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I could never live with my mom if I had 2 kids. She's terrible with us (my 2 brothers and I). I truly only have 1 other friend besides my boyfriend so it's not hard to balance them for me xD But I can see where you're coming from. Both of my parents were 16 when I was born and my dad pretty much always says that I messed up his future, and he hates my mom. So I can understand the stress. /:
I eventually want to have kids but my boyfriend wants to wait until hes at least in his late 20's but... I don't want to wait xD I totally love kids.
Haha it's not an ideal situation I wish I had my own place, but I lost my job while I was 6 months pregnant. They claimed it was because I was a terrible worker, but I know it's because they didn't like the liability of me being pregnant. My fiance will be 26 and he was told he wouldn't be able to have kids because of a car accident he had when he was 21. So he's perfectly happy right now, me, I would've been okay with one, but hey, I love my girls <3 I'd say wait, but I know you know what's best for you ;P
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Aww that's cute :) I love happy little families. My boyfriend right now is 20, and I'm 17 and he does not want kids right now.... I totally would if I had a steady job. :P But yeah. I know for now I couldn't be a good caretaker so.. I wait :P
I'm hoping to get a job after we move, but right now my grandma is going back to work and I can't afford daycare so x-x I'll be babysitter until we move haha Which is fine with me P:
Haha, I like to think so ;)
And ya, I love babysitting :) well... Kids that I know. Like in my family there's TONS of kids. I have 5 younger siblings, 8 cousins under the age of 10 as of right now just on my dads side, and on my moms side I only have 1 cousin that's in my small family but he lives in texas xD
I only have three cousins that I see a lot, but they range from 15 to 6 so xD I have a large family too, but it's mostly adults now, not so much kids.
Yeah my youngest brothers are nearly 11 years shy of me :P so I understand how that is. And I have a HUGE family on both sides. It's super crazy. My great-grandma on my dad's side has 16 siblings, and she herself has 9 kids... So... LOTS of relatives :P
I know!!!! I'm barely keeping my sanity with 5 siblings :P I'm the oldest lol. I only live with 2 of them though. My brother(s). It's kinda confusing, because one of them is transgender, so he's really my sister but we all call him (her) Gillby. It's cool. :P
wow idk how you do it. I'm 22 and i can barely handle myself. thats amazing though - says a lot about you are :D
it happens. my mom was 19 when she had me. i can't stand when people put young moms down... my mom did great with me and she's my best friend! i turned out amazing if i do say so myself. just because other people got "lucky" and didn't have kids young, doesn't mean those that did are bad people. if anything i think they are strong people who are able to be amazing parents before most people their age are ready
how old are they :) I love kiddies. I can't wait to have my own someday. I really want a son and a daughter. I love the name Autumn <3 but i suppose i'll have to wait and see what god gives me.
I don't even have boyfriend yet. Dating but no one really makes me think about marriage :/ i was engaged about a year ago, but that fell through. He got scared and cheated on me. I was so mad and knew i couldn't marry someone who would do that ... so back to stage one.
Ah yeah, I've been through that. My oldest daughter's dad was so mean to us I just don't even know how I put up with it for as long as I did Eh, just grateful it's over with and I'm not bothered by him anymore
Men are finicky haha
<3<3 awe so cute!!! I'm glad you have found your way out of the bad situations and found someone new :D
My ex was mean to me too. I often question why i ever thought marriage was even in the question. Young and in love...
That's exactly what it is I mean, being young too, you sometimes don't know how to get yourself out of situations, even when you want to.