. i can relate. with my phone acting up, (and the other day, i couldn't get online AT ALL and every time i tried to do any thing else FB or Pinterest, it wouldn't connect either) I realized, "omg. i'm stuck in these 4 walls and HAVE NO COMMUNICATION WITH ANY ONE" lol. ok. so it's not 4 walls. it's a house, with an OUT Side. but you get what i mean. i started freaking a bit, because i didn't have a single person to talk to! lol and for some one who lives in books, that's pretty bad when i feel that way.

(meaning, not even a book was distracting me) I NEED TO BE ABLE TO AT LEAST TALK TO OTHERS!

, PLEASE go to the doctors. that's one thing about my mom. she really bugged every one to take care of their health. but she kept putting hers off. she had a doctors appointment. and a week before the appointment, she died. so PLEASE. at least go every once in a while.

and Thank god for RAGGY and GEORGIE and a few other peeps. when I get really really down/depressed, they have helped me get back up and kick myself in the butt. :D ❤ them.