Hey I'm sorry to hear about your loss. :( My Mom passed a few months ago and the going is still definitely hard. I haven't read any fiction books--mainly nonfiction like The Orphaned Adult. I haven't gone to any grief counseling yet. I live alone so between work, trying to help my Dad when I can, and adopting a kitten they've kept me busy. :) My sister made a cd of music that my Mom enjoyed listening to. I listen to that when I have a bad day. :) hugs

Very sorry for your loss.And pray that you two will get through the grieving part.My neighbor has lost her husband and i've been checking on her daily so she doesn't feel alone.I helped out with all the arrangements and got things organised for her.She feels alone anyway and as she says always will.She talks to him constantly and i find that it's a healthy thing to do,just try to get through it the best way you can and do whatever works best for you.Just a hug and even some small things will show love.I take her out and just talk about anything,it really doesn't matter what...we usually end up having a good day and have a bit of fun in some way.I know she appreciates it and she knows exactly why and what i'm doing trying to keep her mind occupied on other things.Time is the only thing that actually helps things along.We never will forget of course.If she is religeous then i'd go see the pastor and ask for prayers.Nothing wrong with asking for elders to help with hands on prayers. Sorry to hear about your Mom too dear.

Thanks Andreas. :) That's really sweet what you're doing for your neighbor--she's lucky to have you. :)

Thanks dear. :)

I am deeply sorry for your loss, and may your father rest in peace.

I am sorry for your loss as well, dearest.

I'm not sure on books, but I know counseling works. They are trained to know what to say and help with coping. I think it might really help her.

I don't know how religious you are and I don't usually recommend this because I'm not very religious myself, but I've seen faith heal the heart. It'll give a sense of connection to her husband and most likely make her feel like hes with her. When shes ready, I would take her to a few masses.

Hey, I don't know what its like to lose a parent, but I do know its difficult. if you ever need anything, feel free to sMail me. I'm almost always online and free to talk.

Thank you. :)