No, don't worry- I cleaned that part up. Then I also put a shit-ton of my stuff in the bathroom's cabinet there, so it's all filled up. Where is she gonna put anything now?

I might try that, but the other two girls in my hallway don't want to get involved/take sides.

They may not want to take sides and I understand that however what if it were them? Wouldn't they want someone to back them up? However I still think you should talk to your CA about a new suite mate. It starts with the bathroom but things are only going to get worse and worse if something isn't done.

I'm simply curious and not trying to be rude when I say this, so please don't take it that way. Why are you unable to put your things in a bath caddy? You seem to have only a few bathroom supplies that are lightweight and small and can easily be carried in a caddy with just one hand. If that's not possible, is there no way you can put your things in the caddy and leave it in the bathroom. That would make it easy enough that you could put it under the cabinet when not in use and then set it on the counter when you are using it so you have all your things right there.
She's definitely being unreasonable and more than a little controlling, but putting honey and tacks on things doesn't make you look very good. Sure, it's funny, but it's definitely immature as well and probably not going to make you look very good if your CA comes by... not to mention that it is surely difficult for you to use those things yourself now that they are covered in honey and tape.
Again, please don't take my post in the wrong tone. I'm just not understanding why it wouldn't be easier to take the high road.

ETA: Also, leaving your toothbrush out where she has easy access to it is probably a really horrible idea. If she's vindictive enough she has easy opportunity to do some pretty nasty things with it and you would never know. I've heard many stories of people using their roommates toothbrush to clean the toilet, scratch a crotch itch, etc and then putting the toothbrush back in the holder like nothing ever happened. :x

Because I had surgery on my arm, every little thing I do makes me tired. If I have to put things away and then underneath the sink, then up again, I get tired. And with me having classes everyday, occupational therapy twice a week, working on TWO senior theses, and being on medication, it is harder than you'd think. PLUS, I have little motor control over my left hand, and no feeling in much of my left arm in general. I really only can use one hand. I can't open the door either with one hand holding something and the other in a cast. My hands are too small. I did already clean up the honey and tacks and removed them all, but I filled up the cabinet with my things- things I don't care about getting stolen. And the toothbrush? The bristles are clear and I have an exceptional sense of smell. I can tell if it smells weird. I would also notice if the toothbrush is damp when it shouldn't be.

Secondly, I don't want to move my things. If she had asked or talked to me about it instead of demanding or just taking my things, then I wouldn't have minded. But now? No. It is easier for me to have my things where they are and they are not bothering anyone except for her, and yes we have already talked about that. I'm entitled to be immature if she's threatening me. She's threatening ME, a handicapped girl. How is that okay? I only have those three things out there. They aren't in anyone's way, making a mess of things or bothering anyone but her.

Also, I've lived for years with my brother touching and stealing all of my things. I feel violated that she would do that, and because of my past with my brother I hate to feel that way. That's why I acted immaturely. Again, if she had asked and talked about this with me FROM THE START, then I wouldn't really have too much of a problem. I didn't know I was going to get surgery then. But now, because I have had the surgery, she needs to be lenient because I am handicapped. Harassing, threatening and impeding my healing process and myself is not something I will just forget and forgive and take the high road. She has no right to tell me or to touch my things.

I've scheduled a meeting with the director of resident life tomorrow afternoon. We'll see what happens then.

True. I will talk with the director of resident life tomorrow about that as well. We'll see what can be done.

Hmm.. I never said her behavior was okay. :/ I even went out of my way to make sure that it was clear that I felt she was in the wrong. I was simply trying to understand better and offer a couple of possible solutions until she can be dealt with by the CA. You can get a caddy that goes up over your good arm or shoulder so your hand is free to open doors, etc.

I don't feel and never said that you should forgive and forget either. I know first hand how physically and emotionally draining it is to live with or near to someone who is a nuisance. I have also learned that it is best not to stoop to their level while dealing with them though because it only escalates the situation and makes you both look bad instead of just them. Passive aggressive acts towards her aren't going to make her suddenly realize just how wrong she is. In her mind it will only further justify her position.

I was simply trying to help. I'm sorry that I offended you (or at least it seems that way since your reply comes across defensively). :(

I apologize. I just wanted to stress my point that I am justified. Maybe not in acting passive aggressive, as you said, but in my stance. I don't know about any caddies that would do that, though- have a strap, I mean. I also didn't mean to imply that you thought I should just be okay with what she is doing. I didn't necessarily want her to realize that she's wrong; I only wanted to frustrate her. You asked those questions to clarify your understanding, correct? I only meant to explain the situation I'm in and my feelings on it. When I asked if it was okay what she was doing, I meant that that was how I felt, and how I see her- because she feels that what she's doing is okay. Again, I apologize. I'm sorry that I did not word my post correctly to not offend you. You certainly did not offend me. :)

But yes, I am talking with the director tomorrow and hopefully we'll come to a good conclusion for me.

I see. Well, good luck with your situation. I do understand your frustration. I am currently dealing with a nuisance neighbor who plays his drums for hours on end, randomly screams obscenities in the middle of the night, and apparently uses our shared apartment wall for kickball practice. When we politely addressed him about the situation he acted like he was shocked we could hear him and apologized. The minute the conversation was finished he went back in his apartment and sang "Yooou can't stop me, you can't stop me!!" like a child would and then used his drumsticks to play on the wall. His behavior is taking a physical toll on my body because I can't sleep and have a nervous stomach. I'm nervous and on edge because if we make any noise (like turning on the shower water) and he realizes that we're home he will immediately begin to be excessively noisy. I'm just mentally exhausted from the blatant bad behavior directed towards me simply because I expect to live in a semi-quiet environment. I can't even watch television, listen to music, read, or play a video game because I can't hear my electronics or concentrate over his noise and I refuse to turn them up loud enough to hear them because I don't want to disturb my other neighbors. :/ I'm waiting for the landlord to deal with the situation and I know she will, but it is almost impossible to endure his torturous behavior in the meantime and I have certainly enjoyed dreaming up all the evil ways I could get revenge if I wanted to. So, I get it and I hope your situation is rectified quickly. :)

Thank you. I hope things get better for you as well. You know that you can call the police and report him, right?

Yeah, I worked in real estate for many years selling and renting homes, so I know my rights as a renter. My first choice of action has been to go to the landlord and let her deal with him though because she's a no nonsense kind of person and has evicted people on my behalf before (which was not really what I wanted, but it did make it a lot quieter around here). Calling the police is also a last resort for me because the police and dispatch here are incompetent. I actually had an operator laugh at me when I told her it sounded like a woman was being raped in the field next to our home because she was crying and screaming and a man was yelling "lay down bitch".

Fortunately for me, this guy is in his early 20s and a Mormon. His tabernacle (or Bishop possibly?) has their name on the lease and they rotate through young men who live in the apartment (I assume it has something to do with their missions or something). But, anyway, what this means is that every 3-4 months two new young men move in and the other two move out. Most of them are very quiet and friendly like you would expect them to be since they are representing their religion. Sometimes one of them will show a complete disregard for others like he has. At least if he absolutely will not stop I can take heart in knowing I only have to deal with him for a limited amount of time.