Have you ever cheated?
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No but I've flirted with other guys. I wouldn't cheat though.
My answers to the questions: Nope, nope and nope.
Ive cheated once. Did it because he cheated on me (several times, we were only in 9th grade so my thought process was immature) and the boy i cheated on him with was my ex who i had a hard time saying no to, we pecked lips and exchanged i love yous.. went home and told him straight away, crying hysterically I was so guilty. I am still with him (4 years, he was upset but stayed with me) but in august i have found out he has cheated on me with 8 different girls (maybe more) in dec-march of this year, some physical, some non physical. I had to catch him, infact his friend was the one who told me, theyre no longer friends. after hours of begging to come clean and arguing he finally did. any trust is gone, i check everything and anything he does.. The relationship isnt good at all but its getting better. I do really love him, Im aware most people would leave.
All I can say is that cheating is the worst thing anyone can do to there partner. If you're unhappy, leave.
Never cheated but have occasionally had thoughts of other people like nude and that was very early on in the current relationship. I always tell my partner straight away and never feel guilty of it because I never acted on it. Adrian thought about me naked prior to us going out so I don't take offense. I also alert him if I have a dream about an ex or an old crush but those dreams aren't sexual. There are circumstances in which I am ok with cheating but those are super rare and must be talked to with the partner prior that for the most part I am against it. I think in cases where the other partner is in lovw but you yourself are out of love then either you talk to work it out or end it. Cheating to feel something cause doing it with your so is dull is not nor will ever be a good thing.
I've cheated once or twice before, with the same people.
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Basically I had been in this relationship with a guy for a few months. It was a lot of fun being with him! It wasn't that I didn't love him or enjoy him enough, it was my best friend (I know, right?). I had been in love with her for years before I had had that boyfriend. She knew and I think he suspected, but it was never talked about. So one night, I stay at her house and one thing leads to another. She used my feelings against me and I'm sure you can guess what happened. Yes, she tricked me. Yes, I still did it. I did it knowing that I was cheating on my then boyfriend. But it didn't matter to me then because I had loved her so much. I'd have done anything for her. So it happened. And she told my boyfriend that we had done it. He was upset and mad at me, but I think he overlooked it because he loved me that much. Afterwards, it had happened another time, me and her. But we acted like it didn't and she didn't tell again. But things weren't the same for me with my then boyfriend because I thought that maybe I would have had a chance with her.Nothing ever came of it and I soon broke up with my then boyfriend. My best friend and I, however, continued to do the do like it was nothing... Four years later, after a nasty breakup with that boyfriend, my best friend is no longer that and my ex and I are on pretty good terms! We text every few days. Funny enough, they ended up dating for a year or so, too. Haha. Funny how everything turns out, right?
Yes I have. When I was dating, lets call him C, he started to say that I was cheating on him. It was two years into our relationship and I was loyal as can be. I got tired that he was telling me that I'm sleeping around with other guys, I couldn't handle it anymore. My logic was, if he's saying I am, I should do it so he can be right!
So I went to a weekend Sign Language Camp to get a higher grade in my class and I met a guy there and let me call him E. During the weekend, we kept sneaking off and 'talking' to each other and getting to know one another. He was a great guy and super sweet, attractive and told me that he had never been with a girl because his studies were more important.
Saturday night, we slept in his tent because it was so cold it was snowing. We started using our voices to whisper back and forth and we ended up kissing. He was super bad at it seeing how it was his 'first kiss'. He told me that he really liked me and wanted to leave C for him. I told him that I couldn't since I lived with him but he was always telling me I was cheating on him. With that logic back in my mind, we ended up sleeping together. Protection of course. I felt. . . eh on the whole thing. What I did was wrong but I got tired of being told that I was cheating when I wasn't. So I did it.
C and I stayed together and me and E stopped talking and he went his own way. About six months later, I cheated again on C with a guy I'll call D. I fell madly in love with D and wanted to be with him. After several sexy escapades, I left C for D. (Sorry for all the letters. Don't want to give out real names.) Me and D didn't work out after he cheated on me over twenty times. What comes around goes around. I'm no longer with any of the guys and have a husband that I've never cheated on. We're great and I know that cheating is very, very, very bad.
