on your loved one?

or leaving them because a random awesome person just fell into your life?

just a random question for my random mood today

my head is spinning, and I'm confused :o

Yes, and when those thoughts started coming through I needed to evaluate the relationship because it was obvious my needs weren't being fulfilled.

No.

If you really do love them you shouldn't really be all that tempted in the first place. If you are, then clearly they're not that much of a loved one, imo anyways.

sigh

I love him but been with him so long, it's like we're just good friends now... passion is gone.... the time we've been together is one of the reasons I'd be afraid of breaking it off too.

but the new guy is just crazy and fun, no one I'd even think about spending the rest of my life with, but I have a great time hanging out with them...

I've been keeping the new guy just as a friend for some time.... and I don't wanna end the friendship at all :(

That is what happens in a relationship... the passion fades and you have friendship. You get comfortable, you get routines, you don't 'date' each other anymore.

Relationships take work. If you love this person like you say that you do, you wouldn't be considering the grass on the other side, especially if you do not see yourself with that person. Have a talk with your boyfriend and let him know how you are feeling (minus the thinking about cheating) - it is likely he is feeling stagnant as well. If he cares the same for you, you both can work together to rekindle the fire.

You seem young, take it easy. You'll see that in the end all you have is companionship.

I would never dream of cheating. That's just wrong. But, leaving someone because you are attracted more to someone else... that's understandable, and a lot better than cheating. If you don't feel the same about who you're with anymore, and you find your heart going to another person... then you need to think about the situation and decide who you want more and what you want to do with your love life.

I was more than tempted...I actually went through with it. Not worth the hassle, really.

Nope, when I have a partner I don't even NOTICE other people. Unfortunately, my parters always do. FML.

I've never been tempted to cheat, but my previous boyfriends were apparently xD But they were just silly boys. (:

Nope. I don't really notice people other than my boyfriend (other than silly celeb crushes, but obviously I'm not going to run off to have an affair with an actor). I'd be heartbroken if my boyfriend ever did, and vice verse, but I don't think either of us would have any desire to do so.

Yes, and I've also been the other woman too. Do I feel guilty ? nope and as long as the wife doesn't find out, I'm fine w/ it. Yeah I realize how that sounds, but sometimes you need to let the urges out... ;) Doesn't mean I wanted to break them up. It just happens.

yups, i did i cheated on my 1st bf two..no, wait.. three times and never felt guilty because i never really cared about him

it bit me in the ass though, very hard my next bf treated me like crap and cheated a lot

what comes around, goes around..

sometimes someone goes through my head, but i'd never dream of leaving him. never ever. love him to death.

Oh, I thought this was going to be about cheating on a test in school or something...

But back on topic, I'm single, but I would never think about cheating if I had a boyfriend. My aunt and uncle recently got divorced because my aunt had to be a whore and go cheat on my uncle. :|

In my previous relationship? Yeah, I thought about it. I even went through with it. The relationship had been dead for a while by that point, though. I tried talking to him about the issues, and things would improve for a few days, but then they'd go back to how they were before. The cheating occurred after all those attempts, and before I had the balls to end things. We ended on pretty good terms, though that probably would not have been the case if he knew things had gone beyond a kiss.

Would I think about cheating NOW? No. I've learned from my last relationship, and if I ever find myself seriously considering it again (as in, more than just a passing, "Oh, he's pretty...wanna hump")...it's definitely time to re-evaluate the relationship and work on fixing things within it. If things cannot be fixed, it's time to end the relationship.

...I sure hope my post makes some sense. My mind was all over the place trying to write this.

Never.

In the relationships I have been with, I wanted to be with them and I remain focused on who I was with.

No. I've never been tempted to cheat, and hope I never am. :/ If you're tempted obviously something is wrong in your relationship and needs some fixing.

duh, every time i see a hot chick (thats into me)!!

for me, part of love is being able to resist this temptation because it would bring a world of hurt into your relationship.

I've always thought it was stupid to place a limit on your life-long sex partners.

Passion fading is one of the suckiest things ever. -_- Once it's gone, you cant get it back.. But yes, I have been tempted. And I've given in to temptation too many times. oops.