Sounds like she feels there's something missing in her marriage, if she's really set on abandoning everything and risking meeting some random fling. Geez. She acts real immature about this :/

No she hasn't met him. She knows him off of a gaming site. Oh, and she talks to him on the phone.

Seriously, the biggest reason she's doing this is she wants laid because my dad hasn't touched her in three years. Well no kidding, in the past three years, he nearly died twice, once in a hit and run accident and again during the surgery to fix the aneurysm that the accident caused.

I told her to get over it and get a fucking vibrator or something.

She's so fucking open about it, too! EVERYONE down at school knows about this other guy. Everyone at dialysis knows about it. God, she's told everyone she knows.

Tell your dad, duh! Would you rather have your parents get a divorce, or have your mom run off and hurting your dad?

She's really only wanting to move because your dad hasn't touched her for a while? Tell her to get a fucking dildo or something, really.

Just tell your dad. His feelings would be hurt so much if you just let your mom run off without him knowing.

Talk to her. If it doesn't work, then tell your dad. You won't be the cause of their divorce, what she did is.

God :( I'm so sorry for you guys.

(I'd hide my dog and cat at a friends house btw. Don't let her take your animals if you can help it. You don't know this guy.)

I CAN'T tell my dad, because then he'll be pissed off at me for telling him and she'll be pissed off at me for telling him. It's a lose-lose situation. =/

Well, if I were you, I'd tell your father. There is no use in talking to your mother since she can't be level headed enough to understand. Go straight to the source; your father. Trust me, things will work out fine if you do this! :D

I don't know your situation, but I think your father might be more pissed off at that fact you knew all this time and didn't tell him. But then if he is like mine, he is more apt to shot the messenger.

You shouldn't have been put in this situation though. It does suck. My parents are in the middle of a "separation" and I can't tell you how tired I am of being the one stuck in the middle. It is hard having to be the mature one.

:( I can relate in a way. My mom likes to meet guys in AOL CHAT ROOMS! (I mean SERIOUSLY?!?!) And she was dating this one guy for like three years, and they broke up like two months ago, because she felt he was cheating on her. I mean the guy spent the night at his EX WIFE'S HOUSE! I mean you can't expect someone to be faithful to you when you meet in online chat room. People go there looking for a "good time". and she bitches at me and my boyfriend when we hold hands in the store -_-;

He IS one to shoot the messenger. Anyone who delivers any sort of bad news to him is automatically the bad guy and he hates them for whatever they told him.

It's complete bullshit.

I told her that when she calls him it better not be around me. I'm tired of being in the middle of this.