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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Keelah

I'm not saying that everything is America? That's exactly what I'm trying to explain by pointing this out, as the word "gypsy" is not a huge issue in America but is incredibly racist in various parts of Europe.

I didn't mean to be patronizing but I am honestly finding no information regarding Fif as a slur. If you could help me read more about where the word comes from I would find that very helpful.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Hyacinthe

Fif/Fifi are french shortenings of the word effeminate, used in a pejorative way to designate gay males.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Ito

I totally understand wanting to have it changed and I think it's good that you're doing what you think need to be done. I hope I didn't come across as being anti-this (cuz I'm not), I just know so many people on this site have flipped their shit over various offensive items (fetus pops, kinky love, etc.) and it can get ridiculous. But no in the long run I do agree on the racism part.

Okay yeah that makes sense. But I don't know, I base so much on context -shrug- To each their own I suppose.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Anzo

idk it's a hard sell to me to say some of these items aren't explicitly referring to roma/romani people, especially when this exists as an item description: Cause deep down, everyone wants to dress up in tacky colored clothes and dance around for other peoples change. What, it sounds fun!!

there's really no nice way to spin stereotypical schlock like that. i'd like to think subeta has grown in the time since that item was released. i would really like to think that we as a site are better than this.

and hell, if atebus's culture really needs a word that refers to a roaming community of people, just use the word "nomad." that ought not to be a hard switch.


Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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BadFish

Try the urban dictionary - it comes up as a french slur.

. . . Someone told me I have two faults. I don't listen and . . . some other stuff they were rattling on about.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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I find that context and intention is so tricky, that it's usually just better to play on the safe side of it and not use something that might hurt and/or offend someone else. Better to be seen as one of those 'annoying PC people' than an intolerant asshole :P

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Try the urban dictionary - it comes up as a french slur.

All of my sources were well, french sites, I'm glad you managed to find something! Thumbs up and thanks for confirming that I'm not spewing bullshit 100% of the time.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Keelah

I apologise for coming across as patronizing. When I added french/france to my search I found a few people referencing it as a slur but no major references to it, and before I knew what culture it came from I was finding literally nothing in reference to the word.

That being said, while I understand your way of dealing with this item is to leave it be, I also see a difference between your complaint and mine. This item is obviously completely ignorant of any homophobic stereotype and is blatantly meant to sound like a lisped version of the word "fifth". While it's unfortunate that it DOES spell out a slur, the Gypsy Outfit is BLATANTLY targeting stereotypical Romani culture and racist depictions of Romani people.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Quote by [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quebec_French_lexicon#Slang_terms
This took literally 2 minutes to find[/url]]Fif | Homosexual

Yeah I'm kind of indifferent to the gypsy item, I do think the description could be changed if not the name, and I don't think Iltallo really needs "the Gypsy" on his page either, considering this is literally the first time I've ever heard him referred to as a gypsy.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Keelah

I just want to apologise again for my searching skills, all I was finding were things about FIFA and I have no idea why what I was searching wasn't bringing me results.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Ito

Those were dark times

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Bella

I could have sworn the gypsy outfit was pretty much a direct reference to Esmeralda from the hunchback of notre dame? Since it's her exact clothes with some changed colors?

I guess that doesn't make it any less offensive though. If you're offended, you're offended and that's that.

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Probably because google caters to your location, and the things you've searched before. Since you're in America, there'd be little reason for it to show you french sites.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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<p>Probably because google caters to your location, and the things you&;ve searched before. Since you&;re in America, there&;d be little reason for it to show you french sites.

And since I'm in french-speaking quebec, i had a hard time finding a relevant website in english

Makes sense.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Yup. I sometimes get Japanese or Chinese sites, but that's probably because my computer still remembers my anime searches from way back XD

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Yikes.

I just updated the description on the item - I'm making a larger post elsewhere about this now :).

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Ito

That was fast :D The new description is very nice.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Anzo

thanks for the edit. while i remain in the "rename the items" camp, that description if nothing else really needed to be fixed.


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Yup, I'll be posting about it in a second :).

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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On the first page you asked about shows with "gypsy" in the name, here's a few. I have never seen these shows but they were brought up with a quick google search.

  • My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding (TLC)
  • Gypsy Sisters (TLC)
  • American Gypsies (National Geographic Channel)

All three look to be reality shows that likely have very little truth on the lives of gypsies. But just wanted to point out that here in America, this is what we get.

I personally don't think of gypsy itself as a slur word unless it is used in that context. A huge chunk of words though fit that description which is unfortunate. Personally I find gypsy a very pleasant sounding and looking word and would hate for it to be gone from Subeta. That said, I wouldn't mind if the items were changed to something like traveler or wanderer since that seems to be what they were going for.

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