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Sep 7, 2015 10 years ago
Katana
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Chynna
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? Like...12 maybe?

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) Tom Felton

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Both, but if they have a terrible personality it won't work.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? I've dabbled in it some

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? No, I'm married

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Trust, Love, Loyalty

Sep 8, 2015 10 years ago
DoomQueen
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Mandos_Namo
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 22

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? Jason Momoa

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Personality

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? No.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? No. I find Subeta is much too similar to tumblr. Filled with self-righteousness and vitriol.

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Everyone already knows the main ones being communication, intimacy, trust, respect, compromise, honesty, and so on. So here's three different ones.

(1) Pick and choose your battles wisely: Don't fight over every little thing. Don't nag. He left the seat up again? Let it go. She is late again for dinner? Let it go. Save your fights for when it's over something more meaningful. Don't get caught up over the little things that don't really matter in the long run.

(2) Forgiveness: Your partner will do things that upset and hurt you. It doesn't make it right, but we all make mistakes. You'll mess up too maybe even worse. Forgive and don't hold on to bitterness or resentment that will slowly poison your relationship. Now obviously this doesn't apply to abusive relationships.

(3) Have fun: your partner should be your best friend. Complete goals and projects together. Work as a team. Go on dates. Go on vacations/trips. Live. Love life and the person you are with. When life is going horribly have a water fight in the back yard. Be spontaneous. Enjoy the short amount of time you'll have with that person because one day they'll be gone (through your death, their death, or the parting of ways).

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Sep 16, 2015 10 years ago
Tardis
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Quote by Keltec07

3. Humor- If you can&;t laugh during sex you&;re doing it wrong.

I subconsciously giggle during sex. Not because it's funny but it's my go to reaction to when I really like something. My ex boyfriend hated when I giggled. I kept telling him I wasn't laughing at him. It's just a subconscious reaction. My current boyfriend thinks it's funny.

Sep 16, 2015 10 years ago
Yikes
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 19

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? Rami Malek

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Personality is more important than looks, for sure.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? I have not.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? Most likely not!

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Both partners need to be supportive of each other, they should try to be understanding and forgiving (listen to your partner, don't fight with them, it works better that way), and have a sense of humor!

Sep 17, 2015 10 years ago
Keltec07
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FleurDelacour

Quote by Tardis

3. Humor- If you can&;t laugh during sex you&;re doing it wrong.

I subconsciously giggle during sex. Not because it's funny but it's my go to reaction to when I really like something. My ex boyfriend hated when I giggled. I kept telling him I wasn't laughing at him. It's just a subconscious reaction. My current boyfriend thinks it's funny.

My girlfriend tickles me which sends me into a fit. I'm really sensitive and everywhere is super ticklish. It makes her laugh so it's worth it. Sometimes she says stuff that's super out of left field for her and I end up laughing so hard we have to stop.

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Sep 17, 2015 10 years ago
Tardis
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I'm super ticklish as well. Sounds like you two have an awesome relationship.

Sep 17, 2015 10 years ago
Holden
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 16

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? I don't really have one. I like Kristen Stewart as a person.

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Picky about both.... looks are easier to gauge than personality but also reveal a bit about it.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? Yes. Not for me.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? Nah, I like it drama free here.

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Attraction, comfortability, self esteem.

Sep 18, 2015 10 years ago
Verdi
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Adelay_654
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 14

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? johnny depp

  3. Are you about looks or personality? personality

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? yes

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? no and no

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: trust, honesty, respect

Sep 19, 2015 10 years ago
Hartley
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? I don't really remember, 10?

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) n/a

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Looks 100%. I'm vain, shallow and refuse to associate on such a basis with someone unappealing to me.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? Yes, numerous times with varying degrees of success.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? Unlikely/no.

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: (In my personal opinion and relationships) Convenience, attraction, practicality.

Sep 19, 2015 10 years ago
threeleafclover
attended a Subeta meetup!
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Twylae
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? Early teens.

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? Johnny Depp, I've swooned over him for nearly twenty years (aaaaand now I feel old).

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Personality is always more important, and it's the only thing that lasts. The only time I've ever gone for looks over personality, I ended up horribly disappointed (the guy was beyond dull). Besides, when you fall in love with someone, they always become more attractive to you.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? I met my husband online but waaaay back, before online dating was really a thing. I'm not sure there were even dating sites back then, at least not like there are now (we met in a chatroom and used to talk over ICQ and on Napster - MSN Messenger wasn't even around yet!)

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? No.

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Communication is arguably the most important thing, because if you can talk to each other you can get through just about anything. Trust is an obvious one. Then lastly, I think similar life goals - you can have different interests/hobbies/friends, but it's important for your long term happiness to agree on the "big stuff" like religion, whether marriage/kids is something you want, etc.

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Sep 20, 2015 10 years ago
AutumnRain_724
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 21

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? Evelyne Brochu <3

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Personality. Looks do matter but gOD if they can't catch my interest with their wit/kindness/shared interests/intellect/etc, I can only stare at their pretty face for so long before being bored enough to cry.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? Not exactly? But the bae and I are long distance right now so its pretty online lol.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? (Answered as if I'm not currently dating someone lol) I'm not particularly opposed? But I'm also not particularly interested? With the internet there is that extra layer of caution so unless we're suuuuuuper good friends and chat a lot, the answer is "I'm flattered but don't feel the same."

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Communication - if you don't feel comfortable talking about problems or gross stuff together, I will tell you right now it will not be a good relationship. And also how to not turn everything into a shouting match, violence, and/or tears. Learning how to listen, speak and not offend, and compromise are the foundations of every relationship (and will save you the 20 chapters of fanfiction angst in your romantic journey). Having Apart Time and Other Friends - no matter who it is, if you stick with someone all the time you're going to get sick of them. Having time/outings apart from your significant other is suuuuper important. Be your own person first. You are not an entity that exists with your partner. Having only mutual friends is not healthy. Similar Morals + End Goals - It makes it a lot easier to not have to compromise on morals, manners, and what you imagine your life is going to be like 10 years from now.

Sep 28, 2015 10 years ago
Shelbi
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Linnk
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 12

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) Markiplier (youtube celeb count?)

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Personality first. Looks are midly important.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? I have done it a few times x.x

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? I have done it on neo before. So anythings possible :p

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Trust Love Honesty

Sep 30, 2015 10 years ago
HazelRah
wants to believe
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss?: 19!
  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one): Roy Kim <3 <3 <3
  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one): Personality, if I don't find someone attractive off the bat but their personality is great I will find them more and more physically attractive
  4. Have you ever tried online dating?: Yes, but after dating in real life I would never do it again
  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta?: No
  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Trust, communication, fun

Haikyuu obsessed

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Oct 3, 2015 10 years ago
leopoldlion
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Lenor_280
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 17

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? UH. Sebastian Stan

  3. Are you about looks or personality? Personality 100%

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? No, I actually married my highschool sweetheart

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? I met one of my favorite people on subeta. I suppose I would if I was looking?

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Humor, trust, and sucking it up over the little stuff.

Oct 3, 2015 10 years ago
Clopin
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Animal Kingdom
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? Never had one because I'm a mean little boy that snarks away all people. And is oblivious to all flirting.

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) Adam Lambert lord pls why are you 13 years older than me.

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) I'm a little vain in that I like both quite a bit but if you have the right personality then looks don't matter really.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? No lol god no.

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh proooooooobably not.

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Openness, understanding, and trust.

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Oct 3, 2015 10 years ago
Vallaria
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Psychalgia

1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? Eighteen! I would have been 12 but I never wanted to kiss that boyfriend, lol. Then from 15 onwards to 19 I was in a very serious long distance relationship! He ended up being my first kiss.

2. Who's your celebrity crush? Pick one?! Bluuuuh.. I'd have to say Thomas Brodie-Sangster. He seems like such a top bloke and he's my fave actor.

3. Are you about looks or personality? Probably like 70/30 personality/looks. The only "nope" factors looks-wise is a lack of hygiene, really. That and typical neckbeard attire...

4. Have you ever tried online dating? I have! Worked out pretty well for me. I'm pausing my dating life for now, though.

5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? I used to date someone on Subeta 5 or so years ago, though the relationship wasn't formed through Subeta. I don't know enough about the general vibe of.. Subetans? to really say if I'd go back.

6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Trust, understanding, common morals/life goals.

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Oct 4, 2015 10 years ago
Huskiel
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
  • I've yet to kiss anyone romantically ever ahah;;
  1. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one)
  • I don't think I have one??
  1. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one)
  • Personality without a doubt, though looks are bonus points haha
  1. Have you ever tried online dating?
  • Nope, and probably never will
  1. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta?
  • Nope on both counts
  1. Name 3 things that make a relationship work:
  • Communication, Honesty, Loyalty

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Oct 5, 2015 10 years ago
Worry
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1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 11

  1. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) Emile Hirsch

  2. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Personality for sure. Of course looks play a part - you're lying if you say they don't - but personality is what hooks me. An attractive person with a horrible personality is ugly to me.

  3. Have you ever tried online dating? Never.

  4. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? No, I would not.

  5. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: Trust, communication, and being able to laugh with one another.

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Oct 9, 2015 10 years ago
Hulkling
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  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 16, I think? Sophomore year of high school at any rate.

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) Right now, Rami Malek

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Personality if I have to pick one.

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? No, I basically have just ended up dating friends (that I happen to have met online, but that's different than OkCupid)

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? Well, I got into Subeta because of my partner , so...

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work:

  • Communication
  • Communication
  • Also maybe communication and also snuggles

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Oct 9, 2015 10 years ago
Puss
got laid
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Maxwell
  1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? I was literally 4

  2. Who's your celebrity crush? (pick one) None right now

  3. Are you about looks or personality? (pick one) Personality, but looks are a big thing

  4. Have you ever tried online dating? Yes and I regret

  5. Would you date or are you dating someone on Subeta? No, I'd rather have this as my own space

  6. Name 3 things that make a relationship work: I've yet to make one work

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